Yuav ua li cas yog los? Thaum tawm los: cov nqi

Cov kev sib deev kiv puag ncig muab cov txiv neej thiab cov poj niam txoj kev ywj pheej ntawm kev xaiv ntawm kev sib deev nrog ib tug neeg. Qhov no coj mus rau lub creation ntawm tib-poj niam txiv khub niam txiv. Nyob rau tib lub sij hawm no muaj lub ntsiab tshiab, hais txog tej chaw ntawm lub neej thiab tus cwj pwm ntawm cov neeg uas sib txawv kev sib daj dees. Raws li ib tug txoj cai, cov lus ntawm txawv teb chaws tuaj, thiab tsis nkaus kom meej rau pej xeem, deb ntawm lub "xiav" thiab "liab" lub ntsiab.

Piv txwv li, tsis yog txhua tus paub li cas no los. Yuav ua li cas yog nws txawv los ntawm lub zoo xws li tswvyim ntawm "kev mus ua si". Meanwhile, nyob rau hauv ib co voj voog nws yog feem ntau siv qhia, uas txawm nws muaj nws tus kheej hnub caiv ntawm lub xyoo. Tiam sis ua ntej tej yam uas ua ntej.

Yuav ua li cas yog los?

Lo lus no yog borrowed los ntawm cov lus Askiv thiab txhais txhais hais tias "qhia tawm", "tawm ntawm lub txee dai khaub ncaws." Txiv neej los sis poj niam, tab thiab, heev ceeb tshaj, yeem txais lawv kev sib deev orientation los yog lawv tus yam ntxwv rau cov tub los ntxhais minorities, ua ib tsab cai raug xa mus rau raws li los. Raws li txoj cai, lub ntsiab txhais thov nyob rau hauv relation mus rau lub lesbian, gay, bisexual thiab transgender neeg (abbreviated li cov pab pawg neeg ntawm cov neeg raug xa mus rau LGBT) uas tab lees mus rau lawv kev sib deev nyiam los yog hais tias lawv lub cev tsis phim lawv lub hlwb.

Outing - nws kuj yog laj mej pej xeem tso tawm kom pom qhov tseeb ntawm unconventional tus kheej lub neej, tab sis lwm tus neeg nyob rau hauv daim ntawv ntawm tsausmuag, tiv thaiv cov nyiaj ntawm lub homosexual. Qhov no yog feem ntau yog ua li cas rau nruab nrab tus txiv neej lwj nws lub koob npe nrov, cov hauj lwm, hloov tib neeg lub cwj pwm mus rau nws, vim hais tias nyob rau hauv txhua lub teb chaws muaj yog homophobic. Txawm nyob rau hauv lub neej niaj hnub, tsis yog txhua txhua tus neeg puas kam qhib lub qhov rooj mus rau nws chav pw, tab sis muaj cov neeg uas yog tshwj xeeb tshaj yog txaus siab nrog cov pej xeem los mus ua kom lawv tus kheej thiab mus nce ntxiv tej chaw, ua ib tug heterosexual neeg. Qhov no tshwm sim yog heev nyob rau hauv qhia tau tias ua lag ua luam.

Ib me ntsis ntawm cov keeb kwm tseeb

Tus thawj lub sij hawm lub tswv yim yooj yim Cuming-tawm xav nyob rau hauv 1869. Kuv ua nws ib tug German kws lij choj thiab neeg sau xov xwm, tiv thaiv cov cai thiab kev txaus siab ntawm cov neeg feem tsawg, Karl Genrih Ulrihs. Nws yog ntawm lub tswv yim hais tias, yog hais tias koj xav tau pom, koj yuav tsum nrov nrov tshaj tawm nws tus kheej los ntawm cov tuaj-tawm. Qhov tseem ceeb ntawm no txoj cai, raws li cov Germans, loj qhib ib homosexual yuav muaj ib tug ntau dua tej yam rau cov neeg thiab cov cai siv. Cov thawj pej xeem tseem ceeb tus neeg uas yog tsis ntshai qhia qhov tseeb txog nws tus kheej, yog tus American kws sau paj lug Robert Duncan. Nws tau ua tau los, thiab tsis ntev nws twb txiav los ntawm cov tub rog. Tom qab ntawd, nyob rau hauv ib tug magazine, nws hais tias nyob rau hauv lub teb chaws thiab nyob ib ncig ntawm lub ntiaj teb no yog oppressed haiv neeg tsawg.

Nyob rau hauv nruab nrab-xyoo pua 20th, lub tswvyim ntawm "los" vim lub psychologist E-mail Hooker, uas tau mob siab rau ib tug ntau ntawm nws ua hauj lwm kawm cov gay zej zog, yog tsis muaj lawm ib tug jargon yuav mus nyob rau lub scientific terminology.

Tseem ceeb Cuming-tawm

Moral siab nyob rau hauv lub neej tshwm sim tsuas yog thaum ib tug neeg nyob rau hauv kev sib raug zoo tsis tau tsuas yog nrog lawv tus kheej tab sis kuj nrog cov pej xeem. Yuav kom ua tau qhov no, koj yuav tsum muaj lub siab tawv kom tab ua lawv kev sib deev nyiam. Yog hais tias ib tug txiv neej los sis poj niam tiag tiag yog gay, lawv tau txais no fact thiab ntseeg nyob rau hauv koj xaiv, koj yuav tsum tsis txhob zais nws, nkaum heterosexual kev sib raug zoo, txawm sib yuav tiv thaiv lawv rau lub hom phiaj ntawm lub neej. Qhov no muaj ib tug tsis zoo ntxim rau cov kev puas hlwb lub xeev ntawm tus neeg. Ntawm no tsuas pab los tawm. Tus nqi ntawm qhov ua txhaum muaj ib tug zoo feem nyob rau hauv lub xeev, mus ob peb vas, los qhov ntev-awaited nyem.

Qhov no yog cov ntaub ntawv ntawm kev nkag siab nyob rau ib feem ntawm cov neeg tuaj saib. Tab sis, nyob hauv kev xyaum, qhov no tshwm sim tsis yeej ib txwm. Uas yog vim li cas muaj ib tug ntau ntawm cov ntaub ntawv rau lub npe "Dab tsi yog los" yuav ua li cas thiab thaum twg yuav ua rau nws zoo dua. Ib qho ntawm feem zoo-paub phau ntawv, sau ntawv los ntawm lub American lub koom haum "Cov niam txiv, tsev neeg thiab cov phooj ywg ntawm gays thiab lesbians."

Tus txheej txheem ntawm Vocabulary

Cuming-outs - ib tug complex multi-step dab. Psychologists qhia kom maj mam qhib rau tag nrho lawv tej kev sib deev orientation, pib dua li uas ib tug nyob ze cov phooj ywg los yog tsev neeg uas tus feem ntau sov, muaj zog, kev cia siab rau kev sib raug zoo. Feem ntau nws tshwm sim hais tias tib neeg uas tsis yog-txwm paub tag nrho nws lug txhawb cov miv thiab cov phooj ywg, tab sis tsis paub nyob ze cov txheeb ze. Tej zaum qhia ib tug neeg txawv yog yooj yim dua nws. Ib txhia kev tshawb fawb, siab Cuming-tawm thiab cov kev qhib siab dawb paug ntawm tus txiv neej rau zej zog, pom tau hais tias qhov tsawg ib tug neeg hides los ntawm lwm tus neeg, tsawg nws muaj mus pw, lub paj hlwb, txhawj.

Recognition ntawm cov niam txiv

Ib tug ntawm cov feem ntau nyuaj theem Cuming-tawm yog pom tias yuav tsum tau yuav paub nyob rau hauv pem hauv ntej ntawm lawv niam lawv txiv. Lawv yog cov tsis muaj peev xwm tau txais cov ntaub ntawv kom to taub. Cov niam txiv tseem ceeb kom paub hais tias lawv tus me nyuam yog tsis zoo li txhua leej txhua tus lwm tus. Lawv yuav tsum sij hawm thiab kev pab los ntawm ib tug psychologist. Feem ntau cov niam txiv tsis kam txais yuav qhov tseeb, yuav rau txim rau cov me nyuam, tsis quav ntsej, muab pov tseg tawm ntawm lub tsev, muab lawv mus. Ib txhia tej lub sij hawm ua kom tsis txhob muaj kev sib tham ntawm kev sib deev yam kev kawm, ntseeg hais tias tag nrho cov no folly, hnub nyoog, tus nqi, thiab yog hais tias koj tsis txhob tsom ntsoov rau qhov no account, nws tag nrho cov mus los ntawm nws tus kheej.

Lwm cov niam txiv xav txog txivneej deev txivneej ib tug kab mob, pib kho lawv cov me nyuam nrog rau cov kev pab los ntawm reparative txoj kev kho. Tag nrho cov kev ua ntawm leej niam thiab cov txiv tsev yog yuav ua rau muaj mob loj rau tus me nyuam lub siab, tsuas yog escalate qhov teeb meem no.

2013 - lub xyoo Cuming-tawm

rau Lub kaum hli ntuj 11, yog tus nom hnub thaum nco ntsoov dab tsi ib tug tuaj tawm, raws li tau zoo raws li saib cov pej xeem paub txog xwb tsis cov phooj ywg thiab cov txheeb ze, tab sis kuj tseem ceeb tib neeg nto moo los ntawm lub scene. Los ntawm xyoo mus rau xyoo lub xov tooj ntawm LGBT politicians, musicians, ncaws pob thiab lam, uas qhia hais tias tib neeg tsawg tsawg ntshai neeg txoj kev txiav txim, thiab uas tsis yog-txwm xaiv yog ua lub cai. Nws yog muaj kev ruaj ntseg hais tias nyob rau hauv 2013 twb tsis tas rau ib tav su confessions, extending nws mus rau 365. Qhia tag nrho cov paub txog lub impossibility, ntawm lawv cov loj loj ntau, tab sis hais tias yog ib qhov feem ntau muab thiab kom nrov nrov proclaiming:

1. Dzhodi Foster ua nws los thaum lub sij hawm cov puav pheej ceremony rau nws Golden globes.
2. American actor Wentworth Miller tshaj tawm nws rho menyuam nyob rau hauv tsab ntawv ntawm kev tsis kam tuaj mus rau Russia, raws li muaj ntau ntau yam homophobes.
3. British diver Tom Daley coj ib tug yees duab nrog nws lees txim thiab muab tso rau nws nyob rau hauv Internet.
4. Canadian actor thiab singer Victor Garber tau txais hais tias nws yog gay thiab yog nyob rau hauv ib tug kev sib raug zoo nrog ib tug txiv neej rau 14 xyoo.
5. NBA basketball neeg uas ua ntawv Dzheyson Kollinz, uas tau txiav txim siab hais tias koj yuav tsum tau ncaj ncees rau sawv daws.
6. Philippine singer Charris.
7. Robbi Rodzhers hais tias nws yog gay, thiab so ntawm football.
8. Irish actor Endryu Skott, ceased mus kawm Lavxias teb sab lus nyob rau hauv Putin lub has lug hab VV tom qab nws tau ua ib tug homophobic txoj cai.
9. Xib fwb ntawm Psychiatry Dinesh protuberance.
10. Skater Brian Boitano.