Dwb tus me nyuam. Yuav ua li cas?

Tej zaum txhua leej txhua tus yuav tsum tau saib ib tug siab phem scene ntawm lub tsev loj los yog nyob rau hauv lub lag luam, thaum ib tug niam hluas sim mus rub cov caj npab deb ntawm lub txee qw 4-5 xyoo tus me nyuam yuav tau nws mus yuav ib lub tsheb, ib rab phom, ib tug menyuam roj hmab, khoom qab zib, ice cream - daim ntawv no kev txom. Tag nrho nws cov me nyuam no yog futile - los ntawm nws qw tus me nyuam yog tias sam nrog lub zog, thiab nws quaj thiab qw nrov nrov mus rau hauv hysterics.

Ib tug ntau ntawm UFW ntawm cov poj niam ua kom zoo ntaug nws nqes los. Tsis muaj leej twg them xim rau hais tias me ntsis "blackmailer" zoo saib dab tsi tshwm sim nyob ib ncig ntawm nws. Yog hais tias peb xav txog tej yam uas nyob rau ntawm tej taw tes tag nrho tig tam sim ntawd thiab pib ua lawv tus kheej tshaj plaws, tus me nyuam sai sai heev nqig down thiab muab nws cov xim mus rau lwm yam.

Feem ntau cranky tus me nyuam - yog ib tug uas yuav tsis qhia txoj cai rau kev sib txuas lus, hais lus, thiab nws arsenal ntawm txhais tau tias mus cuag tej yam tsuas yog tus kev tau li ib xyoos. Namely - mus pw thiab quaj.

Lub psychology ntawm ib tug me nyuam nyob rau hauv ib xyoo no yog nkaus teem rau kev sib txuas lus nrog cov surrounding laus, feem ntau nrog leej niam. Thaum xub thawj, nws tau txais paub lawv tus kheej los ntawm kev siv quaj. Tu siab, nyob rau hauv lub qhaj ntawv ntawm kom sai sai rau cov riam phom nyob twj ywm nyob rau hauv lub ob txhais tes ntawm cov tub ntxhais rau xyoo.

Kuv yuav tsis xav chim siab coob cov niam txiv, tab sis yog tias koj muaj ib tug cranky me nyuam, ces koj yog tsis yog ib qho cai rau nws. Xav txog tej yam ib tug heev teeb meem uas qhia tias lub cev qhuav dej ntawm lub pedestal cov niam txiv. Hluas niam enthusiastically sib tham hauv xov tooj nrog nws tus phooj ywg rau yuav luag ib teev.

Ib tug me nyuam wanders nyob ib ncig ntawm cov tsev apartment, tsis paub yuav ua li cas. Nws nug hais tias nws niam muab nws ib Kua. Niam shrugs tawm nws thiab drives rau nws chav tsev. Tab sis nws tsis tawm, nws sawv sab ntawm sab, pib quaj, nws ntog rau hauv pem teb, whining lub suab. Raws li koj paub, ib tug kev sib tham nrog ib tug phooj ywg puas, niam voos mus rau lub tub yees thiab coj ib tug me nyuam ob apples.

Child sai sai realizes hais tias leej niam txoj kev "tsis muaj" yog tsis qhov kawg, yog li ntawd, mloog niam yog tsis tsim nyog, thiab lub ntsiab lub tsev nws - vim hais tias nws tau txais ib cov kua, los yog ob tug txawm.

Capricious tus me nyuam pib to taub hais tias nws niam yog kiag li tsis muaj ab tsi mus rau dab tsi nws yeej yuav tsum tsis yog ib tug kua, thiab xim. Muaj yog ib tug classical daim duab ntawm lub repurchase. Cov laus cov me nyuam yog, qhov ntau kim nws yuav raug nqi rau cov niam txiv xws hloov xim.

Heev feem ntau kev sib txuas lus nrog tus me nyuam, muaj coob tus niam txo mus rau ib tug ob peb pawg tus kws qhia - "zaum, kuv hais tias," "tes muab tshem tawm," thiab lwm yam Thaum xws li ib tug niam hais tias: "Kuv muaj ib tug tsis zoo me nyuam, koj ua dab tsi rau nws?", Cov lus teb no .. li no mas, nyob rau saum npoo av. Peb yuav tsum tsis txhob rau nws sib txuas lus nrog ob lub peev xwm los qhia tsiaj.

Me nyuam loj hlob, hloov, thiab cov niam txiv feem ntau tsis muaj sij hawm rau nws. Yog hais tias lub kev sib raug zoo ntawm cov niam txiv rau lawv nyiam tus me nyuam yuav tsis pauv nws whims yuav tsis ploj txawm nrog lub xyoo. Ua ntej koj yuav tsis txaus siab txog qhov tseeb hais tias koj muaj ib tug tsis zoo me nyuam, pib nrog koj tus kheej. Kawm tau li cas rau kev sib txuas lus nrog nws raws li ib tug neeg laus, tsis yog ib tug "lisp", tsis txhob ua tej yam ntawm nws whim, piav rau cov me nyuam yaus txhua txhua kev txiav txim siab rau koj ua.