Kev plees kev yi yeej ib txwm ntaus nqi raws li ib tug kev ntxeev thiab koj tus kheej qee. Tsis hais seb ib tug ob peb yuav nrhiav tau txaus lub zog thiab muaj siab rau tag nrho cov pas ua ke thiab tsim kom muaj los yog tawg ua me me, luag pojniam luag txiv mob. Thiab ob leeg. Tus txiv neej uas muaj wondering "yog vim li cas poj niam hloov" yuav ua tau raws li ib qho piv txwv ntawm tus poj tej hauj lwm hauv cov ntawv nyeem, xinesmas, uas sawv cev rau cov poj niam nyob rau hauv lub ntiaj teb no impartially. Lawv yuav pib mus nrhiav tus yeeb ncuab nyob rau hauv lub "vile poj niam qhov", uas yog organically tsis muaj peev xwm los yog muaj kev ntseeg rau hlub zoo siab hlo. Los yog dluab temptress Lilith courtesan Messalina - lub vamp ib tug tsi, rau subjugate cov txiv neej thiab tsis kam lawv tus kheej siab nyiam. Tiam sis ntau tshaj feem ntau cov lus nug yuav tsum tau muab tso rau txawv: tsis "Yog vim li cas hloov tus poj niam," thiab hais tias nyob rau hauv kev lub union coj mus rau kev plees kev yi.
Nws yog yooj yim npaum li mus "txhais sub" nyob rau lwm yam. Feem ntau tsis paub tsis to taub qhov yooj yim fundamentals ntawm lub psychology ntawm cov poj niam, dag (Los yog xav txog lawv tus kheej xws li) cov txiv muab pov li lawv txhais tes, kom koj them revolvers, lampoons sau vim hais tias lawv yuav tsis to taub yog vim li cas nws tus poj niam hloov. Lawv heev frankly cia siab tias lawv tus khub purity, ntseeg, muaj peev xwm kom indulge thiab los siav tag nrho lawv cov kev xav tau, raws li tau zoo raws li tau ntxim hlub thiab txaus nyiam. Tab sis - nyob rau hauv ib qho kev ntsuas, tsuas rau nws tus txiv. Thiab heev frankly, lawv, tsis paub yog vim li cas nws tus poj niam hloov nyob rau hauv qhov tseeb, ntseeg hais tias qhov teeb meem ntawm lawv cov kev sib raws li txoj cai, cov nyiaj, siab hlob, los yog ib yam dab tsi ntau tangible thiab lowlands. Nyob rau hauv cov reflections thiab cov lus xaus yog kiag li overlooked qhov tseem ceeb tshaj: lub kev plees kev yi yuav siv sij hawm qhov chaw nyob qhov twg muaj tsis muaj kev sib raug zoo siab nyob rau hauv feem ntau. Tom qab uas lub union yog muaj zog thiab txhim khu kev qha, thiab tus ob zoo li lawv tau tsim rau txhua tus lwm yam, nws yuav tsum tau tsis tsuas puas siab puas ntsws compatibility. Koj yuav tsum tau ib qho zeem muag ntawm cov hom phiaj, lub ntsiab lus ntawm lub neej. Yuav tsum tsom ntsoov rau cov kev xav tau ntawm tus khub, thiab ntau zaus tshaj tsis cov nyiaj txiag thiab cov ntaub ntawv thiab puas siab puas ntsws. Yog hais tias lub tus poj niam yog coj tsis ncaj, nws feem ntau yog pom tau tias tsis zoo siab nyob rau hauv sib yuav. Nws xav tau ib tug lossi luag thuam, los yog relegated rau lub keeb kwm yav dhau. Nyob rau hauv-txoj cai kuj ntxiv roj rau qhov hluav taws kub: "Nws yuav muab tso rau hauv xws li ib tug menyuam roj hmab", "Nws yog ib tug tsev neeg muab." Tiam sis peb yuav tsis nco qab lub tseem ceeb tshaj plaws, cov neeg uas nyob qib qub lub pob cyuam. Lawv tsum them sai sai mus rau txhua lwm yam thiab kev txhawb nqa. Tshwj xeeb yog mob yog muaj los ntawm cov poj niam. Yog hais tias cov txiv neej pov thawj lawv kev plees kev yi ntau qhov yuav tsum tau rau kev sib deev muaj ntau haiv neeg, txoj kev tshawb ntawm yog vim li cas cov kev hloov ntawm nws tus poj niam, qhia hais tias lawv, raws li ib tug txoj cai, kev sib yuav yog tsis txaus hlub thiab xim. Mob tsis muaj kev sib txuas lus, kev hlub, spontaneity nyob rau hauv ib tug kev sib raug zoo nrog tus txij nkawm lub ntsiab lawv yuav ua li cas mus nrhiav kev txais thiab pom zoo los ntawm sab nraum.
Qhov no, incidentally, yog heev adept siv tag nrho cov hom ntawm Alfonso thiab kev seducers. Paub qhov xav tau ntawm txhua tus pojniam nyob rau hauv cov xim-tsuas yog nws pom zoo thiab admiration, lawv yuav tau mus skillfully muab qhov kev xav ntawm tus neeg mob. Woe rau lub naive, uas yuav poob rau qhov kab nuv ntses ntawm xws li ib tug searcher rau ib qho yooj yim nyiaj. Tiam sis feem ntau lub siab ntawm cov poj niam nyob rau hauv kev sib yuav thiab, raws li ib tug tshwm sim, nws rhiab heev rau tej qhuas, muaj zog hais tias nws txawm muaj ib tug crush rau nws hais tias nws tsuas ua. Cov pojniam feem ntau hloov rau kev xav yog vim li cas. Thiab tsuas yog lawv cov txiv, yog hais tias lawv yeej hlub, muaj peev xwm ntawm cov xim thiab hlub los mus tiv thaiv kev plees kev yi.