Kev tiv thaiv sib cav sib ceg

Cov neeg hais tias: "Zoo ntxim nyiam kawg foom - cia li amuse!" Tab sis tsev neeg psychologists hais tias: hais tias muaj yog tsis muaj dab tsi uas tsis ua txhaum lub tsev neeg raws li ib tug sib cav. Thiab ntxiv dua, tus sib cav sib ceg yog yooj yim npaum li mus tiv thaiv kom txhob tshaj kam nrog nws cov txim. Yog li ntawd, nyob rau hauv no tsab xov xwm yuav tsum tau tham yog hais txog cov kev tiv thaiv ntawm quarrels.

Tsev Neeg psychologists ntseeg - lub hauv paus ntawm ib tug muaj zog tsev neeg - yog tus hwm ntawm cov txij nkawm rau txhua lwm yam. Thiab nws yuav ua rau cov xuab zeb tsis muaj no cov khoom foundation. Thiab yog hais tias lub tsev neeg yuav pib ib tug sib cav sib ceg, lawv yuav tau yooj yim thiab sai sai puas sai puas tsev tsis muaj ib lub hauvpaus khov.
Care, tact thiab ua siab ntev - tag nrho cov derivatives hwm ntawm cov txiv neej rau txhua lwm yam. Thaum lawv yog, tag nrho cov teeb meem thiab tej teeb meem yog daws peacefully, thiab tej kev yuam kev, thiab kev txaj muag yuav tsis rau txim thiab muab tshem tawm phooj ywg kev lom zem.
Cov me nyuam nyob rau hauv xws tsev neeg loj hlob twj ywm thiab kuas, pom ib tug me nyuam zoo li tus cwj pwm qauv.
Lawv kawm hwm tawm tsam views thiab cov tswvyim los ntawm lwm tus. Kam rau ua yuav pab kom lawv yuav tsum tsis txhob muaj teeb meem. Yog li ntawd, ua ntej ntawm tag nrho cov, tsev neeg psychologists qhia neeg hauv tsev neeg qhia kev hwm rau txhua lwm yam. Thiab tsis yog nyob rau hauv deeds tab sis nyob rau hauv cov lus, vim hais tias muaj yog tsis muaj dab tsi uas mob mob ib yam li ib tug tsis paub lo lus. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom tsis tsuas cov ntsiab lus tab sis kuj lub suab nrov nyob rau hauv uas cov lus hais tej yam lus. Tsis muaj zem lawv hais tias: "Tib rau koj lo lus, tab sis tsis tau Huab Tais Ntuj hais."
Tag nrho cov quarrels pib nrog insults. Thiab nws yog feem ntau ib ras txog rau lo lus. Ib tug hnyav lo lus txiav txim nyob rau hauv tsev neeg yog npaum li cas nyuaj, raws li muaj yog tsis muaj internal tiv thaiv, cov neeg uas qhib rau txhua lwm yam.
Tab sis koj ua dab tsi yog koj hais ib yam dab tsi tsis ncaj ncees lawm?
Tsev Neeg psychologists qhia sai sai, tsis wasting lub sij hawm mus rau chaw uasi mus rau lub txuag kab lus: "Kuv thov txim, kuv tsis xav ua rau koj!" Ib kab lus yuav tshem tawm cov acuteness ntawm cov tshuaj tiv thaiv, tom qab uas nws yuav ua tau yooj yim los mus piav qhia. Qhov no kab lus yuav yog tus cawm seej ntawm cov tsev neeg ntawm lub ntiaj teb no, raws li nws tshem tawm qhov ua txhaum thiab txo nws hwj qhov teeb meem no nyob rau hauv ib tug ntau thaj yeeb kev taw qhia. Thaum twg koj muaj twj ywm, hais lus, koj tus hlub yuav txaus siab rau xws li ib tug raws sij hawm apology, thiab, tej zaum, thiab nws apologized yog hais tias nws yog tsis ncaj ncees lawm. Qhov loj tshaj plaws - tsis txhob pub rau tsim lub sib cav sib ceg - lub ntsiab destroyer ntawm tsev neeg zoo siab!