Tus me nyuam quaj nyob rau hauv lub vaj: yuav ua li cas? Komorowski: adaptation tus me nyuam nyob rau hauv kindergarten. kev puas siab ntsws lub tswv yim

Ob peb muaj ib tug menyuam ua ntej mus ntsib ib tug kindergarten nqi tsis muaj kua muag. Tab sis, yog hais tias ib co adaptation rau preschools dhau kiag li thiab nyob rau hauv ib lub lim tiam los yog ob tug cov me nyuam xwb xyuam xim rau naps, ces lwm tus, txoj kev no yog qeeb rau ib ntev lub sij hawm, thiab qhov quaj alternates nrog kev txom cov kab mob. Vim li cas ib tug me nyuam quaj nyob rau hauv lub vaj? Yuav ua li cas? Komarovskiy E. O. - cov menyuam yaus, sau ntawm nrov phau ntawv thiab TV cov kev pab cuam txog cov me nyuam txoj kev noj qab haus huv - muab ib tug ncauj lus kom ntxaws qhia txog yuav ua li cas los daws kom tau cov teeb meem no tsis muaj compromising tus me nyuam thiab tsev neeg. Nyeem ntxiv txog qhov no nyob rau hauv peb tsab xov xwm.

Yog vim li cas ib tug me nyuam tsis xav mus rau kindergarten

Feem ntau ntawm cov me nyuam pib mus kawm kindergarten thaum lub hnub nyoog ntawm ob los yog peb lub xyoos. adaptation mus quaj vaj feem ntau nrog los yog taws. Ntawm no koj yuav tsum paub yog vim li cas tus me nyuam tsis xav mus rau hauv lub vaj thiab pab nws los mus kov yeej no barrier.

Lub ntsiab yog vim li cas rau qhov tsis zoo tus cwj pwm mus rau tus me nyuam Sadiq txuas rau parting nrog lawv niam lawv txiv. Nws hloov tawm hais tias mus txog peb xyoos me nyuam twb inextricably txuas nrog nws niam, thiab mam li nco dheev nws twb tshuav nyob rau hauv txawv ncig, ib puag ncig los ntawm neeg. Nyob rau tib lub los ntawm nws kuj yuav tsum tau hais tias nws noj thiab nqa tawm ib tug series ntawm kev ua, uas nws tau ua nyob rau hauv kev nyuaj siab yuav tsis ua li cas. Nws paub lub ntiaj teb no, paub los ntawm thaum yau, flips, thiab kua muag nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv no yuav tsis pom nrias tej.

Yog li, nws tseem tau mus qhia rau lub ntsiab yog vim li cas yog vim li cas ib tug me nyuam tsis xav mus rau kindergarten :

1. Nws tsis xav kom kom nrog nws niam (overprotection).
2. Ntshai hais tias nws tsis noj tam sim los ntawm lub vaj.
3. Nws yog ntshai ntawm pab neeg no thiab cov tshiab lub tsev.
4. Ntshai ntawm tus kws qhia ntawv.
5. Nws mob nyob rau hauv lub vaj.
6. Nyob rau hauv cov qib kindergarten kas pom tau tias kho siab.

Ib qho ntxiv uas yog tias cov me nyuam, zoo li cov laus, yog tseem sib txawv thiab tsis sib npaug teb rau qhov teeb meem no. Ib tug neeg sai sai adapting rau lub tshiab pab neeg, thiab ib tug neeg yuav tsis koom nrog nws txawm los ntawm xyoo ntawm lub koom haum. Nyob rau hauv no qhov teeb meem no, cov niam txiv yuav tsum npaj ua ntej tus me nyuam mus rau lub sib cais uas kua muag ntawm parting tsis tau muab rau hauv ib tug taws ib tug ob peb teev.

Yuav ua li cas yog tias tus me nyuam quaj nyob rau hauv lub vaj?

Tag nrho cov ua quaj nyob rau hauv cov me nyuam nyob rau hauv lub sij hawm ntawm adaptation rau cov qib kindergarten yog xam tau tias yog heev qub. Rau feem ntau feem thaum lub sij hawm thawj teev cov me nyuam siab nqig lawm, ua hauj lwm ntawm cov niam txiv los mus pab koj tus me nyuam kawm tau li cas kom tiv nrog tus cwj pwm txawv thiab sim mus nrhiav tau tawm los ntawm nws, yog vim li cas tus me nyuam quaj nyob rau hauv lub vaj.

Yuav ua li cas Komorowski qhia raws li nram no:

1. Yuav kom txo tau kev nyuaj siab, quav Sadiq yuav tsum gradual. Qhov phem tshaj cov ntaub ntawv scenario, qhov no thaum sawv ntxov thaum kuv niam tuskheej tus me nyuam nyob rau hauv lub vaj, cia nws muaj rau tag nrho lub hnub quaj, thiab nws mus ua hauj lwm yam xyuam xim. Yog li ntawd xav tsis pom zoo kom ua li cas. Peev xwm thiab kom adaptation implies hais tias qhov chaw nyob lub sij hawm nyob rau hauv lub vaj yuav tsum tau nce maj: thawj 2 xuab moos, ces pw tsaug zog txog thaum lub yav tav su thiab ces mus noj hmo. Txhua tom ntej theem yuav tsum pib tsuas yog tom qab kev vam meej Overcoming ntawm yav tas los ib. Yog hais tias ib tug me nyuam tsis tau noj tshais nyob rau hauv lub vaj, ces cia nws mus rau yav tav su hnub tsis tsimnyog.
2. Nthuav cov kev voj voog. Nws yog ib advisable mus pib acquaintance nrog cov me nyuam uas koom qhov kev pab pawg neeg, ua ntej yuav mus hauv lub vaj. Yog li ntawd, cov phooj ywg, thiab psychologically nws yuav yooj yim nyob rau hauv lub vaj yuav tshwm sim nyob rau hauv ib tug me nyuam, paub txog tias Masha los yog Vanya heev rau hauv nws mus. Vnesadikovskoe kev sib txuas lus kuj yog ib qho zoo heev ce rau lub cev.
3. Tham nrog tus me nyuam. Tseem ceeb: txhua txhua hnub, nco ntsoov nug koj tus me nyuam, yuav ua li cas yog nws hnub, yog dab tsi tshiab, nws kawm hnub no, li cas los noj mov, thiab lwm yam no yuav pab tau kom sai sai nrog puas siab puas ntsws kev nyuaj siab ... Nco ntsoov qhuas koj tus me nyuam rau nws tus thawj txoj kev kawm. Yog hais tias tus me nyuam tseem tsis txawj hais lus, kev txaus siab ntawm nws ua tau ntawm tus kws qhia ntawv, thiab cov me nyuam yaus xwb qhuas rau lawv.

Cov kauj ruam yooj yim no ua tau zoo thiab tsim nyog tau kev pab kom tiv nrog lub kua muag nyob rau hauv kindergarten.

Yog nws nqi nws tsav nyob rau hauv kindergarten yog hais tias tus me nyuam quaj quaj?

Ntawm tus taw tes ntawm view ntawm Sociology, psychology thiab pedagogy kindergarten yog pom raws li ib tug zoo uas ua rau sawvdaws tag nrho txoj kev loj hlob ntawm tus me nyuam thiab nws zoo upbringing. Collective lub neej qhia rau cov me nyuam sib txuas lus nrog cov phooj ywg thiab cov laus, yog li ntawd thaum lub sij hawm nws yuav yooj yim mus rau lub tsev kawm ntawv thiab tsim kom muaj kev sib raug zoo nrog tswj thiab co-neeg ua hauj lwm.

Raws sij hawm npaj ntawm tus me nyuam rau kindergarten pib ib tug ob peb lub hlis ua ntej lub tswv yim npaj cov kev tshwm sim, tab sis txawm nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv no, tej zaum yuav muaj teeb meem nrog adaptation. Nws yog ib qho yooj yim mus siv tau rau ib tug tshiab pab neeg, cov me nyuam nrog ib tug high degree ntawm adaptation nyob rau hauv uas ib tug kev hloov ntawm scenery tsis ua npaum li cas tsis xis nyob. Nyuaj me nyuam muaj ib tug tsawg degree ntawm adaptation. Lawv feem ntau siv ib lub sij hawm hu ua "nesadikovsky tus me nyuam." Ib puas niam txiv ntawm cov me nyuam li cas? Yog nws nqi nws tsav ib tug me nyuam mus kawm kindergarten yog hais tias nws quaj?

Lo lus teb rau lo lus nug kawg niam txiv yuav tsum muab lawv tus kheej. Ib qho tseem ceeb luag hauj lwm no kuj ua si los ntawm lub fact, raws li yog feem ntau tus me nyuam yog mob. Feem ntau, cov me nyuam nrog cov uas tsis muaj adaptation sharply txo tiv thaiv, yog li lawv yog nws muaj ntsis mus rau ntau yam kab mob. Yog hais tias leej niam muaj peev xwm them taus rau nyob twj ywm hauv tsev nrog tus me nyuam, tej zaum nws yuav zoo tau xws li ib tug kev txiav txim siab rau lawv tus kheej. Tab sis nws yog tsim nyog los xav txog tias, raws li ib tug txoj cai, xws cov me nyuam tsis yooj yim rau siv tau tsis tsuas mus rau hauv lub vaj, tab sis kuj mus rau lub neeg ua hauj lwm ntawm lub tsev kawm ntawv.

Adaptation ntawm ib tug me nyuam nyob rau hauv kindergarten: puas siab puas ntsws tswv yim

Subject adaptation ntawm cov me nyuam rau cov qib kindergarten yog xav tau ntau heev ntawm cov psychologists. Lo lus nug no yog tseeb heev loj heev, vim hais tias nws txiav txim seb tus tom ntej tus cwj pwm ntawm tus me nyuam lub tsev kawm ntawv.

Yuav ua li cas yuav tsum yog tus me nyuam txoj kev adaptation nyob rau hauv kindergarten? puas siab puas ntsws tswv yim yog cov nram qab no daim ntawv teev cov tswv yim pom zoo:

1. Lub pom lub hnub nyoog rau thawj kindergarten - 2 mus rau 3 xyoos. Mus ntsib nrog tus tshiab pab neeg yuav tsum ua ntej tag nrho cov los tus naas ej "ntsoog ntawm peb lub xyoos."
2. Koj muaj peev xwm tsis liam rau tus me nyuam rau dab tsi nws quaj nyob rau hauv lub vaj thiab tsis xav kom nws tuaj koom tau. Cov me nyuam yaus xwb los qhia lawv txoj kev xav, thiab punishing, niam tsuas muaj nyob rau hauv nws ib tug txiav txim zoo ntawm kev txhaum.
3. Sim ua ntej kindergarten tuaj rau nws nyob rau hauv ib ncig saib kom tau raws li nrog ib pab pawg neeg ntawm cov me nyuam, nrog ib tug kws qhia ntawv.
4. Ua si nrog koj tus me nyuam nyob rau hauv kindergarten. Cia me nyuam roj hmab cov xib fwb thiab cov me nyuam nyob rau hauv cov qib kindergarten. Qhia koj tus me nyuam ib qho piv txwv, raws li yuav muaj kev lom zem thiab nthuav nyob rau hauv nws.
5. Adaptation ntawm tus me nyuam nyob rau hauv lub vaj yuav tsum tau muaj kev vam meej thaum lawv siv sij hawm tus me nyuam yuav tsum muaj lwm tus neeg hauv koj tsev neeg, rau Piv txwv li, Dad los yog niam tais, uas yog ib tug neeg uas nws yog kev xav tsawg khi.

Sim ua txhua yam kom los hom dhau li maj mam li sai tau rau tus me nyuam thiab tsis txhaum nws lub cev tsis kho tus me nyuam lub psyche.

Npaj ib tug me nyuam rau kindergarten

Raws li Dr. Komarovsky, ib tug kev hloov ntawm ib puag ncig paub rau tus me nyuam yuav luag ib txwm ua rau nws nyuaj siab. Kom tsis txhob no, koj yuav tsum ua raws li tej kev cai yooj yim uas yuav npaj cov me nyuam rau lub neej nyob rau hauv pab neeg no.

Npaj ib tug me nyuam rau kindergarten muaj ob peb theem:

1. Lub sij hawm ntawm puas siab puas ntsws haum. Npaj rau ib tug phiaj los nqis tes nyob rau hauv kindergarten yuav tsum tau pib nyob rau hauv txog 3-4 lub hlis ua ntej lub sij hawm teem hnub. Nyob rau hauv ib tug playful txoj kev tus me nyuam xav tau kev pab los piav dab tsi rau cov qib kindergarten, yog vim li cas mus muaj dua nws yuav muaj mus rau nrog. Rau ntawm no theem nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb rau nyiam cov me nyuam, qhia nws lub vaj mus ntsib kom zoo dua qhia rau yuav ua li cas muaj hmoo nws yog hais tias nws yog precisely nyob rau hauv qhov chaw no, raws li ntau cov niam txiv yuav xav xa lawv cov me nyuam, tab sis xaiv nws vim hais tias nws yog lub feem ntau-feem ntau.
2. Kev npaj ntawm kev tiv thaiv. Sim kom muaj ib tug zoo so nyob rau hauv lub caij ntuj sov, cia tus me nyuam ntau txiv hmab txiv ntoo thiab zaub, tab sis tsawg kawg ib lub hlis ua ntej mus kawm kindergarten, nws yog ntshaw kom siv rau haus ib chav kawm ntawm cov vitamins rau cov me nyuam mus kawm kindergarten. Nws yuav tsis tiv thaiv koj tus me nyuam los ntawm kab mob thaum lub sij hawm lub sij hawm ntawm mob ua pa kab mob, tab sis lawv yuav tshwm sim ntau npaum li cas yooj yim, tsis muaj teeb meem rau lwm yam kabmob thiab tshuab. Thaum pib ntawm tus kab mob sai li sai tau raws li tus me nyuam pom tau tias unwell, koj yuav tsum tuaj nqa cov vaj thiab pib kev kho mob raws li nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv no, txawm tias lub txais tus me nyuam tej zaum yuav pib quaj.
3. Mas. Tsis hais seb tus me nyuam tau ploj mus rau kindergarten los yog cia li mus, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb los lo rau ib tug tsoom fwv cov pw tsaug zog thiab so, raws li zoo raws li nyob rau hauv lub vaj. Nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv no, tus me nyuam, tau txais mus rau hauv ib tug tshiab ib puag ncig rau nws, yuav xav tias psychologically xis Bole.
4. Qhia rau koj tus me nyuam tias nws yog ib txwm nyob rau hauv lub vaj yuav tuaj mus rau kev pab ntawm cov kws qhia ntawv. Piv txwv li, yog hais tias nws xav mus haus dej haus kom txaus nug txog qhov no tus kws qhia ntawv.

Thiab tseem ceeb tshaj, koj yeej tsis xav mus caum tus me nyuam txoj kev kawm kindergarten.

Thawj hnub ntawm lub kindergarten

Nws yog lub feem ntau nyuaj hnub nyob rau hauv lub neej ntawm niam thiab tus me nyuam. Thawj hnub nyob rau hauv lub vaj - ib tug disturbing thiab exciting lub sij hawm ntawd, uas feem ntau yog nyob ntawm seb ib qho yooj yim los yog nyuaj nws yuav host adaptation.

Tig lub thawj zaug mus rau ib tug kindergarten nyob rau hauv kev ua koob tsheej ua raws li cov txheej txheem:

1. Yuav kom sawv nyob rau hauv thaum sawv ntxov tsis tau los ua ib tug unpleasant surprise rau tus me nyuam, nyob rau hauv ua ntej, npaj nws rau nws yog dab tsi tag kis ib tug kindergarten.
2. Nyob rau hauv lub yav tsaus ntuj, npaj khaub ncaws thiab tej khoom ua si uas tus me nyuam tej zaum yuav xav kom muab nrog koj.
3. Nws yog zoo dua mus pw nyob rau hauv lub sij hawm rau thaum sawv ntxov mus xav ntau cheerful.
4. Sawv ntxov mus coj calmly, raws li yog hais tsis muaj dab tsi tshwm sim exciting. Ib tug me nyuam yuav tsum tsis txhob saib koj txoj kev xav.
5. Nyob rau hauv cov qib kindergarten tus me nyuam xav tau kev pab rau me ntswb me ntsi thiab coj nws mus rau lub pab qhia. Tsis xav mus nyiag khiav sai li sai tau raws li tus me nyuam mos puv tam sim ntawd. Niam nws tus kheej yuav tsum tau qhia rau tus me nyuam tias nws twb tawm hauv kev ua hauj lwm thiab hais tias nws yuav rov qab mus rau nws. Thiab qhov no yog tsis vim lub fact tias cov me nyuam quaj nyob rau hauv lub vaj. Yuav ua li cas Komorowski piav qhov tseeb hais tias tus me nyuam yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom paub hais tias nws yuav tsum tau noj sai li sai tau raws li nws yuav muaj noj tshais los yeej zoo siab ua si.
6. Tsis txhob cia koj tus me nyuam nyob rau hauv thawj hnub mus rau ntau tshaj li 2 teev.

Yuav ua li cas yuav tsum tau cov neeg zov me nyuam yog hais tias tus me nyuam quaj quaj nyob rau hauv lub vaj?

Ntau nyob rau hauv lub adaptation ntawm cov me nyuam rau kindergarten yog nyob ntawm tus kws qhia ntawv. Nws yuav tsum nyob rau hauv ib txoj kev yuav ib tug psychologist, uas paub tus kheej txog lub teeb meem ntawm cov me nyuam nyob rau hauv kindergarten. Thaum lub sij hawm lub adaptation, tus kws qhia ntawv yuav tsum muaj nyob rau hauv ncaj qha kev sib cuag nrog cov niam txiv. Yog hais tias tus me nyuam quaj, nws yuav tsum tau sim kom zoo ntaug tus me nyuam. Tab sis yog hais tias tus me nyuam tsis mus rau cov kev sib cuag, obstinate thiab pib quaj txawm louder, tom ntej no lub sij hawm nws tau mus nug cov niam yuav ua li cas los txhawb nws. Tej zaum tus me nyuam muaj tej nyiam kev ua si uas cuam tshuam nws los ntawm quaj.

Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas tus kws qhia ntawv nyob rau hauv lub vaj tsis nias rau ntawm tus me nyuam thiab tsis blackmailing nws. Qhov no yog tsis tsim nyog. Hem hais tias koj tsis yog kuv niam yuav los, cia li vim hais tias koj tsis noj porridge, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog tsis tub kom zoo. Tus kws kho mob yuav tsum tau ua lwm tus me nyuam, ces tus me nyuam yuav mus kawm kindergarten nrog Library.

Tus me nyuam twb quaj rau txoj kev mus rau kindergarten

Raug ntawm ntau cov tsev neeg yog thaum tus me nyuam txawm pib quaj nyob rau hauv tsev thiab tseem ua tau li ntawd rau lawv txoj kev mus kawm kindergarten. Tsis yog txhua txhua cov niam txiv yuav xyuam xim mas xws cwj pwm nyob rau hauv txoj kev thiab pib showdown, uas feem ntau xaus nyob rau hauv ib tug neeg pej xeem nrog hysteria.

Yog vim li cas yog vim li cas tus me nyuam quaj quaj, tsis txhob xav nyob rau hauv lub vaj thiab npaj ib tug taws nyob rau hauv txoj kev:

• Cov me nyuam yaus xwb tsis tau txaus pw tsaug zog thiab nce los ntawm lub txaj tsis muaj tus mus ob peb vas. Nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv no, sim mus pw ntxov.
• Faib sij hawm txaus rau thaum sawv ntxov awakening. Tsis xav mus hnav ris tsho muaj cai tawm ntawm lub txaj thiab khiav mus rau cov qib kindergarten. Cia cov me nyuam yaus yuav pw rau 10-15 feeb nyob rau hauv txaj, saib tas lauv, thiab hais txog. D.
• Npaj me me pib rau peb cov me nyuam los yog pab qhia. Koj muaj peev xwm yuav ib tug me me khoom qab zib uas tus me nyuam yuav faib rau cov me nyuam tom qab noj tshais, cov kua nplaum uas los xij nrog coloring phau ntawv, sau rau ntawm koj lub tsev tshuab luam ntawv. Tham txog qhov tseeb hais tias nws tsis yog cia li nyob rau hauv kindergarten, tiam sis yuav ua nyob rau hauv nws, thiab lub wizard yuav coj khoom plig rau cov me nyuam.

Yuav ua li cas tus me nyuam tsis quaj nyob rau hauv lub vaj?

Yuav ua li cas niam txiv yuav ua li cas rau ib tug me nyuam yog tsis quaj nyob rau hauv kindergarten:

• kev puas siab puas ntsws kev npaj rau tus me nyuam 3-4 lub hlis ua ntej mus rau lub mus xyuas ntawm lub vaj;
• feem ntau qhia cov me nyuam txog cov kev pab cuam hauv lub vaj, xws li ntau cov me nyuam nyiam tau hnov hais tias lawv muaj loj;
• rau thawj hnub nyob rau hauv kindergarten tsis cia nws rau ntau tshaj li 2 teev;
• tso cai rau muab qhov khoom ua si los ntawm lub tsev (tsis kim heev);
• kom meej meej qhia kom meej rau timeframe thaum nws niam yuav noj, piv txwv li, tom qab noj tshais, tom qab noj hmo los yog tom qab ib tug taug kev;
• его о прошедшем дне каждый раз; sib txuas lus nrog koj tus me nyuam thiab nug nws txog cov hnub txhua lub sij hawm;
• tsis ntshai thiab tsis txhob qhia nws rau tus me nyuam, tsis muaj teeb meem nyuaj npaum li cas tej zaum koj yuav.

Common yuam kev niam txiv

Feem ntau cov feem ntau, cov niam txiv tso cai rau cov nram qab no uas tsis nyob rau hauv tus me nyuam lub adaptation rau kindergarten:

1. Tsis txhob adapting tam sim ntawd yog hais tias tus me nyuam tsis tau quaj rau thawj hnub ntawm kindergarten. Tus me nyuam yuav tsiv mus nyob zoo heev ib-lub sij hawm sib cais los ntawm nws niam, tab sis nws tsis yog tsawg tsawg yog cov teeb meem thaum nyob hauv lub thib peb hnub nyob rau hauv cov qib kindergarten tus menyuam quaj quaj vim hais tias ntawm qhov tseeb hais tias nws tam sim ntawd sab laug rau lub hnub.
2. Mam li nco dheev tawm tsis tau hais goodbye. Tus me nyuam tej zaum yuav ua rau tus muaj zog tshaj kev nyuaj siab.
3. Blackmailed tus me nyuam me nyuam me.
4. Ib txhia niam txiv yog amenable mus manipulation, yog hais tias tus me nyuam quaj quaj nyob rau hauv lub vaj. Yuav ua li cas Komorowski piav txog tias cov me nyuam succumb mus rau lub whims thiab taws yog tsis nqi nws. Los ntawm dab tsi koj cia koj tus me nyuam los nyob hauv tsev hnub no, nws ho tsis nres quaj tag kis los sis hnub tom qab.

Yog hais tias cov niam txiv pom tau tias tus me nyuam yog ib qhov nyuaj kom hloov mus rau kindergarten, thiab lawv tsis paub yuav ua li cas pab tau tus me nyuam, lawv yuav tsum tig mus rau ib tug kev puas siab ntsws. Tswv yim rau cov niam txiv nyob rau hauv kindergarten yuav pab los tsim ib tug txheej ntawm kev ua los ntawm kev uas tus me nyuam yuav maj mam siv tau rau lub neej nyob rau hauv pab neeg no. Txawm li cas los, tag nrho cov no yuav tsuas muaj kev zoo yog tias cov niam txiv xav thiab tig mus tsav tus me nyuam mus rau ib tug kindergarten, thiab yuav tsis tau sai li sai tau mus nraim kev puas siab ntsws tswv yim.