Yug ib tug me nyuam - nws yog ib qho zoo kawg zoo hmoov zoo thiab ib tug zoo luag hauj lwm. Lub sib cav tswv yim hais txog kev tu me nyuam thiab cov kev pab ntawm tus me nyuam tau raug ua txij li thaum lub sij hawm immemorial. Cov xib fwb thiab cov pediatricians pom zoo hais tias nws yog yooj yim los mus tiv thaiv ib tug tswv yim sib cav nyob rau hauv yuav ua li cas los tsa thiab muab kev kawm rau es tsis loj hlob tsuas yog lawv tus kheej tus me nyuam. Thiab tsis tau hais tias yog lub tseem ceeb tshaj plaws nyob rau hauv kev tu me nyuam? Peb yuav sim mus sau cov zoo tshaj plaws tswv yim thiab lub tswv yim yuav ua li cas los tsa ib tug me nyuam, nyob rau hauv tib tsab xov xwm.
Tsa los yog loj hlob ib tug me nyuam?
Tsis yog txhua txhua cov niam txiv yog tag nrho paub hais tias lub luag hauj lwm uas lawv noj nyob rau hauv, txiav txim siab kom muaj cov me nyuam. Feem ntau cov tub ntxhais tsev neeg zoo li cov feem ntau nyuaj rau muab cov me nyuam nrog cov ntaub ntawv uas tsis tu ncua thiab saib xyuas ntawm lawv nyob rau hauv thawj xyoo ntawm lub neej. Tab sis nyob rau hauv qhov tseeb no yog heev yuam kev lawm. Lub luag hauj lwm ntawm leej niam thiab cov txiv cov niam txiv yuav nqa thoob plaws lub neej. Nyob rau tib lub sij hawm qhov loj tshaj kev pab txhawb nqa thiab saib xyuas ntawm tsev neeg tus me nyuam xav tau kev pab tsawg kawg yog txog thaum kawm ntawv tiav. Txhua conscientious niam txiv tsaug xav kom lawv cov me nyuam rau qhov zoo xwb. Tab sis nco ntsoov hais tias koj yuav tsum tsa ib tug me nyuam, coj los ntawm tsis tsuas yog lawv tus kheej kev ntshaw thiab kev npau suav. Pab ncaj qha tom qab yug me nyuam ntawm tus me nyuam yuav tau nco ntsoov hais tias nws - tus neeg, thiab ntau lub xyoo los ua ib tug tag nrho cov neeg laus. Cov neeg ua hauj lwm ntawm cov niam txiv - mus pab lawv cov me nyuam loj hlob li noj qab nyob zoo thiab diversified, tsis txhob tsa ib tug tub los yog tus ntxhais ntawm ib tug "zoo kas." Education - yog ib tug txheej txheem txhua hnub. Nco ntsoov hais tias rau ib tug me nyuam nws niam nws txiv - yog lub tseem ceeb tshaj plaws neeg nyob rau hauv nws lub neej. Tsis hais txog ntawm lawv tus kheej workload rau ib tug txhua txhua hnub, them ib qhov nqi ntawm lub sij hawm ib tug me nyuam. Yog hais tias koj nkees - cia li sib tham los yog ua si. Nyob rau hauv tsis muaj cov ntaub ntawv tsis quav ntsej txog tus me nyuam thiab tsis hloov nws upbringing mus rau ib tug thib peb tog!
Puas siab puas ntsws kev nyab xeeb nyob rau hauv lub tsev neeg
Mus nqa tawm qhov tseeb upbringing ntawm tus me nyuam yog tsim nyog los tsim ib tug dej siab hauv paus. Thawj lub xyoo ntawm lub neej ntawm lub ntiaj teb no rau ib tug me nyuam - nws yog nws tsev neeg. Saib, hnub tom qab hnub, tus cwj pwm ntawm cov neeg laus nyob hauv tsev, yuav ua li cas lawv sib txheeb li cas, tus me nyuam tsim nws lub ntiaj teb. Nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv no, vim yog lub tsis muaj kev cov me nyuam yaus muaj peev xwm tsis rationally soj ntsuam cov kev uas cov niam txiv. Txawm lawv ua li cas, no mas, kom meej meej tseeb, los yog tsawg kawg li ib txwm. Nco ntsoov: Nyob rau hauv tsis muaj tej yam yuav tsum tau koj cog lus thiab xaiv tau cov yam tawm nrog tus me nyuam! Nws yog ntshaw tias cov me nyuam yog nyob rau hauv tus tsis ntsib tsis zoo tus cwj pwm txawv thiab phem mus ob peb vas ntawm lawv niam lawv txiv. Khiav tus mob no yog ib yam nyuaj heev, tab sis sim tsis txhob muab nws tawm nyob rau hauv tus me nyuam. Yog hais tias koj yog nkees heev, chim siab los yog nyob rau hauv mob - honestly qhia txog dab tsi tshwm sim rau nws tus tub los yog tus ntxhais. Ntseeg kuv, txawm nyob rau hauv lub hnub nyoog ntawm 3-4 xyoo kas paub tseeb tias koj yuav to taub. Yog tsis muaj dab phem mus ob peb vas ntawm cov niam txiv ib tug me nyuam tej zaum yuav xav tias yog vim li cas rau nws - thiab qhov no yog ib tug loj kev ncaj ncees raug mob. Txhua hnub sib tham, tsev neeg kev cai thiab hnub caiv - qhov no yog dab tsi yog tsim nyog rau peb txhua tus, thiab cov me nyuam lub hardest. Nyob rau hauv ib tug twj ywm zoo tsev neeg feem ntau yuav loj hlob zoo siab thiab noj qab nyob zoo tus me nyuam. Sim mus rau tiv thaiv koj tus me nyuam los ntawm ntau cov lus qhia suab nrov thiab xov xwm phem. Txawm tias ib tug ceev thiab playful music rau cov me nyuam yog tsuas haum rau sab nraum zoov ua si thiab kev ua si ua ub no. Kiag li tsis tsim nyog mus saib tus me nyuam "neeg laus" hloov lwm lub tsev movies-tua hluav taws thiab lwm yam yeeb yaj duab uas muaj peev xwm ua mob lub cev tsis kho psyche.
Ib qho zoo tagnrho ib puag ncig rau txoj kev loj hlob ntawm
Preschool tus me nyuam paub txog lub ntiaj teb no raws li ntau li ntau nws yuav tsum tau qhia rau cov niam txiv. Nyob rau hauv thawj xyoo ntawm lub neej lub ntiaj teb no ntawm cov me nyuam yaus - nws yog nws chav tsev thiab cov tsev apartment. Sim khaubncaws nruab qhov chaw nyob rau hauv uas tus me nyuam nyob. Yuav cov khoom ua si thiab cov ntaub ntawv rau kev muaj tswv yim ua hauj lwm, haum rau lub hnub nyoog me nyuam. Zoo tagnrho txoj cai los xaiv me nyuam khaub ncaws - them sai sai mus rau qhov zoo thiab ntau yam es tsis muaj nuj nqis. Ntseeg kuv, peb sib txawv cov khoom ua si yuav tsum tau ntau npaum li cas pab tau thiab nthuav tshaj kaum heev uas zoo sib xws rau txhua tus lwm yam. tus me nyuam lub chav tsev los yog ib tug me nyuam txoj kev ces kaum yuav tsum "loj hlob" ua ke nrog nws tus tswv. Hloov cov rooj tog zaum, yog hais tias tsim nyog, los ntawm lub sij hawm rau lub sij hawm hloov lub tsev qiv ntawv ntawm tus me nyuam thiab cov khoom ua si. Nco ntsoov ua raws li cov kev nyab xeeb ntawm lub tsev, tawm ntawm ncav cuag ntawm cov me nyuam qhov chaw ntawm uas yus tej khoom.
Khoom noj khoom haus thiab lub cev kev loj hlob
Yuav kom nce ib tug me nyuam - nws tsis yog tsuas yog rau kev kawm rau nws. Ntawm kuj zoo kawg tseem ceeb yog tu rau tus me nyuam thiab nws los yog nws noj qab haus huv. Nyob rau hauv thawj xyoo ntawm lub neej yog kiag li tu txheej txheem ua niam txiv. Tab sis los ntawm 4 xyoo ntawm tus me nyuam yuav tsum tau ua ntau yam rau koj tus kheej: ntxuav, ntxuav ob txhais tes, vysmarkivatsya. Maj mam tus me nyuam mus kawm rau tu rau lawv tus kheej tag nrho, cov niam txiv yuav tsuas nco ntsoov los ntawm lub sij hawm rau lub sij hawm nyob rau hauv qhov kev siv ntawm tej yam kev ua. Saib xyuas yuav tsum tau them thiab tus me nyuam txoj kev noj haus. Tom qab ib tug tag nrho cov kev hloov mus rau "ib tug neeg laus" khoom yuav tsum tau ib lub koom haum tsib noj mov, qhov chaw uas peb noj mov yog yooj yim, tab sis ob tug - ib tug khoom noj txom ncauj. Sim mus pub rau koj tus me nyuam yog ntau haiv neeg, preferring noj qab nyob zoo kev xaiv thiab cov khoom. Nws yog Attendance tseem ceeb heev rau them txaus mloog mus rau lub cev txoj kev loj hlob ntawm tus me nyuam. Txhua txhua hnub, tsis ce, ua si sab nraum zoov ua si thiab taug kev nyob rau hauv zoo huab cua. Yog hais tias koj pom tias cov me nyuam hniav tseem ceeb heev rau tej qho hom kev qoj ib ce, xav txog yuav ua li cas muab nws ib tug haum kev ua si qws.
Qhov loj tshaj plaws - xim thiab hlub
Yuav kom txhawb ib tug tsim nyog tug tswv cuab ntawm cov haiv neeg thiab ib tug neeg zoo tsis muaj yuav tsum tau ib tug me nyuam kev puas siab ntsws. Qhov loj tshaj plaws - hlub koj tus me nyuam thiab tsis txhob tos mus qhia rau nws nyob rau hauv ib tug txhua txhua hnub. Puag tus me nyuam thaum twg ua tau, xav kom nws ua tau zoo thiab ua tau zoo. Kho koj tus me nyuam nrog sib hwm, ib txwm ua tib zoo mloog rau nws cov dab neeg thiab kev thov. Nco ntsoov hais tias cov kev sib raug zoo nrog nws tus tub los yog tus ntxhais yuav tsum tau ua los ntawm ib tug thaum ntxov muaj hnub nyoog. Qhov ratio ntawm "niam txiv-me nyuam" yog pab tau los hloov kev sib txuas lus nyob rau hauv vaj huam sib luag footing. Ntawm cov hoob kawm, peb yuav sib tham txog qhov zoo txhua hnub kev sib txuas lus. Txhua txhua hnub ua si nrog koj tus me nyuam, siv sij hawm nrog nws kawm zaj lus qhia ib tug playful txoj kev, koj yog lub tsev ib lub hauvpaus khov ntawm kev ntseeg siab rau lub neej. Nws yog tsis tsim nyog los mus nce ib tus me nyuam los ntawm categorical kev txwv, kev nplua thiab lawm morals. Yog hais tias tau, tham nrog tus me nyuam nyob rau hauv vaj huam sib luag footing, piav qhia txog tag nrho cov "tau" thiab "tsis yooj yim sua." Ntseeg kuv, lub tswv yim no yog tsis muaj tsis tshua zoo dua lub feem ntau txhav kev qhuab qhia. Sim qhia rau koj tus me nyuam xav tias kev ruaj ntseg. Yuav ua li cas yog ib tsev neeg? "Cov niam txiv + tus me nyuam" - qhov no yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws mis, tag nrho cov ntawm uas nws neeg yuav tsum koom nyob rau hauv lwm tus txoj kev lub neej, thiab kom daws tau tag nrho cov teeb meem ua ke.
preschool kawm
Subject thaum ntxov loj hlob yog heev nrov ntawm niaj hnub no cov niam txiv. Yuav ua li cas los qhia ib tug me nyuam nyob hauv tsev, nws muaj mus kawm ua ntej yuav nkag mus kawm lub tsev kawm ntawv? Yuav tsum tsis txhob kiag li hloov lub kev kawm ntawv muaj nuj nqi rau kindergarten los yog kev kawm ntawv kev kawm. Cov ntaub ntawv tshawb fawb thiab tshooj lus format tus me nyuam tsis paub ib tug ntau ntawm dab tsi nws yuav qhia tau rau cov niam txiv thaum lub sij hawm ib txwm sib tham. Sim ntau li ntau tau mus tham nrog cov me nyuam yaus txog txhua yam ntawm ib tug heev thaum ntxov muaj hnub nyoog. Mloog dab tsi nug los nug cov me nyuam, muaj ntau yam kawm txog lawv lub siab nyiam. Cov neeg ua hauj lwm ntawm cov niam txiv ntau li ntau tau kom muaj tus me nyuam txaus siab nyob rau hauv nws cov kev tshawb fawb thiab teb ntawm kev txawj ntse. Leej twg paub, tej zaum los ntawm cov tub ntxhais lover ntawm lub tsheb yuav loj hlob tiag tiag zoo heev designer thiab kiv cua ntawm tus ntxim hlub me tsiaj yuav ib tug zoo heev kws kho tsiaj. Siv lub sij hawm mus ntsib nrog ib tug ntau yam ntawm me nyuam yaus kos duab cov ntaub ntawv. Painting, sculpture, ua yeeb yam ua yeeb yam thiab suab paj nruag rau cov me nyuam yuav tsum tau xaiv raws li lub hnub nyoog thiab koj tus kheej saj.
lig tus me nyuam
Feem ntau ib tug tshwj xeeb kev sib raug zoo nyob rau hauv lub tsev neeg ntsib lig me nyuam. Feem ntau teeb meem - ntev tiv thaiv. Nyob rau hauv feem ntau cov tsev neeg, cov me nyuam yug los tom qab peb caug xyoo - nws yog ib tug loj thiab npaj kev tshwm sim. Paub tab cov niam txiv yog lub luag hauj lwm rau lawv tus kheej noj qab haus huv thiab nrhiav kev pab kom tiv thaiv tau nws los ntawm tej tej zaum piam sij tau rau nws tus me nyuam. Yog li ntawd niam thiab dads yuav tsum tau sim kom zoo ntaug mus. Fundamentals ntawm kev kawm ntawv ntawm cov me nyuam yuav tsum muaj xws li tus me nyuam paub nrog kev ruaj ntseg cov kev cai. Tab sis nco ntsoov, koj tus me nyuam - tsis muaj ib tug siv lead ua hub. Thiab yog hais tias txhua txhua peb koj kab lus, qhia rau koj tus me nyuam ib tug ceeb toom los yog ib tug txiav npluav, nws yog lub sij hawm mus kho lawv tus cwj pwm. Paub tab cov niam txiv yuav tsum kawm rau kev sib txuas lus nrog lawv tus kheej tus me nyuam ntawm sib npaug, ntau thiab ntau mus ua si nrog nws, es qhia kom meej rau dab tsi thiab yuav ua li cas zoo. Nws yuav zoo li tias tag nrho cov teeb meem yuav tsum tsis txhob yuav, thaum lub tom qab yug me nyuam nyob rau hauv loj tsev neeg. Tab sis txawm nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv no nws tsis yog yooj yim, vim hais tias cov yau feem ntau ua cov tsiaj nyob rau hauv lub tsev neeg. Thiab loj hlob mus txog pampered, puas nws tus kheej superiority. Yog hais tias ntau tus me nyuam, cov niam txiv yuav tsum tau sim rau tusyees faib cov xim rau tag nrho cov. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb rau kev kawm rau cov me nyuam nyob rau hauv kev hlub rau txhua tus lwm yam thiab responsiveness.
ib tug me nyuam
Nws yog ib qho nyuaj rau cov ntseeg, tab sis cia li ib ob peb xyoo dhau los, cov tsev neeg nrog ib tug me nyuam, yog suav tias yog ib lub teb chaws. Niaj hnub no, coob tus niam txiv tsis txawm xav txog muaj cov me nyuam, tom qab tus me nyuam yug ntawm thawj tus me nyuam. Yuav ua li cas kuv yuav tsum tau npaj cov kev cob qhia, yog tias koj muaj ib tug me nyuam nyob rau hauv lub tsev neeg? Heev feem ntau tib kas coj mus nyob rau hauv tib txoj kev raws li cov me nyuam nyob lig. Common yuam kev niam txiv: overprotection thiab ntau kev ntshaw. Child psychologists hais tias tsuas yog nyob rau hauv lub tsev neeg, cov me nyuam feem ntau muaj teeb meem nyob rau hauv kev sib raug zoo nrog cov phooj ywg. Yuav kom tiv thaiv teeb meem nyob rau hauv pawg no yuav tsum nyob rau txhua hnub los tsim tej yam kev mob rau ib tug me nyuam mus ua si nrog cov phooj ywg. Taug kev nyob rau tib qhov chaw ua si qhov twg koj tus me nyuam yuav ua tau phooj ywg los yog sau ntawv rau ntawm kev loj hlob kev kawm. Heev feem ntau, yog hais tias tus yug los tus me nyuam nyob rau hauv lub tsev neeg, cov niam txiv txiav txim siab tsis muab nws mus rau ib tug me nyuam lub vaj. Tab sis nco ntsoov, koj yuav ua tau li ntawd xwb yog hais tias tus me nyuam txaus phooj ywg nyob rau hauv lub mev los yog cov neeg zej zog koj nyob nrog nws kwv tij txheeb ze thiab cov muam ntawm lub tib lub hnub nyoog uas koj yuav pom nyob rau hauv ib tug txhua txhua hnub. Tsis txhob sim daws tag nrho cov me nyuam, nyob rau hauv tsis tooj, cov niam txiv yuav tsum maj mam txo nws cov cawv nyob rau hauv tag nrho cov spheres ntawm lub neej. Qhov no txoj kev kawm ntawv zoo yuav cia tus me nyuam kom loj hlob ywj siab thiab lub luag hauj lwm.
Tib Niam Txiv tsev neeg
Ib tug ntawm cov feem ntau nyuaj thiab rhiab teeb meem - seb nws yog ua tau rau loj hlob ib tug me nyuam zoo siab nyob rau hauv ib tsev neeg tsis muaj ib tug txiv? Niaj hnub no, muaj ntau yam poj niam ua tag nrho cov yeej ntawm cov niam tsis muaj ib tug txiv, thiab tej zaum kuj nyob ib leeg. Yuav ua li cas los tsa ib tug me nyuam, yog hais tias tus Pope nyob rau hauv nws lub neej, tsis muaj? Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws rau ib tug niam nyob rau hauv no qhov teeb meem tus kheej tau tshem ntawm ceg muaj feem xyuam rau lawv tus kheej tsev neeg teeb meem no. Koj muaj peev xwm tsis hais lo lus "nyob ib leeg" thiab variations thereof. Txawm qhov kev tshwm sim - koj yog tam sim no tsawg kawg yog ob thiab koj muaj ib tsev neeg: niam thiab tus me nyuam. Zoo heev, yog hais tias tus me nyuam txoj kev upbringing yuav pab tau tej cov txiv neej txheeb ze: tus tij laug hlob, txiv ntxawm los yog yawg. Tab sis txawm yog hais tias xws li ib tug neeg no tsis yog nyob rau hauv koj cheeb tsam, koj yuav tsum tsis txhob yuav chim. Rau tag nrho cov kev loj hlob ntawm ib tug me nyuam kuv niam yuav muaj mus ua hauj lwm raws li cov niam txiv ntawm ob kuj. Qhov zoo tshaj plaws cov lus teb rau cov nqe lus nug: "Yuav ua li cas los tsa ib tug me nyuam tsis muaj ib tug txiv, thiab tag nrho cov muaj sij hawm rau koj tus kheej?" - los ntawm lub sij hawm rau lub sij hawm mus xav seb uas yuav ua rau ib tug zoo meej txiv. Tsim ib tug kev tus me nyuam, tsis txhob yuav tub nkeeg nrog nws mus ua si kev ua si thiab ua si sab nraum zoov ua si. Yog hais tias tus me nyuam yog heev npaum li cas xav ua ib co "txiv neej" tshaj plaws - yuav nws tsim nyog cov khoom ua si, npaj ib tug Lub peb hlis ntuj mus rau lub football kev ua si los yog nuv ntses. Nyob rau hauv qhov tseeb, tu ib tug me nyuam kuv niam ib tug tsis yog li ntawd tsis yooj yim. Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj - kev hlub thiab lub siab xav muab koj tus me nyuam txhua yam koj xav tau.
Peb tsa ib tug muaj kev vam meej tus me nyuam!
Txhua thib peb tus neeg nyob rau hauv adulthood raug kev txom nyem los ntawm ntau ceg, mas yuav kis tau nyob rau hauv thaum yau. Cia li xav txog qhov no daim duab! Tab sis qhov twg muaj tag nrho cov puas siab puas ntsws teeb meem yog tias chiv tag nrho cov niam txiv xav kom lawv cov me nyuam tsis muaj dab tsi tab sis zoo? Xav txog yuav ua li cas qhia ib tug me nyuam los tsim thiab tsis yog txhua txhua ntawm peb xav txog "tej trifles," raws li pab. Sim yuav tsum nco ntsoov thiab kawm ib ob peb yam yooj yim cov kev cai. Tsis txhob muab sib piv koj tus me nyuam nrog lwm cov me nyuam, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog yog hais tias tus kev sib piv tsis yog nyob rau hauv nws haum. Tseem ceeb heev kev soj ntsuam tsis yog ib tug qhov chaw nyob rau hauv lub chav kawm ntawm lub tsev kawm thiab muaj tswv yim ua ub no. Nco ntsoov yuav ua li cas koj twb txaus siab thaum tus me nyuam yog kawm mus kev. Yuav ua li cas yuav koj thuam los yog cem nws rau dab tsi nws puas zoo li cas thawj kauj ruam imperfectly? Nws tseem yog tsim nyog los ua thiab thaum lub sij hawm txoj kev loj hlob ntawm tag nrho cov lwm yam kev ua ub no. Koj tus me nyuam unevenly xim tsev? Muab nws lwm coloring, thiab nco ntsoov qhuas rau cov uas tsis yog-zoo tagnrho. Hais rau koj tus me nyuam raws li feem ntau raws li tau txog hais tias koj hlub nws, tsis hais nws kawm tau zoo thiab coj tus cwj pwm. Nco ntsoov hais tias nws tus kheej-kheej underestimate tus me txiv neej mus rau hauv av raws li ua tau, tsis muaj realizing nws. Yuav kom restore nws raws li nws yuav siv sij hawm ib tug ntau ntawm kev rau siab.