Los ntawm taws nyob rau hauv cov me nyuam nyuaj siab los ntawm zoo tag nrho cov niam txiv. Muaj ntau ntawm lawv tej zaum kuj poob tag nrho cov kev ua siab ntev thiab kiag li tsis muaj lub tswv yim yuav ua li cas yuav nyob rau hauv qhov teeb meem no. Uas yog vim li cas, thiab nug cov lus nug hais txog yuav ua li cas yog hais tias tus me nyuam hysterics. Wb soj ntsuam.
Taws feem ntau pib nyob rau hauv cov me nyuam hnub nyoog 1.5-2 xyoo. Cov me nyuam yaus uas cia li nag hmo yog ib tug ntxim hlub tus tubtxib saum ntuj, dhau mus ua ib tug tsis zoo tawv ncauj, tau coj lawv niam lawv txiv rau distraction. Nws yog ncaj ncees hais tias tus cwj pwm tus me nyuam exhibits tsis yeej ib txwm. Heev feem ntau taws nyob rau hauv cov me nyuam provoked los ntawm cov neeg pluag noj qab haus huv, qaug zog, lub siab lub ntsws overload. Piv txwv li, yog hais tias tus me nyuam tsis xis nyob, nws yuav muab pov ib tug taws cia li tawm ntawm cov kob xiav, thaum nyob rau hauv lub qub xeev, nws yuav muab tau yooj yim distracted los yog hloov mus rau lwm yam. Yog li ntawd, tsis txhob cia lub nkees, tshaib plab los yog pribolevshy kas mus rau lub khw (lub post office, thiab hais txog. D.). Nws tseem yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev rau dispense tus cwj pwm txawv thiab yaam puab paub, txawm yog cov feem ntau zoo. Yog hais tias kev lom zem kev pab cuam yuav tsum tshaj-nyeem (piv txwv li, ib tug puppet ua yeeb yam, thiab ces lub dawm mus rau lub zoo los yog kev lom zem), tus me nyuam yuav nws thiaj li pib ua xwb nrog xav, yuav tsum tau pes tsawg - los ntawm lub siab lub ntsws qaug zog.
Heev feem ntau taws nyob rau hauv cov me nyuam tshwm sim nyob rau hauv pej xeem qhov chaw xws li khw, pej xeem thauj. Nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv no, cov niam txiv muaj tshwj xeeb tshaj yog ib qho nyuaj lub sij hawm, vim hais tias lawv yog cov yuav raug kev raug txim ntawm lwm tus neeg. Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws nyob rau hauv no qhov teeb meem - calm down, tsis txhob mus dag lawv tus kheej thiab them tsis mloog mus rau lub passers-by, yuav tsum tau mus coj cov me nyuam nyob rau hauv nws caj npab, muab rau tus pope los yog mus yuav tsis zoo siab tus me nyuam siv lub tshuab. Nws yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws los mus coj (coj) ib tug me nyuam nyob rau hauv txoj kev thiab muab nws ib lub caij nyoog rov qab. Txawm li cas los, scolding nws nyob rau hauv lub xeev no tsuas yog meaningless, rau lub caij pib koj yuav tsum calm koj tus me nyuam.
Taws nyob rau hauv cov me nyuam - tsis yog tsuas yog lub kua muag thiab screams. Muaj ntau cov me nyuam yog kev zoo heev hais kom ua ntawm cov txheej txheem rau hauv pem teb dov, ntog thiab banging lawv ko taw, tsis nco qab lub votes. Ib txhia tots mus ntxiv thiab sib ntaus sib tua tiv thaiv hauv pem teb los yog lub phab ntsa taub hau, rub plaub hau, kos nws lub ntsej muag, thiab txawm ua rau ntuav (lub yav tas, qhov zoo ces, tsis tshua muaj). Tej zaum cov me nyuam mos quaj thaum lub sij hawm tig xiav daim di ncauj. Nyob rau hauv hauv paus ntsiab lus, cov taws nyob rau hauv cov me nyuam - lub phenomenon yog heev qub, tab sis yog hais tias lawv tshwm sim thiab feem ntau thiab tsis muaj kev vim li cas, thiab nrog nws cov los ntawm tej yam alarming cov tsos mob, koj yuav tsum qhia lub crumbs competent neurologist.
Yog hais tias tus me nyuam hysterics tias cov niam txiv ua li cas? Raws li twb tau hais, nyob rau hauv thawj qhov chaw yuav tsum calm down thiab nco ntsoov tias nws kis tau los ntawm yuav luag tag nrho cov tots. Secondly, nws yog tsim nyog los pub lub crumbs lub sij hawm mus ua si rau cov pej xeem (tob nws yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws tawm mus nws ib leeg yog hais tias nws yog, ntawm chav kawm, tau). Vim hais tias haub nyob rau hauv qhov teeb meem no yog yuav luag powerless, tus me nyuam tsuas tsis hnov. Thiab twb tom qab tus me nyuam calms down, koj yuav tsum hais rau nws qhov teeb meem no, tsom xam cov cwj pwm, voicing nws txoj kev xav ( "koj nyob nraum chim siab vim hais tias peb tsis tau yuav ib lub tsheb"), thiab piav qhia txog hais tias xws li ib tug zaub tig yog tsis tsim nyog ( "txawm hais tias koj tau chim qw nyob rau hauv txoj kev yuav tsum tsis txhob "). Koj muaj peev xwm los ntawm lub sij hawm rau lub sij hawm mus ua si scenes nrog kev pab los ntawm nyiam cov khoom ua si me nyuam, rov ua dua pronouncing qhov teeb meem no thiab qhia nws yuav ua li cas ua nyob rau hauv ib tug cov ntaub ntawv (txoj cai thiab tsis ncaj ncees lawm).
Taws nyob rau hauv cov me nyuam yuav tau sim los mus tiv thaiv. Thaum lub ib qho kuam me me pib sawv, nws yog tsim nyog los redirect rau ua tej yam kev ua ( "saib yog dab tsi ib tug kab", "coj kuv tawm hauv lub kua txiv pob"). Ib txhia me nyuam pab cuddles thiab ntau yam "schekotalki". Tsis tas li ntawd, yeej tsis mus rau lub hauv paus ntsiab lus - tej zaum ib tug me nyuam muaj peev xwm muab txoj kev thiab yuav lub feem ntau mob-fated tsheb, tab sis yog hais tias qhov hysteria twb tsis tau pib. Thiab yog hais tias cov me nyuam yaus twb muab ntaus rau hauv ib tug npau taws heev heev, indulgence ua tom qab, los yog nws realizes hais tias lub kua muag thiab qw peev xwm tiag tiag ua tau ib tug ntau. Nyob rau hauv tas li ntawd, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas cov kev cai ntawm tag nrho cov neeg hauv tsev neeg twb zoo sib xws. Ib tug teeb meem nyob qhov twg tus niam tsis teb mus rau lub suab quaj, thiab kuv txiv catches ua tej yam uas yuav tsum tau ib tug nyiam tus me nyuam, tau ua ib tug taws nyob rau hauv ib tug paub txoj kev ntawm manipulation thiab ceev lawv ntev heev.