Self-sau qoob, Psychology
Kev sib txuas lus tej
Tag nrho cov tau txais peb nyob rau hauv sib txuas lus hauv cov ntaub ntawv peb tau perceive, los ntawm peb kev, uas twb muaj lawm tej chaw, raws li zoo raws li los ntawm cov plaub ntawm peb subjective piv rau lub interlocutor. Thiab feem ntau peb hnov rau tsis tau dab tsi peb sim pab qhia peb cov khub. Feem ntau raws li meej qhia nws xav tsis yooj yim sua rau nws vim rau overflowing cwj pwm txawv. Tej teeb meem, ua rau tsis meej pem thiab ua rau nws tsis yooj yim sua rau kev sib txuas lus rau cov kev pab thiab Library - qhov no yog qhov kev sib txuas lus teeb meem.
hom ntawm tej
Muaj ntau pawg thiab cwj pwm, uas yuav tsum tau dej num raws li kev sib txuas lus teeb meem. Peb yuav tsis tham txog nyob rau hauv kom meej lub uas twb muaj lawm classifications, tab sis tsuas yog tus hu thiab piav txog cov feem ntau ntau hom.
1. Teeb meem xaav
Cov no yog cov teeb meem mus kev sib txuas lus, xws li kev hais lus teeb meem, ua ntej impressions, thiab ntau lwm tus neeg. Yuav tsum to taub, peb yuav tsum tau mus kom meej meej qhia lawv views. Lo lus, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog nyob rau hauv ua lag ua luam kev sib txuas lus, yuav tsum tau txawj justified, thiab yam uas hais lus - ntseeg. Cov zoo cov lus qhia ntawm lwm yam uas nws tus cwj pwm txawv, qhov ntau dua hais tias nws yuav tsum tau qhia dab tsi nws xav hais. Nyob rau hauv tas li ntawd, nta xws li diction yuav lwj lub tswv yim ntawm tej tib zoo npaj hais lus, thiab tiag hamper nws to taub. Thiab yog hais tias neb ob leeg xav nyob rau hauv kev sib tham, ib tug yuav tau hloov mus rau qhov peculiarities ntawm kev hais lus, thiab lub thib ob yuav tsum xav txog kev ua hauj lwm nyob rau hauv lub problematic nam (nyob rau hauv rhetoric chav kawm ntawv, tus qauv pab ua hauj lwm nrog ib tug hais lus therapist).
Feem ntau kev sib txuas lus tej tshwm sim raws li ib tug tshwm sim ntawm cov thawj tswv yim (feem ntau yog muaj xws li cov lus teeb liab) thaum lub zoo kev sib txuas lus tsis pub unwarranted tsis zoo tus cwj pwm mus rau lub interlocutor. Raws li tej zaum koj yuav zoo ua tsis nyiam tej yam sab nraud nta ntawm ib lub lag luam tus khub, tab sis koj yuav tsum tau paub hais tias nws yuav tsum tsis txhob cuam tshuam qhov kev kawm ntawm koj kev sib tham.
Txiav txim cawv raws li tus uas twb muaj lawm installation, distorting lub xaav ntawm cov ntaub ntawv. Peb muaj ib tug txawv system ntawm qhov tseem ceeb thiab txawv ntsiab rau tib lo lus. Yog hais tias koj yeej paub ntawm cov uas twb sib txawv nruab nrab ntawm koj thiab lwm tus neeg, thiab koj yuav coj lawv mus rau account (ie, siv kom meej rau lwm tus neeg thiab lub tshaj plaws yog lo lus), kev sib txuas lus tej yuav tej kov yeej.
Nyias, koj yuav hais no uas thaiv cov kev sib txuas lus zoo li lub cev tsis mloog thiab xam qhovkev rau hauv txhua txhua filtering hnov, peb hnov li cas peb xav hnov.
2. Teeb meem sis
Qhov no puas hawv tej nyob rau hauv kev sib txuas lus uas yog txuam nrog rau txawv caijnyoog, txawv kev coj tsis ncaj txoj hauj lwm, theem ntawm tsis txawj txaus thiab negotiating style. Yog li ntawd, nws yog ib qhov nyuaj rau kev sib txuas lus nrog ib tug txiv neej uas yuav ua kev sib txuas lus rau koj ib tug heev txawv tshwm sim. Thiab yog hais tias ib tug yog configured daws tau ib qho kev teeb meem, thiab lwm yam - nyob rau hauv ib tug kaw kev sib tham, kev sib tham tsis tau siav ob leeg. Nyob rau hauv xws li mob nws yog advisable kom sai li sai qhia lawv cov hom phiaj.
Nws yog Attendance nyuaj mus nrhiav ib qho lus nrog cov neeg uas nws theem ntawm tsis txawj txaus nyob rau hauv qhov teeb meem raws ho, uas yuav ua tau heev annoying thiab ua ib tug yog vim li cas rau tsis sib txuas lus ntawm tag nrho cov.
3. Teeb meem tsis zoo tus cwj pwm txawv
Cov no muaj xws ua li cas kev sib txuas lus tej uas tshwm sim nyob rau hauv tus ntawm sib sib zog nqus kev nyuaj siab thiab hnyav txheej xwm, thaum ib tug neeg yuav loo thiab txaj muag deb ntawm kev sib cuag, thiab cov teeb meem tshwm sim los ntawm muaj zog tus cwj pwm txawv (npau taws, ntshai). Tej yam tsis zoo nyob rau hauv lus sis thiab sib sib zog nqus ceg tsis zoo tus cwj pwm txawv (xws li kev txaj muag los yog kev txhaum), thiab nyob rau hauv ib tug phem mus ob peb vas, uas yuav ua tau tsis tau tsuas yog ib tug nraum tiam sis tseem "ntev."
Koj muaj peev xwm sau ntau ntau pab pawg thiab hom ntawm tej nyob rau hauv kev sib txuas lus, tab sis nyob rau hauv lub tsheb sib tsoo nrog txhua yam ntawm lawv, nyob ntawm seb qhov tseem ceeb ntawm ib tug neeg rau koj thiab koj sis lub hom phiaj muaj ib tug xaiv: koj yuav tau sim kom tau tuaj mus rau cov ntsiab lus nrog qhov teeb meem no, los yog kom peb tsis kam sib txuas lus ntawm tag nrho cov. Muaj mob qhov twg barrier yuav muab tshem tawm yog tias ob leeg koom tes yog xav nyob rau hauv nws.
Yog hais tias koj muaj txaus nws tus kheej-kev thuam, thiab xav hais tias qhov ua rau ntawm tej kev thaiv no yog tej yam koj ua, ces koj twb ib nrab-txoj kev mus rau lawv tshem tawm. Tsis txhob yuav tub nkeeg mus ua hauj lwm rau lawv tus kheej thiab hais kom tau kev pab los ntawm ib tug neeg uas yuav pab tau koj nrog rau qhov no.
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