Lub tsev kawm ntawv kev puas siab ntsws thiab ua hauj lwm nrog tub ntxhais ntse me nyuam

Muaj yog ib tug misconception hais tias lub ntsiab dag zog ntawm lub tsev kawm ntawv kev puas siab ntsws yuav tsum tau raws kev coj kom cov tub ntxhais kawm nrog tus cwj pwm muaj teeb meem. Nyob rau tib lub sij hawm, nws yog tsis nco qab lawm hais tias cov ua hauj lwm nrog tub ntxhais ntse me nyuam kuj yog leading kev ua si. Yog hais tias lub tsev neeg ntawm cov me nyuam yuav tsum muaj tus muaj peev xwm mus saib lub sij hawm, lub tsev kawm ntawv yog tsim nyog los txhawb pab lawv, los tsim thiab npaj cov kev tsim nyog hauv av rau siv nyob rau hauv lub neej yav tom ntej.

Nyob rau hauv lub neej txhua hnub, txuj ci yog xav tau synonymous nrog txuj ci, nyob rau hauv lub psychology ntawm lub ntsiab txhais ntawm lub tswvyim yog txawv me ntsis. Qhov no yog ib tug zoo ntawm tus cwj pwm, thaws rov los nyob rau hauv lub kev vam meej txoj kev loj hlob ntawm tej kev ua ub no, thaum ua kom nrog tus paj laum rau lawv. Loj hlob seb xws tus me nyuam yog ib tug ntse heev, ib tug txawj ntse tus neeg nyob, nyob rau hauv particular, thiab yuav ua li cas zoo xav tawm kev ua hauj lwm nrog tub ntxhais ntse me nyuam nyob rau hauv tsev kawm ntawv.

Ua ntej peb yuav tsum paub cov me nyuam. Muaj me nyuam kawm ntawv uas nyuam qhuav sawv tawm tsam lawv cov phooj ywg. Nyob rau hauv xws li mob, feem ntau yog cov kev pab los ntawm ib tug psychologist hais txog tus xib fwb. Tej zaum, nyob rau hauv kev tshwm sim ntawm tus txheej txheem nyob rau hauv nws cov kev npaj kev kawm, nws pom lawv tus kheej. Nyob rau hauv txhua rooj plaub, txaus rau diagnostics classical kev ntsuam xyuas (e.g., Ayzenka, Amthauera li al.). Tom ntej no, ib tug xav paub ntau dua txoj kev tshawb no ntawm tus sijhawm thiab cov yam ntxwv ntawm cov tub ntxhais kawm.

Ib qho zoo tagnrho variant yog thaum ua hauj lwm yog nqa tawm nrog tub ntxhais ntse me nyuam nyob rau hauv tsev kawm ntawv. Tom qab tag nrho, lub ntxov nws pib, qhov ntau dua yuav tau txais zoo tau. Fostering tswv yim muaj peev xwm ntawm cov me nyuam yog nqa tawm ob nyob rau hauv lub chav kawm ntawv thiab nyob rau hauv cov kev ua ub no. Nws yog ib advisable mus koom nrog lawv nyob rau hauv ib tug ntau yam ntawm lub voj voog thiab khej ze rau lawv cov kev txaus siab.

Yog hais tias lub chav kawm ntawv mus ua hauj lwm nrog tub ntxhais ntse me nyuam nyob ntau tshaj ib tug kws qhia ntawv, ib tug puas siab ntsws ntawm lub xub pwg nyom, raws li zoo raws li cov chav kawm ntawv tus kws qhia ntawv, muaj lub luag hauj lwm rau txhua tsav txhua yam. Nws yuav tsum tau nco ntsoov hais tias hais tias cov me nyuam kawm ntawv muaj ib tug xov tooj ntawm cov teeb meem txuam nrog rau adapting lawv mus rau lub pab neeg thiab rau lub tsev kawm ntawv nyob rau hauv feem ntau. Piv txwv li, nyob rau hauv Feem ntau, lawv tsis xav cov phooj ywg ua si uas lawv tau ntev lawm, tej zaum yuav tshwm sim li ntawm no rho tawm thiab cov "neeg siab tsis ncaj lub xeev". Lawv feem ntau yus muaj los ntawm txoj kev daws teeb meem thiab unwillingness kom ua raws li cov feem ntau txais cov qauv. Nyob rau hauv kev twb kev txuas nrog cov internal xav tau kev zoo tag nrho, muaj ntau yam ntse me nyuam kawm ntawv zoo nkaus li uas tsis muaj self-esteem thiab ib tug kev xav ntawm dissatisfaction.

Lub sij hawm mus paub txog thiab kho tej kev thiab lwm yam teeb meem - uas yog ib yam ntawm cov kev pab raws qib hauj lwm rau lub tsev kawm ntawv kev puas siab ntsws. Tsis tas li ntawd, ua hauj lwm nrog tub ntxhais ntse me nyuam yuav tsum muaj xws li cov lus hais thiab kev cob qhia nrog lawv cov xib fwb. Cov xib fwb feem ntau ntshai thiab tsis txhob cov menyuam kawm ntawv, raws li lawv muaj peev xwm nug thawj lo lus nug, flooring, nyob rau hauv tas li ntawd, yuav tsum tau ib tug ntau ntawm cov xim. Tus kws qhia ntawv yuav tsum npaj mus koom nrog cov menyuam kawm ntawv tshwj xeeb zoo, tas tos ntxiv khoom. Goodwill thiab kev nkag siab ntawm lub hlwb yam ntxwv ntawm no pab pawg neeg ntawm cov tub ntxhais kawm - ib qho ntawm qhov yooj yim hauv paus ntsiab lus, uas yuav tsum tau ua raws li tus xib fwb.

Qhov tseem ceeb point yog nyiam tus me nyuam mus kawm, uas yog heev yooj yim. Psychologists kom mus nqa tawm diagnostics tuition ntawm cov me nyuam feem ntau yog rau lub hom phiaj ntawm nrhiav puab. Nyob rau hauv tas li ntawd, nws yog tsim nyog los nqa tawm txoj kev kawm thiab lawv tus kheej cov yam ntxwv, raws li zoo raws li xav kawm tiag. ua ib tug neeg tawm tswv yim los yog daws cov teeb meem cov chav kawm, yog hais tias tsim nyog.

Nws yuav tsum tau muab sau tseg hais tias ib tug zoo-ncaav ua hauj lwm nrog tub ntxhais ntse me nyuam yuav muab cov winners ntawm cov kev sib tw thiab kev sib tw nyob rau hauv ntau ntau ntau, raws li zoo raws li multi-feemxyuam cwm pwm, txoj kev vam meej uas muaj contributed nyob rau hauv ib tug me me txoj kev, thiab lub tsev kawm ntawv kev puas siab ntsws.