Tias cov txiv neej hlub tshaj plaws: myths xwb thiab kev muaj tiag

Muaj ntau cov poj niam yog xav nyob rau hauv cov nqe lus nug, tias cov txiv neej hlub tshaj plaws. Cov lus teb no yog tsis yog li ntawd ib qho yooj yim rau nws. Muaj yuav tsis tiv thaiv kom txhob muaj ib co kev txawj ntse ntawm psychology thiab nws tus kheej lub neej kev. Feem ntau unjustified xaus txog qhov xwm ntawm tus txiv neej xyuam xim ua tom qab ib tug ob peb npaj siab ua tsis tau tejyam kev sib raug zoo, los yog los ntawm cov piv txwv ntawm ib tug neeg. Yog no puas muaj tseeb? Ntawm cov hoob kawm tsis, vim hais tias nyob rau hauv thiaj li yuav to taub li cas feem ntau cov txiv neej xav tau, koj yuav tsum yog tsawg kawg yog tuav ib tug sociological txoj kev tshawb no. Tab sis peb mus rau lwm txoj kev. Wb sim ua kom qhov tsis tooj, thiab tshwj xeeb tshaj yog rau dispel ib co heev myths xwb no. Wb tau pib.

Tswvyim hais ua dabneeg naj npawb 1: football

Ua ntej kuv ob lub qhov muag tam sim ntawd tsim cov duab ntawm: koj nyiam nyob rau hauv lub rooj zaum nrog ib lub raj mis ntawm npias nyob rau hauv pem hauv ntej ntawm lub TV, lub screen uas yog ib tug tawm tsam rau cov hom phiaj nyob rau hauv ib lub neej-thiab-tuag nriaj. Paub? Kuv yeej paub tseeb tias koj hais tias, raws li statistics, lub neej tsis muaj qhov no zoo ntawm kev ua si nawv tsis sawv cev rau xwb 47% ntawm cov txiv neej. Kuv, rau piv txwv, kuv paub raws nraim li cas yog nyob ib ncig ntawm kuv tsuas yog 2-3 cov neeg fanateyut los ntawm football, thiab ib tug ntawm lawv - ib tug hluas nkauj.

Tswvyim hais ua dabneeg tooj 2: Noj

Yog hais tias koj thov kom qhov nruab nrab poj niam, txiv neej hlub ntau dua lwm yam, nws yuav teb nrog cog qoob loo: ib tug qab thiab hearty noj mov. Pom zoo? Thiab koj yuav tsis ncaj ncees lawm nyob rau hauv lub paj. Feem ntau cov txiv neej kuv paub nyiam noj es sai sai thiab hearty tshaj elegant thiab qab. Ntawm cov hoob kawm, los ntawm lub tsev noj mov noj mov, tsis muaj leej twg ntawm lawv yuav muab tsis tau li, tab sis yuav tsis xav tias tsis zoo siab yog hais tias peb muaj noj dumplings thiab sausages thaum lub sij hawm lub lim tiam. Ntawm cov hoob kawm, muaj tseeb kiv cua ntawm cov zaub mov uas noj ib, ob, thiab nyias ntxuav cia nrog tag nrho cov no compote, tab sis tseem yuav tsum tau ib tug txhua txhua hnub ntau yam. Tab sis nws yog es ib tug tsuas yog, yug cia li lawv lub neej tus khub, puas lawv cov thib ob halves. Nyob rau hauv Feem ntau, lawv yog heev unpretentious nyob rau hauv cov zaub mov, tab sis cov poj niam, ntawm contrast, yog ntau npaum li cas yuav muab txim siab yuav tsum tau rau qhov saj ntawm cov tais diav. Yog li ntawd, tam sim no hais tias peb tau pom twb nrog ob tug myths xwb mob siab rau lub fact tias cov txiv neej hlub ntau dua lwm yam, mus rau lub thib peb thiab feem ntau, nyob rau hauv kuv lub tswv yim, nthuav ntau.

Tswvyim hais ua dabneeg tooj 3: Cov poj niam

Nrhiav rau ntawm lub npe, tej zaum koj twb twv tau, dab tsi yuav tsum tau tham. Feem ntau lo lus teb rau cov nqe lus nug ntawm yog dab tsi cov txiv neej hlub tshaj plaws nyob rau hauv lub ntiaj teb no - yog ib tug ntau ntawm cov poj niam. Nyob rau hauv lwm yam lus, tag nrho cov neeg ntawm cov txiv neej yog txivneej los pojniam yog polygamous. Peb pib nrog lub fact tias los ntawm qhov niam hlob niam yau, peb txhua tus sib npaug, txwv tsis pub peb ntiaj chaw yuav ntev dhau los tau ua tu noob. Tab sis hais tias yog raws li deb raws li peb txaus siab rau suppress lub ntuj instincts ntawm lub siab, lub loj lo lus nug. Muaj siab hlob yog? Far los ntawm nws. Raws li feem ntau ntawm cov psychologists, ib tug txiv neej uas hlub ib tug ntau ntawm cov poj niam tsuas yog nyob rau hauv qhov thiab active nrhiav xwb Homemakers, los ntawm uas nws yuav xav kom muaj offspring. Ntawm cov hoob kawm, muaj ib co piv txwv nyob qhov twg cov kev tshawb fawb rau cov ntsiab lus no yuav ploj thiab nws yuav nws tus kheej lub ntsiab ntawm lub neej. Nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv no, nws yog tsis yooj yim sua kom hloov qhov teeb meem no, thiab koj - tsuas yog cov theem tom ntej. Yog li ntawd, cov nqe lus nug "li cas cov txiv neej hlub tshaj plaws" heev multifaceted thiab tsis meej xwm, tab sis hnub no, peb, ntawm chav kawm, muaj kev tswj kom dispel li ntau raws li peb cov uas twb muaj lawm nyob rau hauv cov kev kawm ntawm tswvyim hais ua dabneeg.