Kev tiv thaiv ntawm cov diploma: yuav ua li cas los npaj "zoo heev"

Txhua yam ntawm peb tsawg kawg ib zaug nyob rau hauv lawv lub neej muaj los mus tiv thaiv ib tug diploma. Qhov kev tshwm sim coj mus rau peb lub neej ib tug ntau ntawm kev nyuaj siab thiab sleepless nights. Yuav ua li cas yuav npaj rau cov neeg uas muaj hneev tiv thaiv ntawm lub diploma? Yuav ua li cas koj yuav tsum ua ib tug hneev taw rau cov neeg tuaj saib, thiab tshwj xeeb tshaj yog - nyob rau commission? Wb soj ntsuam.

Nyob rau hauv no tsab xov xwm kuv xav mus xav txog ob lub ntsiab sib nrauj ntawm no lub npe. Tus thawj yog ncaj qha mus txog rau lub tswv yim sib cav ua hauj lwm, thiab lub thib ob yog kev cob cog rua nrog qhov kev kawm ntawm cov neeg.

Yog li ntawd koj nyob nraum tuav koj ua hauj lwm. Koj twb sau tau koj tus kheej? Nws yog zoo dua yog tias cov lus teb no yog. Kuv ntseeg hais tias xws li ib txoj hauj lwm tsis tau hu ua ib txoj kev kawm, uas abstracts, tswj, kawm thiab degree hauj lwm txawm yuav thiab repurchased. Qhov no yog tsis ib txoj kev kawm. Tab sis peb digress. Yog li ntawd, koj tau sau ib txoj hauj lwm, thiab koj paub tias nws yuav luag los ntawm lub plawv. Nws tseem mus tiv thaiv cov diploma. Raws li peb paub, tus txheej txheem no yuav siv sij hawm txog kaum feeb, thiab thaum lub sij hawm no yuav tsis yog haum ib tug standard daim ntawv ntawm cov ntawv luam cov ntawv nyeem. Nws yuav tsum tau squeezed. Koj paub lawv hais dab tsi nyob rau hauv uas tshawb tau nqa tawm, dab tsi cov lus xaus no yog ua los. Qhov no yuav tsum tau hais. Firstly, nws yog tsim nyog mus rau lub xeev qhov tseeb ntawm tus xaiv lub ntsiab lus, thiab mam li qhia rau koj txog kev ua hauj lwm thiab txoj kev siv. Tab sis lub ntsiab tivthaiv ntawm koj daim ntawv qhia - qhov no yog lub tswv yim ib feem thiab cov lus xaus. Ntawm no nws yog tsim nyog los piav ntau zog ntxiv rau ib tug ob peb teeb meem, uas yuav tiv thaiv ntawm cov diploma. Qhov kev nthuav qhia no yuav tsum tsuas incidentally.

Zoo, thaum muaj kuj yog ib tug ntawv. Ces tag nrho cov neeg ntawm cov nyiaj yuav tsum tau yuav tsum tau ncaj qha nyob rau hauv pem hauv ntej ntawm lub qhov muag ntawm tag nrho cov nuj nqis, nws yuav yooj yim mus ntes tus essence ntawm cov kev kawm thiab cov lus ntawm cov lus qhia. Yog hais tias nws pib pom hais tias nws yog ib yam nkaus thiab ntau npaum li cas lub sij hawm, nws yuav tsum tau cia ib tug me ntsis lawm tawm tswv yim nyob rau hauv qhov kev nthuav qhia slides, ntxiv mus rau lawv cov lus xaus ib co kev cov nqe lus.

Tab sis dab tsi txog cov neeg uas muaj daim ntawv kawm tiav tom ntej kev tiv thaiv yog ib txoj kev ntshai ntshai hais lus nyob rau hauv pem hauv ntej ntawm ib tug neeg tuaj saib? Ntawm no, tej psychologists qhia nram qab no:

- los npaj rau kev ua tau zoo nyob rau hauv ua ntej, ua tib zoo tag nrho xws li qub kom txog thaum lub tau cov lus nug; Yog hais tias koj yuav tsum tiv thaiv ib tug diploma nyob rau hauv lus Askiv, yuav ua li cas yuav tsum "rub" cov lus mus rau ib tug ntau dua los yog tsawg dlej conversational theem;

- yuav tsum tau ua tsis tau daim ntawv nrog cov ntawv nyeem: tag nrho cov ntaub ntawv yuav tsum muaj nyob rau hauv lub siab ntawm cov lus qhia; thiab nws yog ntshaw hais tias nws yog muaj nyob rau hauv ib tug systematic txoj kev, uas yog, yuav tsum tau ib tug "sharpened" daim ntawv ceeb toom npaj;

- kom tsis txhob muaj tej yam ntawm koj lub cev nrog adrenaline, uas nws rages nyob rau hauv lub sij hawm ntawm kev nyuaj siab, koj yuav tsum tau so ntsiag to qhua ib co nqaij, xws li rau sab nraum qab los yog txhais ceg, kom koj hwj tau lub cev;

- complacency - lub tshuaj zoo meej, tab sis tsis yeej ib txwm zoo: ntawm no cov kws txawj qhia yuav tau tham nrog nws thiab hais nyob rau hauv lub kawg, tsis muaj dab tsi ntshai thiab txhua yam yog zoo.

Lawm ntsis - xyaum. Thaum lub sij hawm ib tug ua tau zoo (seb kev tiv thaiv ntawm cov diploma los yog cov kev nthuav qhia ntawm qhov kev tsim, ib lo lus rau cov niam txiv 'lub rooj sib tham los yog ib tug ci rau ntawm lub tshoob rooj) nws yog tsis yooj yim sua los ua ib tug zoo lus. Sim nce "hais lus nrog cov neeg tuaj saib" - thiab nws maj mam qhia koj yuav ua li cas kom koj tus kheej haum.