Paj Lug los ntawm nws pog. Zaj lus piv txwv 1 vim li cas peb kev sib raug zoo nrog lub sij hawm yog tsis zoo heev tshaj? Zaj lus piv txwv 2nd: Kuv heev npaum li cas rau nws ua li cas, thiab nws tsis txaus siab rau. Yuav ua li cas yog nws xav tau?

Cov piv txwv ntawm cov thawj.

Ntxhais xeeb ntxwv: - Grandma, qhia rau kuv yog vim li cas peb kev sib raug zoo yog zoo li ntawd, thaum pib, lub sij hawm, tau txais heev zuj zus? Tom qab tag nrho, peb hlub txhua lwm yam.

Grandma: - tus ntxhais xeeb ntxwv, qhia kuv yog hais tias koj tsis tu lub tsev, ces yuav ua li cas?

Ntxhais xeeb ntxwv: - sau av, txhua yam yuav pw txhua qhov chaw ...

Grandma: - Thiab yog hais tias koj tsis tuaj tos cov thoob khib nyiab nyob rau hauv txoj kev?

Ntxhais xeeb ntxwv - tag nrho cov Droga yuav khib nyiab, av thiab lub sij hawm, nws yuav tsis yooj yim kom dhau.

Grandma: - Tus ntawd yog tus yuav ua li cas peb kopim av sab hauv. Peb kev sib raug zoo nrog lwm tus neeg - nws yog ib txoj kev-mus txawv tebchaws. Thiab rau ib co yog vim li cas, peb feem ntau tsis tseem xav hais tias txoj kev no yuav tsum huv si, huv si. Peb hoard resentment, npau taws, txhaum, kev chim siab thiab lwm yam tsis zoo xav, thiab thiaj li clutter li txoj kev, hais tias nws twb tsis tau tsis muaj kev hlub, tsis muaj kev xyiv fab, tsis muaj dab tsi. Nco ntsoov tias, tus ntxhais xeeb ntxwv, rau nyob zoo kev sib raug zoo, dhau lawm, yuav tsum ua raws li saib xyuas ntawm nws, huv si thiab restore kev txiav txim.

Thiab ntau npaum li cas littered koj txoj kev sib raug zoo? Yuav ua li cas yog cov blockages ntawm resentment, npau taws, chim siab, nqi sau rau nws? Saib xyuas ntawm nws clearing, yuav nws. Muab tshem ntawm resentment thiab npau taws. Kuv paub tias nws yuav tsis yooj yim. Tab sis, yog hais tias koj xav tau, txhua yam koj yuav ua li cas. Muaj ntau ntau hom kev kawm koj tso resentment thiab kev zam txim. Thiab tu txoj kev ntawm kev sib raug zoo tsis tau tsuas yog nrog lawv cov txheeb ib, tab sis kuj nrog lawv niam lawv txiv, nrog lawv cov me nyuam thiab lwm cov neeg uas koj hlub.

Zaj lus piv txwv ntawm ob: Kuv ua li ntawd ntau npaum li cas, thiab nws tsis txaus siab rau kuv rau nws. Yuav ua li cas yog nws xav tau?

Ntxhais xeeb ntxwv: - Grandma, peb pib kom tau raws li nrog ib tug txiv leej tub, thiab kuv xav ua kom haum nws, kuv sim xav tias yuav tag nrho nws xav li cas, yuav tau kho rau nws, ua raws li nws nyiam rau nws nrog kuv zoo thiab yooj yim. Tab sis nws, rau ib txhia yog vim li cas, ntau thiab ntau deb ntawm kuv. Yog vim li cas? Yuav ua li cas yog nws xav tau?

Grandma: - tus ntxhais xeeb ntxwv, hais tias, thaum koj saib cov noog los yog tej tsiaj txhu, ib tug ntawm lawv attracts leej twg? Leej twg xwm tau muab ntau xim, ntxuav tus Tsov tus tw, kaj plaub? Ib tug poj niam los yog ib tug txiv neej?

Ntxhais xeeb ntxwv: - Cov txiv yuav ntau yeeb yuj.

Grandma: - Koj nyob nraum txoj cai. Saib zoo li ib tug nquab tw fluffed thiab so nws lub hauv siab, taug kev nyob rau hauv pem hauv ntej ntawm ib tug nquab, los yog zoo li ib tug yaj yuam uas qhia tawm nws tus ko tw ua ntej lub peahen. Yog li ntawd ib tug neeg uas muaj rau "ntxias" thiab uas "xaiv"? Cov txiv qhia ib tug poj niam, yog dab tsi lawv zoo nraug, hais tias lawv yog cov zoo tshaj plaws.

Cov poj niam, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog nyob rau hauv thawj theem ntawm kev sib raug, feem ntau ntseeg tau hais tias yog hais tias lawv yuav "nthuav", "khoov" raws li ib tug txiv neej, hais tias xws li tactics yuav pab kom lawv yuav tsum tau xav thiab ua kom ib tug txiv neej, nws tau daig nyob rau hauv ib tug nplaum hav iav super kho mob thiab saib xyuas, xws li ib tug yoov nyob rau hauv ib tug jam thiab twb nyob qhov twg yuav tsis xav tawm.

Thiab ntawm no yog lus dag nyob rau hauv tos ib pliag rau lawv ib tug heev loj yuam kev. Qhov tseeb hais tias koj tsis muab thaum pib ntawm tus txiv neej los qhia nws li txiv neej xwm, kom paub nws tus kheej raws li ib tug txiv neej, yuav tsum tau yaj zoo li ib tug yaj yuam nyob rau hauv pem hauv ntej ntawm koj ib tug bushy tus Tsov tus tw thiab qhia tawm. Thiab yog vim li cas yuav nws ua li ntawd, yog hais tias koj twb muaj tag nrho cov ntawm lawv tau ua li cas thiab txiav txim siab hais tias nws yog zoo thiab hais tias nws xav tau kev pab.

Ces koj xav tau ib tug txiv neej yuav ua rau koj tej txiaj ntsim, nws muab attentions, tsis noj dab tsi rau pom zoo. Xav hais tias, thiab rau dab tsi yog vim li cas nws yuav ua li cas, yog hais tias koj cia li deprived nws ntawm qhov yuav tsum tau los muab koj cov cim ntawm cov xim, thiab tag nrho cov rushed mus rau koj tus kheej. Koj mus rau nws tag nrho txiav lawv muaj peev xwm thiab zoo siab hlo coj raws li ib tug txiv neej, koj coj tam sim ntawd nws tseem ceeb tshaj plaws, dab tsi yog pw rau hauv nws los ntawm qhov.

Thiab tsis tau, yog dab tsi tau txais peb yooj yim heev, feem ntau yog me ntsis menyuam. Tu siab, qhov no txoj cai twb tsis tau tso tseg. Thiab yog hais tias nyob rau hauv lub "conquest" ntawm koj, koj mloog thiab hlub ib tug txiv neej yeej tsis ua lag luam tej dag zog, ces koj yuav txaus siab rau nws cia li raws li me ntsis, nyob rau hauv cov kev phem ntawm tag nrho koj gratification.

Qhov no yuam kev yog heev txaus ntshai tshwj xeeb tshaj yog nyob rau hauv thaum pib ntawm ib tug kev sib raug zoo thiab muaj peev xwm tsuas hla tawm tag nrho koj cov kev siv zog mus tua tag nrho cov ntawm koj cov miv nyuas. Thiab qhov no yuam kev cov poj niam ua nrog heev regularity thiab lub caij nyoog tsis sib haum tus txiv neej los ntawm nws tus kheej nyob ze rau 100%.

Ceeb toom! Kuv tsis tau hais tias hais tias nws yog tsis tsim nyog los saib xyuas ntawm tus txiv neej. Peb yuav tsum tau, ntawm chav kawm, tab sis txhua yam yuav tsum nyob rau hauv moderation thiab, saum toj no tag nrho, noj mus rau hauv tus account lawv tus kheej nyiam, lawv lub siab nyiam. Muab ib tug txiv neej los qhia nws li txiv neej xwm, xam qhovkev nyob rau hauv lawv qhov.

Koj yuav hais tias koj xaiv ib tug yog tsis muaj tej qhov chaw. Ces xav txog nws, vim li cas koj xaiv xws li ib tug txiv neej nws tus kheej? Thiab leej twg yog "crushed" nws hais tias essence?

Tsis txhob hnov qab mus hlub thiab txaus siab rau koj tus kheej, Nyob zoo poj niam. Ces cov txiv neej yuav txaus siab rau koj.