Yuav ua li cas mus kawm tau xav zoo thiab hloov koj lub neej?

Tsis muaj leej twg cav nrog lub fact tias peb cov kev xav, cia nyob ib leeg lus muaj muaj tswv yim lub hwj chim thiab tej zaum yuav materialize. Nyob rau hauv no hais txog, cov lus nug tshwm sim: "Yuav ua li cas mus kawm tau xav zoo thiab tau tshem ntawm kev ntshai, kev txhawj xeeb thiab disappointments?", "Yog kev xav zoo zoo panacea, txuag tag nrho cov ills?"
Ua ntej ntawm tag nrho cov, lub neej nyob rau lub ntiaj teb yog tsis tau tsis muaj tej yam raws li kev tu siab, mob thiab tuag taus. Qhov ntawd yog kev xav zoo zoo yuav tsis ua rau koj thiab koj tus hlub tsis txawj tuag. Nyob rau tib lub sij hawm lub peev xwm uas muaj ntau tig qhov tsawg tshaj plaws catch loj loj, insurmountable roob, zoo heev complicates lawv lub neej. Yog li, zoo xav txhua txhua hnub thiab yuav tsis tau tshem ntawm cov teeb meem txhua, tab sis yuav kov yeej lawv yooj yim dua, tsis mob thiab txawm tej yam siab. Lwm ancient Suav philosopher qhia thaum teeb meem tshwm sim rau teb cov lus nug "vim li cas" es tsis "zoo li cas."

Ib me ntsis txog cov txheej txheem

Cov khiav tsis zoo xav, cwj pwm txawv thiab kev sib raug zoo zoo nkauj zog kom tshem tau ntawm. Tib txoj kev - los hloov lawv. Ib tug ob peb lub tswv yim yuav ua li cas rau kawm tau xav rau qhov zoo.

• Tus thawj - rau beginners, uas yog heev yooj yim mus hloov los ntawm ib tug tsis zoo, tab sis tsuas yog rov hais dua cov kab lus "kuv zoo, kuv zoo" tsis pub tej kev kawm ntawv los yog kev txiav txim siab. Saib tag nrho hais tias koj muaj, lub qhov muag ntawm cov neeg uas yog deprived ntawm cov kev pab cuam. Ua tsaug rau Vajtswv rau dab tsi uas koj pom thiab tau hnov, taug kev koj txhais taw, koj cia ib tug me me tab sis tus kheej chav tsev, chaw ua hauj lwm, cov kwv tij, cov me nyuam thiab thiaj li nyob. Nws yog hais tias cov neeg txaus siab ib yam dab tsi tsuas yog thaum poob lawm. Xav txog tej yam uas tag nrho cov no yuav poob. Sim yuav txaus siab rau txhua txhua hnub ntawm lub neej, socializing nrog cov phooj ywg thiab tsev neeg.
• Qhov thib ob qho tseem ceeb kauj ruam nyob rau hauv qhov kev kawm hu ua "yuav ua li cas xav tias zoo" - yog kawm yuav ua li cas mus qhib rau hauv txhua yam ntawm kev ua si los yog tsuas yog cov tuaj hnub. Xav txog tej yam ib tug tightrope yamntxwv, uas ua ntej qhov kev kawm repeats nws tus kheej: "Kuv yuav poob thiab ua txhaum." Nws yuav tsum tau kawm kom tau zoo? Yog li ntawd, tsis zoo outlook tsis nco qab, ntshai yog muab tshem tawm. Nws yog tsim nyog rau kev ntsuam xyuas qhov teeb meem no, qhia hais txog lawv txoj kev kawm, kev cog lus, nyob rau ntawm qhov tsim nyog zoo mus nqa tawm nws lub hom phiaj, thiab xaus - "ibtxhi mus zoo!" Tam sim ntawd ua rau ib tug tshwj tseg, nws tsis txhais hais tias kev vam meej yuav los txog. Yog hais tias koj yog puas tau rau ib lub cav tsis mus, tab sis mam li nco dheev xav taug kev los mus rau ib tug tightrope nyob rau hauv lub loj ib tug cia li lub hwj chim ntawm kev xav zoo zoo, tsis muaj dab tsi yuav tshwm sim. Qhov no yog absurd, uas tej zaum yuav raug nyob rau hauv heev pitiable. Nws yog yog li ntawd ib qho tseem ceeb kom paub tias yuav ua li cas kawm tau xav zoo, thiab tsis tau tsis poob lub pub muaj ib nco ntawm lub siab.
• Koj yuav tsum tau cov kev txawj ntse pom cov neeg thiab lub sijhawm nyob rau hauv foundations. Koj tau ntsib nrog ib tug txiv neej uas yog ib yam nkaus thiab sab? Saib nws los ntawm lwm yam sab. Nws yog qhib thiab phooj ywg, sociable, yuav tsum tau koj xub ntiag. Pov tseg prejudices, vim hais tias lawv tsis muab saib cov kev muaj tiag thiab kom zoo zoo ntsuam xyuas nws, thiab yog li ntawd yuam kev thiab cuam tshuam nrog lub neej.
• Ib txhia psychologists yuav tsum tau mus sau ib ob peb optimistic, lub neej-lees aphorisms uas yuav yuav nyob rau hauv koj cov ntsis ntiv tes nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv ntawm ib tug yooj yim teeb meem no. Lawv yuav pab tau kom coj tus xav nyob rau hauv txoj cai coj, kom tsis txhob chim siab thiab kev nyuaj siab.

Yog li ntawd, thawj kauj ruam nyob rau hauv science hu ua "yuav ua li cas kawm tau xav zoo" ua. Nyob rau hauv lub neej yav tom ntej, nws tag nrho cov nyob ntawm seb koj nyiam mus ua ib tug zoo siab txiv neej?