Qhia ib tug me nyuam mus rau lub lauj kaub - yooj yim los yog nyuaj?

Kawm ntawv tus me nyuam mus rau lub lauj kaub yog feem ntau ib tug heev kev sib tw, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog nyob rau hauv lub teeb ntawm ntev-lub sij hawm siv tag muab pov tseg tiag. Nyob rau hauv feem ntau tus neeg mob, tus me nyuam pib siv nws consciously nce mus txog ob lub xyoos. Ib tug meej lo lus teb rau cov nqe lus nug ntawm dab tsi muaj hnub nyoog los qhia ib tug me nyuam mus rau lub lauj kaub, yog heev yooj yim. Muaj ntau ntawm cov me nyuam kawm tau no complex science nyob rau hauv cia li peb mus rau plaub hnub, thaum lwm tus neeg yuav tsum tau ua ib tug ob peb lub lis piam, los yog txawm lub hlis. Txawm li cas los, nyob rau hauv thiaj li yuav pab txhawb tus txheej txheem no nyob rau hauv lub neej yav tom ntej, koj yuav pib qhia koj tus me nyuam mus tu cev txij li thaum peb mus rau plaub lub hlis.

Yuav kom tom qab tau yooj yim mus qhia ib tug me nyuam mus rau lub lauj kaub, ib co niam txiv nyob rau lub hnub nyoog no txoj kev xyaum ntawm "cog" ntawm nws daim pawj, postelennuyu rau hauv pem teb. Nws yog zoo dua rau ua tom qab koj nres li lub me nyuam, los yog tej lub sij hawm tom qab ntawd, tom qab nws tau noj. Yog hais tias koj pom tau tias ib tug me nyuam muaj rau ib teev - ib nrab tseem qhuav, koj yuav tau tuav nws tshaj ib tug ntaub los yog lub plab mog. Cov kuj yooj yim manipulations yuav zoo heev pab txhawb koj lub hauj lwm nyob rau hauv lub neej yav tom ntej.

Nyob rau hauv kev ncaj ncees nws yuav tsum tau muab sau tseg tias tsis yog txhua leej niam tau "cog" peb los yog plaub lub hlis 'cov me nyuam. Feem ntau cov me nyuam ntsaj, capricious thiab nraus tawm, thiab feem ntau cov niam txiv lawv tus kheej tsis muaj lub siab ntev - lawv muab pov los qhia ib tug me nyuam mus rau "nag lossis daus ntawm" tsis txawm yeej pib. Txawm li cas los, nws yuav tsum tseem qhia restraint: tom qab los qhia ib tug me nyuam mus rau lub lauj kaub yuav tsum tau npaum li cas yooj yim. Yuav kom khiav ntawm dab tsi lub sij hawm nws yuav tsum tau kom nyob rau hauv cov ntaub, nws yog zoo dua rau ua tsis muaj ib tug ob peb hnub "pawj" los yog "haggis".

Muab tus me nyuam mos nyob rau hauv lub lauj kaub yuav pib thaum muaj hnub nyoog ntawm xya los yim lub hlis, thaum nws yuav zoo mus zaum. Lub lauj kaub yuav tsum txaus siab (zoo dua - nrog rau tom qab, nyob rau hauv daim ntawv ntawm ib tug quav). Nws bumpers yuav tsum dav thiaj li tsis mus txiav mus rau hauv ob txhais ceg. Yuav pib, psychologists qhia kom muab tus me nyuam nyob rau hauv cov Potty nyob rau hauv cov khaub ncaws uas nws tsuas tau mus siv rau qhov no tshiab kev kawm. Yog hais tias cov me nyuam yaus yog categorically protests tiv thaiv me nyuam no yuav qhia ib tug me nyuam mus rau lub lauj kaub zoo tsis tau tsis kam. Ib cov kws txawj txawm pom zoo kom ib ntus tshem tawm cov lauj kaub, tab sis lwm tus neeg, nyob rau hauv tsis tooj, nws yuav tsum tau mus cia nws nyob rau hauv ib tug muaj koob qhov chaw - yog li tus me nyuam yuav tau siv rau nws sai sai. Tom qab ib co sij hawm, ib qho los yuav tsum tau rov qab. Yuav tshem tawm cov ntaub thaum tus me nyuam yuav tsis ntshai. Nco ntsoov kom paub tseeb tias lub lauj kaub yog tsis txias - piv txwv li, sov nws nyob rau hauv ib tug kwj ntawm cov dej sov, los yog ib tug me nyuam txoj kev hloov, tej zaum tsis zoo tus cwj pwm ntawm nws.

Cog tus me nyuam nyob rau hauv lub lauj kaub yuav tsum tau nyob rau tib lub sij hawm. Nws to taub yog vim li cas qhov no yog tsim nyog, nws yog pom zoo, piv txwv li, co tawm tus txheem ntawm lub lauj kaub rau hauv lub pawj los yog ua rau kom tsim nyog suab. Koj yuav tau sim "muab" nyob rau hauv lub Potty menyuam roj hmab los yog dais, piav qhia rau tus me nyuam hais tias lawv yuav ua li cas. Uas txoj kev yuav ua tau zoo nyob rau hauv koj cov ntaub ntawv, nws yog tsis yooj yim sua twv seb. Ib yam yog tej yam: qhia tus me nyuam mus rau lub lauj kaub yuav tsum tau nyuaj, yog hais tias koj ua nws los ntawm kev quab yuam. Nws yog zoo dua rau tig cov kev cob qhia uas tu cev coj nyob rau hauv ib qho yooj yim thiab yooj yim kev ua si, evoke zoo cwj pwm txawv. Ntawm no yog peb muaj peev xwm nco qab, piv txwv li, ib tug ingenious txoj kev pom zoo los ntawm cov niam ntawm ib tug American; nws twb khov nyob rau hauv lub tub yees yeeb yuj ice cubes, muab tso rau lawv nyob rau hauv ib lub lauj kaub, thiab ces muaj rau nws tus tub, "tsom" rau lawv. Tab sis qhov no txoj kev - yog ntau tshaj rau cov neeg uas xav, yuav ua li cas rau Potty qhia ib tug me nyuam nyob rau hauv lub 2 xyoo los yog li ntawd.

Nyob rau hauv cov neeg mob, thaum koj muaj kev tswj kom "txeeb lub caij" thiab mus poob rau tus me nyuam nyob rau hauv lub sij hawm, nws yuav tsum tau qhuas nws thiab caress. Lauj kaub yuav tsum nco ntsoov yuav tsis pub dhau ncav tsis cuag, thiab cov yuav tsum tau txhawb kom tus me nyuam mus zaum rau ntawm nws tus kheej. Yog hais tias koj ua li qhia siv kuj thiab meej, feem ntau ib xyoos thiab ib nrab me nyuam yog twb nug rau ib lub lauj kaub los yog khiav lawv tus kheej mus rau nws yog tias tsim nyog. Tsis txhob txhawj yog tias ib tug me nyuam uas yog twb nug rau ib lub lauj kaub, mam li nco dheev ceased mus ua tau li ntawd. Feem ntau cov feem ntau, qhov tseeb yog hais tias tus cwj pwm yog nyob rau hauv flux, yog li tsis txhob blame nws - nyob rau hauv ib tug ob peb hnub txhua yam yuav mus ntseeg nkaws, thiab ob lub xyoos tus me nyuam twb tsim check tu cev coj.