Cov me nyuam Duab

Tag nrho cov, tsis muaj kev zam, cov me nyuam pib ib zaug ib qho nyuaj rau kos. Tej zaum lawv ua rau tus ceev ntawm 20-30 dluab ib hnub twg. Xyaum tu yus kev puas siab ntsws, Ph.D. Baulina Maria yog ntseeg hais tias cov duab yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev rau cov kev puas hlwb txoj kev loj hlob ntawm tus me nyuam, txawm lub fact tias muaj ntau yam ntawm nws tej hauj lwm ntawm cov kos duab reminiscent ntawm ib daim duab kos los ntawm Carlson hu ua 'ib tug heev kho siab qaib dib. " Nyob rau hauv thaum ntxov XX xyoo pua, tus me nyuam psychologists txiav txim siab los siv tus me nyuam cov duab ntawm lub mechanism txoj kev tshawb no ntawm nws puab ntiaj teb no. Cov feem nrov txoj kev twb tsim los ntawm 3 duab kev ntsuam xyuas: "Daim duab nonexistent tsiaj", "lub tsev-tsob ntoo-neeg" thiab "Tsev Neeg Daim duab".

Tab sis, hmoov tsis, ntau cov niam txiv, muaj ntes tau cov tswvyim ntawm kev nyeem ntawv cov me nyuam kos duab, pib wrongly ntsuam xyuas kalyaki-Malaki nws tus me nyuam. Piv txwv li, yog hais tias tus me nyuam coj nws thiab pleev xim rau tag nrho cov ntawv dub xim, nws tseem tsis tau txhais hais tias nws yog nyob ze rau ib lub xeev ntawm kev nyuaj siab, txawm hais tias kev ntsuam xyuas hais nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv no, nws yog ib tug txhais lus. Nyob rau hauv thiaj li yuav zoo "nyeem" hauv daim duab, koj yuav tsum txheeb xyuas tsis yog ib qho, tab sis ib tug ntau ntawm cov ntsiab lus, nrog nws, tsis tas nyob rau hauv lawv txoj kev paub. Nyob rau hauv tas li ntawd, tus qauv tej zaum yuav tsis yog ib tug ncaj qha kev rog xav txog ntawm lub hlwb lub xeev ntawm tus me nyuam, nws muaj peev xwm tsuas rau tej qhov twg qhia tau hloov nyob rau hauv lub hlwb lub xeev ntawm tus me nyuam. Kawm rau hauv cov duab, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb coj mus rau hauv tus account lub hnub nyoog, kev txawj ntse thiab graphical xeem kev txawj ntse. Thaum ib tug me nyuam tau tas nqus, koj yuav tsum tham nrog nws txog cov duab, mus nrhiav seb vim li cas nws pleev xim rau qhov no los yog tias ua cim, xaiv ib cov xim. Ua ntej lub "nyeem ntawv" ntawm daim duab yog yuav tsum tau meej txog cov lus tseeb ntawm lub neej tiag tiag tus me nyuam. Koj yuav tsum ntaus cov lus qhia hais txog dab tsi cov txheej xwm yog tshwm sim nrog rau tus me nyuam thaum lub sij hawm lub sij hawm no. Thiab tsis tau, saib cov ntsiab lus tseem ceeb uas koj yuav tsum them tshwj xeeb mloog thaum cov me nyuam duab txhais lus. 1. Qauv ntawm cov me nyuam txoj kev kos duab. Ntawm kuj zoo kawg tseem ceeb yog qhov chaw ntawm txhua txhua cim rau cov nplooj ntawv. Xav daim duab, nco ntsoov tias tag nrho cov neeg hauv tsev neeg yog twv. Yog hais tias ib tug me nyuam ib tug neeg tsis nco qab, ces qhov no tej zaum yuav qhia hais tias nws kev sib raug zoo nrog "tsis nco qab lawm" tsev neeg yog tsis zoo. Thiab tau tshem ntawm nws lub xub ntiag yam tsawg kawg ntawm daim ntawv, tus me nyuam looj hlias nws los sib raug zoo nyob rau hauv nws txoj kev xav. Feem ntau cov feem ntau tus me nyuam thim ib tsev neeg tsis muaj kwv tij thiab cov muam, piav hais tias nws tsis muaj txaus qhov chaw. Tej zaum nws tsis muaj txaus ntawm koj, thiab cov me nyuam yaus kaw rau lwm cov me nyuam. Attendance tseem ceeb yog qhov luaj li cas ntawm txhua tus ua cim. Qhov ntau reserved qhov chaw rau ib qho tus neeg, nws yog tseem ceeb tshaj nyob rau hauv lub qhov muag ntawm ib tug me nyuam. Tab sis lub xeev yuav tsum tau yuav nyeem nyob rau hauv ua ke nrog lub sijhawm ntawm daim duab. Piv txwv li, hnyav ncawv tsaus hma, uas yog li ntawd loj hais tias yuav luag tsis muaj chaw sab laug, thiab nws twb tsis haum rau ib tug luav, tus me nyuam hais tias ntshai ntawm cov tsiaj. Thiab ntawm no yog lub loj taws tes rau txiv nyob rau hauv ib tug zoo nkauj lub kaus mom thiab liab tsho inflated qhia hais tias qhov no pope - qhov zoo tshaj plaws thiab nyiam txiv nyob rau hauv lub ntiaj teb no. Psychologists txawm muaj los dag txog nws: qhov tsawg lub sij hawm nyob kom txog qhov mus kom ze ntawm lub xyoo tshiab, ntxiv rau cov duab tuas ib lub hnab ntawm khoom plig. Tab sis qhov chaw ntawm lub cim tsis txawv. Spatial xaav yog tseem tsis tau tsim ntawm tus me txiv neej, thiab nws yuav tsis yooj yim rau next rau ib daim ntawm daim ntawv. Ntau yog txoj kev tshawb no ntawm kev sis raug zoo thiab sib thooj twv cim: nco ntsoov li cas nyob ze rau txhua lwm yam lus ntawm daim duab, yog hais tias tus neeg hauv tsev neeg los yog cov phooj ywg, seb lawv tuav tes los yog lub artist tau muab tso rau lawv nyob deb deb ntawm txhua lwm yam. 2. Qhov no duab nta cov me nyuam kos duab. Niaj hnub no psychologists tau tsiv tawm ntawm lub saib hais tias qhov tsaus ntuj nti xim nyob rau hauv daim duab ntawm tus me nyuam (dub, gray) kov qhia ib tug muaj kev nyuaj siab tus me nyuam, liab ua raws li cov Aggressiveness, tab sis ntsuab - lawv yuav muab fee, twj ywm nrog lub xeev tus menyuam me. Thiab feem ntau ntawm cov kev xyaum tu yus tus me nyuam psychologists tsis lo rau lub plawv, Yog hais tias koj pom hauv daim duab txaus ntshai ntshav chaw nyob rau hauv lub taub hau ntawm liab caij Hood. Tag nrho cov me nyuam, raws li cov no soj ntsuam muaj ib tug ntse txaus siab nyob rau hauv tag nrho cov xim. Yog li ntawd, kev kawm cov dub, lawv nco ntsoov tus zoo nrog hwm mus rau dawb daim ntawv. Zoo, yog dab tsi rau hauv lub paj mus rau xim ib lub rooj zaum daj mem hluav, hais tias koj tseem yuav tsis pom dab tsi. Nws yog ib heev lwm dub cwj mem, kov ib tug - thiab niam thiab txiv yuav tsum tau txaus siab rau cov txuj ci ntawm cov me nyuam yaus. Ntsuam xyuas cov xaiv xim, koj yuav tsum them sai sai mus rau lub kev xaiv ntawm kev cai lij choj. Yog hais tias ib tug me nyuam xim tsev nws tus kheej ntsuab thiab tom ntej no rau kuv niam nyob rau hauv tib lub hnav ris tsho, nws hais tias nws qhia nws tus kheej nrog nws, tus ntawd yog tus puas siab puas ntsws kev sib cuag nrog tus niam yog check heev. Nws yog ib yam uas tseem ceeb heev thiab portrayal ntawm lub cim. Qhov ntau kom huv si rau siab ntso menyuam nruab nrab yog ib tug kwv, ntau dua qhov lub tseem ceeb nws hniav rau nws nyob rau hauv lub neej tiag tiag. Ntawm no nyob rau hauv lub chav kawm ntau ntau yam decorations siv cov xim los yog dorisovki ib co moments. Yog hais tias koj cov kas kos nws tus kheej loj ob lub qhov muag nyob rau hauv ib tug loj lub taub hau, ces decorate lawv cov ntev lashes, thiab lawv tej khaub ncaws kom zoo zoo thiab maj mam muab tsaus, koj yuav tsis txhawj txog nws tus kheej, nws yog tag nrho cov cai. Conversely, yog hais tias tus cim yog xwm purely schematically, tus me nyuam nyob rau hauv koj lub neej tsis muab ntau npaum li cas tseem ceeb rau nws. Nyob rau hauv tas li ntawd, peb yuav tsum tau paub qhov txawv cov tseem ceeb cov lus ntawm qhov ib txwm stereotypical tej yam uas tus me nyuam kawm tau nyob rau hauv tus txheej txheem ntawm kev kawm teeb duab. Piv txwv li, ib tug neeg luag ntawm lub ntsej muag ntawm txhoj puab heev txaus ntshai tus noj neeg, tsis txhob hloov dab tsi. Cia li ib tug me nyuam paub hais tias "nyob rau hauv lub ntsej muag yuav tsum kos ib luag." 3. Tus txheej txheem ntawm kev kos duab. Saib nws tus kheej yog nqus cov txheej txheem, nws yog tsim nyog them sai sai mus rau: - ib theem zuj zus ntawm nqus cim; - yog nqus ib tug neeg qhov chaw ua ntu zus; - lub sij hawm kho los yog erasures; - seb tus me nyuam rov qab mus rau lub twb tiav cov khoom thiab cov ntsiab lus. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb rau koj mloog rau tus me nyuam cov lus hais txog nws masterpiece, thiab hais lub npe uas tuaj nrog tus sau. Cia li tej zaum tsis muaj tshwj xeeb piav yooj yim to taub dab tsi kos tus hluas artist. A "tsev pirates" thiab "fairy ntxhais fuabtais tsev" tej zaum yuav zoo tib yam nkaus.