"Kuv muaj tsis muaj lwm yam," los yog hais txog solitude tub hluas

kho siab xav nyob rau hauv kev ua hluas yog tshwj xeeb yog mob. Maturing ib tug neeg pib ua ntau ib qho tseem ceeb ntawm nws tus kheej thiab lwm leej lwm tus, nws ntshaw thiab yuav tsum sib txawv. Qhov teeb meem: "Kuv tau tsis muaj lwm yam" yog ua ntau heev. Yuav ua li cas kom pab tau koj tus menyuam paub daws nyob ib leeg? Yuav ua li cas yog cov lus mus nrhiav?

Yog hais tias koj tus tub los yog tus ntxhais hais tias, "Kuv tau tsis muaj lwm yam," nws txhais tau hais tias nws los yog nws, "Kuv xav tias phem." Sim yuav tsum tau raws attentive li sai tau rau tus me nyuam thaum lub sij hawm lub sij hawm no. Tham rau nws ib zaug tsis qhia ntau li ntau tau, thiab ua kom to taub. Ua qhov ncaj ncees, qhia koj li kev xav thiab txoj kev xav, qhov puas ntawm yuav ua li cas koj loj hlob, dab tsi yog ib qho tseem ceeb rau koj ces. Alas, ntau zaus ib tug tub hluas yog tsis yog tsis paub rau lawv tej teeb meem, thiab prefers hnav ib. Cuaj kaum, muaj tej yam Pib ntsais koj teeb. Ntse niam txiv los yog tus kws qhia ntawv yuav pom lawv thiab sim pab.

Ua ntej ntawm tag nrho cov categorically tsis txhob thuam! Nco ntsoov hais tias koj muaj lus yog dab tsi nrog kev ua siab phem vim hais tias lawv mob tus twb ilv tsis paub qab hau ntsuj plig. Nyob rau hauv cov tub ntxhais hluas, ib tug heev thawv self-esteem, nws yog tsuas yog tab tom nrhiav rau lawv tus kheej thiab lawv qhov chaw nyob rau hauv lub ntiaj teb no. Yog li ntawd, yog tias cov lus: "Kuv muaj tsis muaj phooj ywg," koj teb cov lus thuam ( "Nws tsis yog vim hais tias koj tsis txaus .... ntse, zoo, zoo nraug, siab zoo, sim") thiab zoo sib xws phau ntawv - yuav kom koj muaj kev sib cuag nrog ib tug me nyuam ploj mus ib txhis. Tsis txhob xav hais tias koj cov lus yuav pab tau nws mus kho lub tsis hais tias nws yuav tau zoo. Qhov no yog ib tug ntawm cov biggest yuam kev niam txiv. On qhov tsis tooj, qhuas tus tub hluas ntau npaum li sai tau, muab nws cog qoob loo nyob rau hauv nws lub peev xwm thiab attractiveness. Nyob rau hauv kev tshawb fawb ntawm kev pom zoo thiab paub txog cov me nyuam nce mus rau hauv virtual kev muaj tiag, nyob rau hauv nrog cov neeg uas yog cov cia li kho siab thiab tsis zoo siab. Tsis tau txais qhuas thiab kev nkag siab nyob rau hauv lub tsev neeg thiab cov nyob rau hauv tsev kawm ntawv, lawv pib mus nrhiav rau lawv nyob rau txawv tuam txhab uas muag, yog tsis ib txwm txhim khu kev qha thiab nyob rau hauv dab zoo.

Tsis tas li ntawd, nco ntsoov, thiab hais txog yuav ua li cas tej zaum envy tus hluas creatures saib cov phooj ywg uas lawv zoo li yuav paub tab, vam meej, zoo nkauj. Rau cov ntxhais xav tias, "Kuv muaj tsis muaj lwm yam" yog feem ntau zoo txuas rau cov piv txwv ntawm cov phooj ywg uas tau ntev lawm muaj hais mav. Nws yog thaum lub sij hawm tiav hluas thiaj li xav kom tau zoo dua li lwm tus neeg, yuav tsum tau txaus nyiam thiab qhuas. Muaj yog tsis muaj dab tsi yuav tsis txaj muag ntawm - qhov no yog ib qho txheej txheem ntawm yus tus kheej-txoj lus pom zoo thiab yog leejtwg tiag tsim.

Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb rau ib tug tub hluas thiab ces ib tug txiv neej tus zoo phooj ywg, seb nws tau ua nws ib tug tiag tiag, tsis txhob hloov. Nrhiav tsis muaj kev pab los ntawm lawv cov phooj ywg, lawv yuav mus nrog cov laus, cov neeg laus. Nws kuj yuav tsub kom cov zoo ntawm "kev nplua nuj" ntawm ib tug tub hluas nyob rau hauv nws tus kheej ob lub qhov muag thiab nyob rau hauv lub tswv yim ntawm classmates. Nws tseem ceeb heev rau ib txwm tham nrog lawv cov me nyuam nyob rau hauv cov ntsiab ntawm lus sib txuas lus. Nws yog tsim nyog los qhia kom lawv to taub lawv tus kheej, mloog koj lub suab puab. Thiab paub qhov txawv cov ncaj ncees los ntawm cov husk. Cov txiv leej tub yog ib tug phooj ywg rau cov ntxhais yog feem ntau tsis yog li ntawd ntau npaum li cas rau ib tug neeg uas koj yuav qhia koj daim card, leej twg yuav cia siab rau, thiab ib lub uas kuv xav qhia rau ntawm lub tog uas tau "khav" rau tom khib. Qhov no, dhau lawm, yog ib tug ib txwm nyob ntev ntawm tsim thiab kev loj hlob. Yog li ntawd, tsis txhob Rush mus liam rau tus tub hluas hais tias nws tsis to taub cov neeg. Sim kom to taub txog nws thiab los ua ib tug nyab xeeb ntawm kev cog qoob loo. Tsuas yog nyob rau hauv no txoj kev yuav pab tau nws tau los ntawm no nyuaj lub sij hawm.