Self-sau qoob, Psychology
Nthuav phau ntawv rau cov poj niam, uas yog tsim nyog nyeem ntawv. Psychology cov phau ntawv, cov phau ntawv hais txog cov txiv neej
Nws yog ntseeg hais tias nyob rau hauv no tsis meej pem muaj hnub nyoog ntawm universal computerization ntawm cov neeg nyeem thiab tsawg tsawg. Xws li ib tug saib, ntawm chav kawm, muaj ib txoj cai nyob ua ib ke, tab sis qhov teeb meem no tsis zoo li ib qho tseem ceeb: muaj ntau manufacturers ntawm hluav taws xob phau ntawv yog kiag li tsis muaj kev puas tsuaj.
Ib tug teeb meem ntawm saj
Internet kev pab uas muab cov phau ntawv nyob rau hauv cov ntawv no, ib yam nkaus thiab, yog tsim nyog sib tw ntawm cov tshuaj tawm. Lub zaum kawg xaiv yog mus txog rau lub neeg. Ib txhia zoo li cov rustle ntawm cov nplooj ntawv thiab tshwj xeeb tsis hnov tsw ntawm lub hau, thiab lwm yam tseem ceeb nyob rau hauv cov phau ntawv ntawm kom cov ntsiab lus thiab xav qhov yooj yim ntawm niaj hnub gadget, uas muaj peev xwm "nyem" ib tug uas nws kim heev tsev qiv ntawv thiab nqa nws yooj yim rau koj.
Cuaj kaum, ntev-rooted stereotypes nyob hauv zej zog tseem tsis tau tso tseg - thiab lawv yog taw qhia kom paub ntau yam ntawm cov kev pab thiab xov xwm, sau nthuav phau ntawv rau cov poj niam, uas yog tsim nyog nyeem ntawv.
Koj - ib tug poj niam, thiab yog li ntawd koj yuav tsum
Tub los ntxhais dictates ib tug txawv mus kom ze. Tej zaum nws yog humiliating rau qhov zoo nkauj poj niam, thiab tej zaum kuj cia li funny. Muaj ntau publishers thiab sellers ntawm cov ntaub ntawv ntseeg tau hais tias cov poj niam nyob rau hauv thawj qhov chaw attracted phau ntawv nthuav rau cov poj niam txog txiv neej (raws li ib qho kev xaiv - cov kev sib raug zoo).
Muaj zog ib nrab ntawm cov tib neeg, obviously, los yog hais tsis zoo, los yog lwm tus yeej prioritize. Nws yog ntseeg hais tias cov txiv neej yog feem ntau txaus siab rau ib phau ntawv hais txog kev tsov kev rog.
Ib txoj kev los sis lwm, thiab cov muaj ib tug "muaj zog caj npab" raws li ib tug prerequisite rau "cov poj niam kev zoo siab" yog cultivated txhua txhia qhov chaw. Txawm li cas los tsis qw txog koob pheej ntawm lawv thiab paub tseeb hais tias bachelor - ua npaum li cas tsawg blameworthy (thiab saib tsis taus) tshaj ib tug laus tub txib.
Raws li kev cai rau lub domestication ntawm cov txiv neej
Tej zaum, yog li ntawd, interesting phau ntawv rau cov poj niam uas yeej muaj nqis nyeem ntawv, nco ntsoov muaj xws li xws tej hauj lwm raws li haum zoo-paub cov phau ntawv Macmillan "Yog vim li cas koj tsis tau sib yuav tsis tau?". Nws yog to taub hais tias tus neeg sau paub yuav ua li cas pab tau nws tus kheej cia siab "blue stocking" kho lawv tus cwj pwm txaus nyiam thaum kawg ib tug neeg thiab ua ib tug yuav tsum muaj chav tsev ntawm haiv neeg.
No lub ntsiab nplooj siab tagnrho thiab tagnrho: "Yuav ua li cas muaj hmoo tau sib yuav nyob rau hauv 2 lub hlis" (Popov), "Yuav ua li cas ntse yuav" (R. Kirranov - yog, cov txiv neej dhau lawm yog tsis averse mus ua tswv chav kawm). Yog hais tias xws far-xeeb matrimonial koj muaj tsis muaj kev npaj, thiab kuv xav hlub tag nrho tib yam, nws yog tau txais yuav ib tug "lub teeb-xaiv" xws li "Yuav ua li cas nyiam cov xim ntawm cov txiv neej" (Y. Anokhin) los yog "txiv neej thiab raws li ib tug twist ntawm lawv hlua" (I. Antonov). Nyob rau hauv txee ntawm tej xibhwb xws hauj lwm zes tons nyob rau hauv lub inscription. "Nthuav phau ntawv rau cov poj niam, uas yuav tsum tau nyeem" Psychology ntawm tus sau phau ntawv tsis yog yooj yim thiab straightforward. Lub npe ntawm kev txaus siab thiab ua rau cov purchase, thiab muaj yuav tsis tu tsawg.
Thaum muaj nuj nqis puv rau hauv zoo?
Ib tug zoo xws li cov cai tswj hwm tsis tau tsuas yog homegrown tsev neeg psychology - vim hais tias tsis yog txhua tus poj niam saib lawv destiny nyob rau hauv lawv tsev neeg lub neej. Cov niaj hnub ntiaj teb no dictates tshiab tej yam kev mob - nthuav phau ntawv rau cov poj niam uas yeej muaj nqis nyeem ntawv, thiab tej zaum yuav muaj feem rau kev sib raug zoo kev vam meej. Nyob rau hauv cov cheeb tsam no, dhau lawm, ib tug loj xaiv ntawm cov ntaub ntawv nyob rau hauv nws tus kheej txoj kev loj hlob.
Lub tsuas hlub yog hais tias tsis yog tag nrho cov ntawm nws yog qhov zoo. Nyob rau ntawm ib lub sij hawm nws yog fashionable kom tau tej hauj lwm nrog qw lub npe zoo li "Yuav ua li cas ua tau ib tug bitch." Nyob rau hauv ib co ntawm lawv (piv txwv li, los ntawm tus cwj mem ntawm E. Shatskaia) yog li ntawd, tsis meej xwm nqe lus hais tias nws yuav ua cas tsis paub nyob thiab txawm txaj muag los ntawm tus sau.
Piv txwv li, rau cov zaj uas cov txawj sau ntawv uas tau sib yuav nyob rau hauv tus menyuam kawm ntawv muaj hnub nyoog ob professors ces "tsis paub hais tias lawv yog cov ntse" - ib tug heev, heev muaj teeb meem hais txog. Lub tswv yim: Tus sau ntseeg hais tias lub siab yog muab ua ke nrog rau cov ntawv pov thawj ntawm tus kws kho mob ntawm Science ... Thiab yog li ntawd lub ntsiab lus uas Maria Callas - bitch (thiab nws yog tsim nyog los noj tawm nws tus yam ntxwv), feem ntau nyob rau hauv tej rooj vag tsis nce toj. Tseem, nyob rau thaum xaus ntawm lub neej ntawm tus poj niam no kuv yog heev tsis zoo siab, thiab poob nws kuj zoo kawg lub suab, thiab qhov chaw ntawm ib tug neeg hlub ib tug. Great singer tuag ib leeg. Nyob rau hauv xyoo tsis ntev los, nws cov ntsiab lub tuam txhab tsuas yog ib tug ob peb poodles. Nyob rau hauv Feem ntau, nws tsis los ntawm Ms. Shatskaia yuav tsum tau txais insults - thiab pheej rov qab nws txoj kev ntawm lub neej , tsis yog leej twg yuav pom zoo (thiab N yog tus txiv neej - tseem zoo li cov txuj ci tsis tshwm sim feem ntau). Nyob rau hauv Feem ntau, tej zaum kuj txawm xav tham txog cov paj huam: "Cov phau ntawv yog tag nrho ntawm pov tseg ntawv."
Yuav ua li cas cais cov nplej los ntawm cov npluag
Tej hauj lwm uas traders yog positioned raws li qhov nthuav phau ntawv rau cov psychology ntawm cov poj niam, heev heev heev, thiab to taub qhov no abundance yog tej zaum kuj heev tsis yooj yim. Txawm lub feem ntau vociferous regalia ntawm tus sau phau ntawv muaj npe nyob rau lub flyleaf, tsis txhob muab tej yam guarantees. Qhov no tej zaum yuav muaj lwm bland thiab meaningless tseeb, tsim los rau semi-literate neeg.
Tsis txiv neej thiab poj niam, thiab kev zoo thiab phem
Lub tswv yim deserves xim, tab sis tsis yog indisputable. Yam tsawg kawg xav txog tej ntaub ntawv, nws yog tsis zoo li hais tias yuav muaj ntau tus txiv neej uas yuav nyeem (thiab tshwj xeeb tshaj yog rov) novels zoo li "Dzhen Eyr," Charlotte Bronte los yog "Muaj nuj nqis thiab Prejudice" los ntawm D. Austen. Twv yuav raug hu, muaj ib tug zoo ntawm cov ntaub ntawv, uas, ua ib tug zoo neeg sawv cev, tseem los ze zog mus rau lub weaker nrog txiv neej pw.
Cov no cov phau ntawv, ntawm chav kawm, lawv pom lub tsev thiab romance novels, thiab hais txog. N. ironic detective, thiab tej okolopsihologicheskaya ntaub ntawv uas thov los qhia cov tsis muaj hmoo temptresses rau ingratiate nws tus kheej nrog cov lus rov pw ua ke, siv ntau hom tswv yim - los ntawm cov sau qoob rau manipulation. Tab sis qhov no twb tau hais.
Nyeem cov classics, Madame!
Yog hais tias koj noj cov teeb meem muab lub tswv yim, ib co nthuav phau ntawv rau cov poj niam, uas yog tsim nyog nyeem ntawv - nws yog classical tej hauj lwm, paub tias zoo rau leej twg. Yog hais tias koj thov kom lawv nyeem tag nrho rau ib zaug xwb - lub neej yuav tsis muaj txaus. Txhua yam ntawm lawv twb dhau qhov kev kuaj ntawd rau lub sij hawm.
Yog li, nws yog tau hais tias tag nrho cov ntawm civilized tib neeg suav hais tias "Anna Karenina" (piv txwv li) - lub keeb kwm yog heev plausible, raws li reflected nyob rau hauv nws cov cim - lub neej. Collisions ntawm classical tej hauj lwm thiab yog li ntawd tsis txawj tuag, uas nrees txuas ncaj qha mus rau tus tib neeg hais tias. Txoj kev xav thiab motives ntawm lub cim - yog nyob mus ib txhis.
Nyob Mus Ib Txhis txoj kev xav timeless ntxhais
Nyob rau hauv lub kawg, nyob rau hauv qhov tseeb, txawj plots yog tsis yog li ntawd ntau npaum li cas - thiab lawv tag nrho cov siv nyob rau hauv cov los yog lwm yam variations nyob rau hauv ancient sij hawm. Yog hais tias ib tug neeg txij thaum ntawd los thiab hloov, tsis yog li ntawd ntau npaum li cas. Txhua niaj hnub cov hluas nyob rau hauv kev hlub xav tias intimacy nrog Romeo, thiab loj hlob khib - nrog Othello.
Sib nrug los ntawm lub purely kev kawm muaj nuj nqi, nthuav phau ntawv rau cov poj niam, nyob rau hauv ib lub txee nrog classical ntaub ntawv, nqa kuj yog ib tug kawm ntawv hauv paus ntsiab lus. Lawv qhia lub txim ntawm qhov no los yog hais tias ua, thiab yog li sim qhia koj nyeem ntawv zoo. Thaum Boris Strugatsky hais tias tiag tiag cov ntaub ntawv - ib phau ntawv rau cov neeg thiab txog cov neeg. Boris Natanovich lus nyob rau hauv cov cua cam khwb cia: judging los ntawm tej hauj lwm, uas yog xam yuav tsum tau ib tug classic, raws li nws yog.
tseeb
Txawm li cas los, muaj nthuav phau ntawv rau cov poj niam uas yuav muaj qhua tuaj rau tag nrho cov txawj nyeem ntawv indiscriminately, tab sis uas nyob rau tib lub sij hawm tsis yog lub ntiaj teb no ntawm cov kos duab. Qhov no high-zoo scientific thiab nrov ntaub ntawv nyob rau hauv nws cov purest daim ntawv. Yuav kom nws muaj xws li "ua si Cov neeg ua si" thiab "Cov neeg uas ua si qhov kev ua si," Eric Berne los yog "Psychology ntawm lies" Ekman.
Tus sau phau ntawv ntawm cov phau ntawv - ib daim duab zoo-paub, hwm nyob rau hauv lub ntiaj teb no ntawm psychology. Lub tswv yim muaj nyob rau hauv lawv tej hauj lwm, raws li nyob rau hauv ncauj lus kom ntxaws tshawb fawb, tsis kaw speculation cov neeg uas tau txais ib tug questionable kev kawm ntawv los yog insecure siv nws.
Tej hauj lwm - heev nthuav phau ntawv rau cov poj niam 30 xyoo (los yog li ntawd) thaum cov kev siv ntawm cov tub ntxhais mob siab twb dhau, thiab lub siab xav mus tshawb lub ntiaj teb no - tsis tau.
Tej uas txaus siab nyob rau hauv psychology yuav nrhiav tau ib tug ntau ntawm entertaining thiab siv scientific classics li "Lub Txhais Npau Suav" Freud. Yog hais tias peb yuav siv sij hawm nyob rau hauv ib yam dab tsi, nws yog zoo dua rau hu nyob rau hauv kev pab los ntawm cov tub txawg, tsis amateurs. Yuav kom yeej mus sib sib zog nqus, koj mob siab yuav siv nws lub sij hawm mus rau kev sib psychology. nws yuav xav pab rau tag nrho cov kev loj hlob ntawm tus neeg.
muaj hnub nyoog tsim nyog
Xaiv zoo phau ntawv rau cov poj niam, uas yog tsim nyog nyeem ntawv, nws yog tsim nyog los noj mus rau hauv tus account lub hnub nyoog ntawm lub npaj nyeem ntawv. Tseem, ib tug sau ntawm tej hauj lwm los ntawm Alexandre Dumas, tej zaum, yuav thov ib co naïve UNIC, tsis seasoned yaam puab paub matron. Conversely, tsis yog txhua txhua lub nthuav phau ntawv rau cov poj niam 50 xyoo yuav resonate nyob rau hauv lub siab lub ntsws ntawm 15-xyoos. "Foom koob hmoov rau yog nws leej twg nyob rau hauv nws cov tub ntxhais hluas yog ib tug tub hluas, foom koob hmoov rau yog nws leej twg nyob rau hauv lub sij hawm yog ripe," - qhia rau peb Aleksandr Sergeevich Pushkin. Thiab ntawm qhov zoo tshaj plaws cov ntaub ntawv yog tsis yog li ntawd ntau npaum li cas hauv tej hauj lwm, uas "tag nrho cov muaj hnub nyoog". Tej zaum peb yuav tau hnov los ntawm 35-xyoo-laus cynical tej txawm ntse thuam ntawm zajlus twists thiab koj lem ntawm "Romeo thiab Juliet" - thiab peb tsis tau hais tias lawv cov lus yog meaningless.
Phau ntawv rau cov me nyuam thiab cov tsev neeg
Ib tug cais pawg, uas zes nthuav phau ntawv rau cov poj niam 40 xyoo, muaj ntau yam kev pab los pab txheeb tawm lub hma tsev neeg lub neej thiab txhim kho cov kev sib raug zoo nrog nws tus txiv thiab cov me nyuam. Cov no tej hauj lwm sawv ntsug tawm xws li ncej raws li John Gray ( "Tus txiv neej yog los ntawm Mars, Cov poj niam yog los ntawm Venus".) - psychologists practitioners, uas ris rau cov pej xeem hauv lub txiv hmab txiv ntoo ntawm nws ntau xyoo ntawm kev ua hauj lwm. Nyeem ntawv xyuas hais tias cov kws muaj txuj tswv yim thiab paub tab paub xav voplotimy, lub tseem ceeb tshaj plaws - mus ua tsawg kawg yog ib yam tsawg kawg nkaus ntawm lub dag zog.
Ntawm cov ntaub ntawv rau txoj kev sib raug nrog cov hluas tiam noteworthy phau ntawv los ntawm N. Latta "Yuav ua li cas rau me nyuam yaus thiab tsis txhob mus vwm." Ntawm no yog captivating thiab tsim nyog sib cav, thiab cov style ntawm kev nthuav qhia - tus sau yog heev tau los mus tiv thaiv uas zoo tagnrho cov neeg tsis tshwm sim, thiab (a txuj ci tseem ceeb!) Tsis rau txim lawv txawj nyeem ntawv, thiab ua kom txhawb nqa tau lawv. Cov phau ntawv yog sau kindly, humorous, ib qho yooj yim nyeem ntawv, thiab (tseem ceeb tshaj) muaj cov tswv yim ua raws li ntawd yuav yeej cuam tshuam rau tus me nyuam tus cwj pwm.
Cov laus tiam
Rau cov laus tiam nws yog feem ntau pom zoo cov ntaub ntawv kho mob kev txiav txim zoo - kev qhia tau hais tias kev nthuav phau ntawv rau cov poj niam 60 xyoo ntawm lub hnub nyoog yog tiag tiag muaj kev txhawj xeeb nrog kev noj qab nyob. Qhov no yog vim li, txij li thaum hnub nyoog ua nws tus kheej muaj, "cia li tawm" ntawm ntau yam kab mob, thiab yuav tsum tau nquag plias thiab muaj lus zoo siab tag nrho xav tau.
Chaw tau ntaub ntawv nyob rau hauv pej xeem cov tshuaj tshuaj - ntau collections lub feem ntau npaj txhij txog ntawm cov zaub mov txawv ntawm cov feem ntau tsis zoo li cov khoom xyaw yog yeej ib txwm nyob rau hauv coob. Nws yuav tsum tau ceev faj heev thiab ceev faj - tsis txhob ua mob rau koj lub cev ntau heev tshaj dua (ntau dua li kev kho).
Tab sis nyob rau hauv Feem ntau, tej zaum tsis muaj ib qho daim ntawv qhia tsis ua ib ke - cov notion ntawm ib qho kev nthuav phau ntawv ntawm txhua leej txhua tus. Thiab nws yog qhov zoo dua. Yog hais tias lawv tag nrho cov tib yam, lub neej yuav tsum yog ib tug ntau ntau boring.
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