"Cia koj lub qhov ncauj kaw" (nruas): lub ntsiab lus thiab kev siv

Cia peb pib los ntawm afar. Tam sim no ib ob peb yog ntseeg hais tias cov silence - nws yog kub. Tam sim no ib tug ntau ntawm kev sib tham nrog, hais lus, sib tham. Nyob ib ncig ntawm peb, ib vam lo lus, uas yuav ua rau me ntsis kev txiav txim zoo. Rau cov neeg uas xav tias nws, raws li tau zoo raws li rau txhua leej txhua tus lwm tus niaj hnub no peb soj ntsuam cov kev qhia "kom koj lub qhov ncauj kaw" (nruas). Nws tseem ceeb yog suav tias yog nyob ze rau txhua cov piv txwv.

keeb kwm

Nws yog pom tseeb tias lub hauv paus chiv keeb phraseologism uas ntes tau peb paub niaj hnub no, txhua txhua hnub. Nws (tshwm sim) yog raws li nyob rau hauv lub soj. Thaum ib tug neeg uas ntsiag to, nws tus nplaig dag ntsiag to kaw, sab puab tsaig tsis txav, thiab hais tias yog tag nrho cov cai.

Muaj yog ib tug yooj yim txaus piav qhia txog cov genesis ntawm ib tug lus qhia "kom nyob ntsiag to": nruas, tus nqi ntawm uas qhia rau peb hais txog cov kev pab cuam ntawm silence nyob rau hauv tej lub sijhawm. Tsiv mus cov piv txwv ntawm kev siv. Lawv yuav pab kom peb to taub lub ntsiab lus ntawm cov lus sustainable nyob rau hauv nws txoj kev paub.

kev kuaj mob

Ntawm cov hoob kawm, ntau xav rov qab mus, tab sis cov tub ntxhais lub tsev kawm ntawv los yog nyob rau hauv lub koom haum - nws tsis yog ib qho chaw nyob qhov twg koj yuav ua kom koj lub qhov ncauj kaw.

Qhov zoo-paub zaj dabneeg. Tus menyuam kawm ntawv paub cov lus teb rau lo lus nug, thiab nws nyob ntsiag to. Muaj yog ib qho kev xav: nyob rau hauv xws li ib unpleasant teeb meem no, koj yuav tsum hais dab tsi, cov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws - tsis txhob ntsiag to. Ua tau zoo dua tej zaum yuav tau xav ib pliag, thiab ces ua tib zoo hais ib yam dab tsi. Thiab yog hais tias koj muaj tsis muaj dab tsi hais, koj yuav tsum hais tsawg kawg yog dab tsi kuv nco ntsoov zoo, nyob rau hauv kev cia siab hais tias tus ntsuas xyuas yuav khuv xim. Qhov no tsis yog cov feem ntau noble ua, tab sis cov kawg justifies cov txhais tau tias.

Yog hais tias lub uas ntsiag to guiltily, tus kws qhia ntawv tej zaum yuav hais tias, "Zoo, tub hluas, kom koj lub qhov ncauj kaw (cov kev qhia peb tau twb xav txog tej yam zoo heev) - nws tsis yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws txoj cai nyob rau hauv lub xeem." Thiab ces tus xib fwb yuav yog rub tus menyuam kawm ntawv los yog muab cov ntaub ntawv hauv phau ntawv thiab hais tias, tuaj mus re-zaum nyob rau hauv lub xaiv hnub.

muaj txij nkawm tsis sib haum

Txhua tus neeg uas muaj ib tug khub ntawm paub lub roob hluav taws nyob rau hauv lub xeev, thaum koj xav kov ntau precisely thiab ntau painfully, los ua pov thawj lawv superiority, uest ib tug neeg hlub ib tug uas nyob rau lub sij hawm no zoo nkaus li lub ntsiab yeeb ncuab thiab cov yeeb ncuab.

Nws yog nyob rau hauv qhov teeb meem no feem ntau thiab nco qab cov kev qhia "kom koj lub qhov ncauj kaw" (nruas). Tus nqi ntawm nws nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv no qhia rau peb hais tias cov kev txawj yog lub sij hawm mus hais ib yam dab tsi - nws yog ib tug kawg thiab kos duab. Nws yog ib, tsis muaj kev ua xyem xyav, cia ntau kev sib raug zoo ntawm cov neeg (long-term friendship, thiab ib tug lossis loj tus naj npawb ntawm kev sib yuav).

Ntawm no yog lub tseem ceeb tshaj plaws - kom rau koj tus kheej ua phem ua qias lus (feem ntau yog wrongly) thiab tos tawm ib tug dej nyab ntawm npau taws heev heev thiab kev sib ntxub. Sawv daws yeej paub lawv yog momentary. Peb cia siab tias tus nyeem ntawv yog ib qhov tseeb yuav ua li cas zoo qhia "kom koj lub qhov ncauj kaw" (nruas). Lub ntsiab lus nws yog tsis yog li ntawd tsis yooj yim rau to taub.

Advertising 90 thiab txhais rau phraseologisms

Nws tau raug advertising tus naas ej zom cov pos hniav, thiab ntawm no nws yog hais txog cov kab lus: "Nws yog tej zaum kuj zoo dua zom tshaj tham." Qhov tseem paradoxical nyob rau hauv qhov kev piv txwv uas lub cev aphorism txwv saib xyuas phraseologisms. Xeem convinces tus neeg tsis thab nws sab puab tsaig, thiab advertising - nyob rau tsis tooj. Tab sis cov tshwm sim yog ib qho tseem ceeb - silence. Nyob rau hauv ib rooj plaub - mus coj ib tug lub qhov ncauj zom, thiab nyob rau hauv lwm - ib tug txiv neej thiaj li tsis paub qab hau qhia lub qhov ncauj.

Tab sis qhia rau peb tawm nws. Muaj ntau ntau cov tshuaj piv txwv. Yog hais tias mam li nco dheev ib tug neeg seb puas tsimnyog tau rau lo lus nug ntawm seb ib daim duab ntawm kev hais lus, "Tuav koj tus nplaig," ib tug proverb uas yuav hloov tau, peb teb tias: "silence - kub" yog heev haum rau lub hom phiaj no.

Synonymous nyob rau hauv tej yam tshwm sim muaj peev xwm ua yuav luag txhua kab lus hais tias xav kom ib tug neeg mus rau silence. Piv txwv li, "tsis muaj hmoov av", "tsis tau them nqi", "txo qhov kub thiab txias", "silence nyob rau hauv lub cuab."

Raws li ib tug tshwm sim, cov neeg tseem yuav tau los xyuas seb yuav ua li cas yuav hu tau nkauj Bulat Okudzhava: "Yuav ua li cas npaum li cas, xav txog tej yam siab dawb siab zoo nyob rau hauv silence." Thiab lub ntsiab txhab ntawm cov kev qhia "kom koj lub qhov ncauj kaw." Hais txog silence spared ntau tshaj nyob rau hauv lub hais lo lus. Hais txog silence tsuas tu siab thaum ib tug neeg uas ntsiag to, thiab kev tsis ncaj ncees yuav mus nyob rau nyob rau hauv nws ob lub qhov muag.