Self-sau qoob, Psychology
Qhov zoo tshaj plaws phau ntawv nyob rau tus me nyuam psychology
Tej zaum, mus nrhiav tau ib qho lus nrog cov me nyuam, raws li tau zoo raws li to taub lawv txoj kev xav yuav tsis yooj yim. Ib tug tshwj xeeb mob teeb meem rau cov niam txiv. Tej zaum, ib tug me nyuam tej zaum yuav coj aggressively thiab covertly, txawm nyob rau hauv kev sib hwm ntawm cov neeg ze tshaj rau koj. Yuav kom nkag siab txog cov kev paub ntawm tus me nyuam, raws li tau zoo raws li rau normalize kev sib raug zoo nrog nws pab cov phau ntawv nyob rau hauv tus me nyuam psychology. Qhov no yog vim lub fact tias cov niam txiv xav yog tsis txaus rau cov upbringing ntawm cov me nyuam. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb yuav tsum tau ua los ntawm kev tshawb tswv yim.
Cov phau ntawv "Self-tus me nyuam, los yog ua li cas los ua neeg tub nkeeg niam" (Anna Bykov)
Lub keeb kwm ntawm phau ntawv no rau tus me nyuam psychology pib nrog ib tug me me tsab xov xwm nyob rau hauv Internet, uas tau tshwm sim los ib tug ntau ntawm kev tsis sib haum. Lub ntsiab teeb meem ntawm no tsab - ib tug qeeb maturation, raws li zoo raws li ib tug tag nrho tsis muaj kev ywj siab nyob rau hauv cov me nyuam. Tab sis nyob rau hauv thiaj li yuav kov yeej no infantilism, nws yog tsim nyog los tsim ib tug tej yam huab cua nyob rau hauv lub tsev neeg. Tus sau xav mus ua "tub nkeeg niam" nyob rau hauv qhov kev txaus siab ntawm tus menyuam.
Yuav kom ntsuam xyuas lub usefulness ntawm phau ntawv no rau tus me nyuam psychology, yog tsim nyog sau cia hais tias tus sau Anna Bykov - ib tug niam ntawm ob tug me nyuam. Nyob rau hauv tas li ntawd, nws muaj ib tug puas siab puas ntsws txoj kev kawm ntawv. Muaj ib tug dlej qhia, nws tau tuaj sib sau tag nrho lawv tej kev txawj ntse nyob rau hauv ib tug me me phau ntawv, uas tau tshwm sim los ib tug resonance.
Cov phau ntawv yog sau yooj yim heev thiab txawm kev lom zem lus uas ua rau nws yooj yim to taub. Cov niam txiv yuav kawm li cas txaus ntshai ntev saib xyuas thiab tswj, uas feem ntau yuam kev niaj hnub niam thiab dads. Tus sau qhia niam yuav mob pesnrab tub nkeeg. Yog li tag nrho cov ntsiab lus tseem ceeb yog muab piav lub neej piv txwv.
Nyob rau hauv thiaj li tsis mus mislead cov txawj nyeem ntawv, yog tsim nyog sau cia hais tias cov tub nkees niam - nws tsis yog ib tug poj niam nyob rau hauv ib tug tsho khuam da dej thiab curlers, uas yog lub moos ntawm lub TV thaum cov me nyuam yog sab laug mus rau lawv tus kheej. Qhov no niam, uas muab ib tug tej yam txoj kev ywj pheej rau tus me nyuam, tsis relinquishing lub luag hauj lwm. Dhau li ntawd, nws tsis nco qab txog qhov yuav tsum tau mus so thiab saib xyuas lawv tus kheej. Tub nkeeg niam attracts tus me nyuam rau tag nrho cov tsev xwm txheej (txawm yog hais tias nws ua hauj lwm ces nws ntxiv no). Yog li, nws yuav tsis raug liam ntawm indifference.
Phau ntawv no yuav pab cov niam txiv los mus tsim ib qho txaus mus kom ze rau cov kev kawm ntawv ntawm cov me nyuam. Nws yuav pab tau kov yeej fanatical hlub thiab tau tshem ntawm "cult ntawm tus me nyuam." Qhov no ntawv yuav thuam, tab sis nyeem nws koj yuav tsum twv yuav raug hu.
Cov phau ntawv "The Secret them nyiaj yug. Tus hlub nyob rau hauv tus me nyuam lub neej" (Lyudmila Petranovskaya)
Lub hom phiaj tseem ceeb ntawm phau ntawv no rau tus me nyuam psychology yog mus piav qhia txog lub ntsiab tob tob ntawm txoj kev sib raug ntawm cov me nyuam thiab leej niam leej txiv. Raws li cov ntawm no lub phenomenon, tus sau nws decipher lub ntsiab lus ntawm moods, aggression thiab lwm yam ces qhov xwm ntawm tus me nyuam.
Nyob rau lub hauv paus ntawm phau ntawv no, cov niam txiv muaj peev xwm tsim cov cai tactics sib txuas lus nrog cov me nyuam, los ua ib tug txhim khu kev qha kev pab txhawb nqa nyob rau hauv lub sij hawm ntawm active kev loj hlob thiab maturation.
Kev mloog yuav tsum tau them rau cov qauv ntawm phau ntawv no rau tus me nyuam psychology. Rau cov niam txiv, nws yuav pab tau paub dab tsi yuam kev lawv tso cai rau kev sib txuas lus nrog rau lawv cov me nyuam nyob rau txawv hnub nyoog. Yog li ntawd, nyob rau hauv thawj tshooj qhia txog cov kev sib raug zoo nrog cov me nyuam, thiab nyob rau hauv txhua tom ntej seem tham txog lub tshiab theem. Nws yog ib nqi sau cia cov zoo xaav thiab memorability ntawm cov ntawv nyeem. Qhov no twb tiav los ntawm ib tug loj tus naj npawb ntawm tiag tiag-lub neej piv txwv li.
Muaj ntau tus me nyuam psychologists hu phau ntawv no yuav tsum tau nyeem. Nyob rau tib lub sij hawm pib kawm nws sawv ntawm lub sij hawm thaum tus me nyuam tseem tsis tau muaj peev xwm mus nrog lawv tham, taug kev, thiab muaj ntau yam tsis to taub. Qhov no yuav pab kom koj tiv thaiv koj tus me nyuam thiab koj tus kheej los ntawm kev poob plig, kev raug mob, kev tsis sib haum. Koj yuav tau tsim ib noj qab nyob zoo txuas.
Cov phau ntawv "Yuav ua li cas mus hlub ib tug me nyuam" (Janusz Korczak)
Yuav tsum thiab txawm ib tug dej num yuav tau nyeem phau ntawv no rau tus me nyuam psychology. Rau cov niam txiv thoob plaws lub ntiaj teb no nws tau los ua ib tug tiag tiag Vajtswv rau kev sib txuas lus nrog cov me nyuam thiab lawv txoj kev kawm. Cov phau ntawv yog sau nyob rau hauv ib tug heev sincere thiab zoo lus. Nws muaj ib tug ntau ntawm cov kev xav ntawm tus sau, raws li tau zoo raws li lub neej cov dab neeg thiab tswv yim.
Phau ntawv ntawm phau ntawv "Yuav ua li cas mus hlub ib tug me nyuam" - yog ib tug manifestation ntawm kev txawj ntse ntawm ib tug xib fwb uas muaj ib lub capital tsab ntawv. Raws li coj txawv txawv raws li nws yuav sound, nws qhia txoj kev hlub rau cov me nyuam kom zoo, tsis deified, tab sis tsis muaj suppressing lawv. Tej yam yooj yim piv txwv thiab lub neej, tus sau piav txog cov yuav tsum tau muab cov me nyuam txoj kev ywj pheej ntawm kev xav thiab kev qhia.
Lub ntsiab feature ntawm phau ntawv no yog hais tias tus sau muab piv txwv ntau los ntawm nws cov nplua nuj qhia. Yog li, cov niam txiv muaj peev xwm qhia tau hais tias nyias kab tshaj uas xaus nrog lub tsim nyog txoj kev ywj pheej thiab indulgence pib. Txhua qhov teeb meem no yog suav tias yog cia nyob rau hauv lub tshuab kuaj kab mob.
Nws yuav tsum tau muab sau tseg hais tias qhov no ntawv yog tsis txaus nyeem ib zaug. Zoo li tag nrho cov qhov zoo tshaj plaws phau ntawv nyob rau tus me nyuam psychology, yog tsis txaus nyeem ib zaug. Muab qhov kev paub thiab cov yam lus ntawm tus neeg sau, thaum xub thawj siab ib muag, tej yam uas yuav tau ruam tag. Txawm li cas los, nyeem ntawv los ntawm no ua hauj lwm dua, koj yuav nrhiav tau tag nrho cov tshiab seb kev hlub rau lawv cov me nyuam.
Cov phau ntawv, "Tsis txhob qw rau cov me nyuam" (Daniele Novara)
Txawm tias muaj tseeb hais tias tag nrho cov zoo tshaj plaws phau ntawv nyob rau tus me nyuam psychology txwv tsis pub me nyuam kom tsa nws lub suab, nyob rau hauv kev xyaum, ua tsis yog li ntawd yooj yim. Tsis muaj teeb meem li cas laus tus me nyuam yuav inevitably tshwm sim ib qhov teeb meem nyob qhov twg cov niam txiv muaj peev xwm tsis tuav rov qab tus cwj pwm txawv. Cuaj kaum quaj tsis tau tsuas yog tsis pab los daws qhov teeb meem, tab sis txawm yuav ua rau nws mob heev. Daniele Novara yeej qhia kom haum raws li cov teeb meem, tsis tsuas tau tawm ntawm lawv tsis muaj lub suab nrov quarrels, thiab yuav pab tau los ntawm lawv.
Cov phau ntawv, "Tsis txhob qw rau cov me nyuam" yog yam rau tag nrho cov muaj hnub nyoog pawg. Nws chaw nyob xws lus nug yooj yim:
- daws teeb meem xwm txheej nrog cov me nyuam tsis muaj kev qw thiab battering;
- mus rau kev qhia cov me nyuam, tsis sis tsis sib haum lawv lub meej mom thiab tsis muaj lub suab nrov ntawm lub ua hauj lwm;
- yuav tau mus nrhiav constructive nyob rau hauv txhua txhua teeb meem qhov teeb meem no, extracting lub feem ntau ntawm nws;
- tsim ib tsev neeg system ntawm cov kev cai, uas yuav muab nthuav kom ua raws li, tsis tsuas yog cov menyuam tiam sis tag nrho cov neeg hauv tsev neeg.
Tus sau qhia rau cov niam txiv ntsiag to perceive tsis sib haum. Xws li ib tug teeb meem - nws tsis yog ib tug txawv los ntawm cov cai. Qhov no yog lub cai. Tus sau qhia cov niam txiv yuav tsum tau competent cov thawj coj, uas yuav tsum tau mus daws tau tej teeb meem no nyob rau hauv lub tsev neeg. Ib tug quaj tsuas suppress tus kheej zoo ntawm tus me nyuam, los yog, nyob rau hauv tsis tooj, ua rau ib tug mob cov tshuaj tiv thaiv.
Cov phau ntawv "txoj kev ywj pheej los ntawm kev kawm ntawv" (Dima Zitser)
Rau tsis muaj dab tsi, muaj ntau yam cov niam cov txiv tsis quav ntsej txog yuav tsum muaj phau ntawv nyob rau psychology. Cov me nyuam sau phau ntawv piav qhia hais tias kev kawm ntawv tej zaum kuj dhau mus ua kev kub ntxhov. Nyob rau hauv ib tes, lub siab rau cov me nyuam nyob rau hauv thiaj li yuav kom lawv tus kheej tej ntsiab cai thiab feem ntau txais cov kev cai ntawm kev coj cwj pwm. Nyob rau hauv lwm yam - ua nruj ua tsiv ntawm cov niam txiv lawm xwb, uas yog lossi yuam lawv tus kheej rau kev kawm ntawv. Yog li, kev sib txuas lus ntawm cov me nyuam thiab cov laus poob Hawj txawm muaj kev xyiv fab.
Nyob rau hauv phau ntawv "kev ywj pheej ntawm kev kawm ntawv," tus sau tswv yim tiv thaiv cov pa kev kawm ntawv tus qauv. Qhia cov me nyuam xav tau li ntawd, hais tias ob tus me nyuam thiab cov niam txiv nws yog ib tug qab ntxiag thiab nthuav. Zitser qhia tsis tau tsuas yog kev hlub, tab sis kuj yuav hwm tus me nyuam, kev noj mus rau hauv tus account tag nrho nws cov kev txaus siab. Nyob rau tib lub sij hawm, cov niam txiv yuav tsum rau sab caj npab rau lawv tus kheej nrog ib lub cuab tam xws li keb soj ntsuam. Qhov no yuav pab kom paub tias cov me nyuam txoj kev xav tau kev pab, raws li zoo raws li txoj lw nws cov tshuaj tiv thaiv rau cov neeg los yog lwm yam kev kawm txoj kev.
Cov phau ntawv "Yog hais tias ib tug me nyuam yog ib qhov nyuaj" (Lyudmila Petranovskaya)
Phau ntawv rau tus me nyuam psychology teeb meem yuav yeej cuam tshuam rau txoj kev sib raug zoo nrog nws niam nws txiv. Leej Niam los yog txiv - qhov no tsis yog tsuas yog qab ntxiag tsev neeg lub sij hawm, tab sis kuj heev tsis sib haum thiab tsis to taub. Nws yog feem ntau, nws yuav ua tau ntau heev tshaj dua thab sim los daws kom tau ib tug yooj yim teeb meem no. Petranovskaya, uas ua reference cov phau ntawv rau ntau cov niam txiv thiab cov kws qhia ntawv qhia calmly saib qhov teeb meem thiab ib qho kev tsim txiaj txoj kev tawm ntawm nws, kom cov tsev neeg ib tug zoo kev sib raug zoo.
Cov phau ntawv muaj tswv yim pab tswv yim rau tam sim no muaj metub menyuam. Tus sau sau ntawv hais tias nws yuav tsum tau tsis tsuas cov me nyuam, tab sis kuj cov niam txiv lawv tus kheej. Qhov no yuav pab tau kom tsis txhob mus tas li tsov rog uas yog lossi mus nyob rau ntawm cov laus thiab cov hluas tiam. Tus sau piav txog tias sim ua kom koj tus me nyuam ntau "yooj yim", cov niam txiv ntxiv complicate qhov teeb meem.
Nyob rau hauv "Yog hais tias ib tug yooj yim tus me nyuam" sau them ze mloog mus rau lub txim. Ntawm cov hoob kawm, koj yuav tsis cia ib tug ua txhaum tus me nyuam. Cuaj kaum, nws yuav tsum tau ua li cas kom (thiab txawm ntse). Tus sau tshuaj xyuas qhov nrov txoj kev rau txim, los ntawm uas nws yuav paub tseeb hais tias muaj coob tus niam txiv sim "lub tsheb ciav hlau" lawv cov me nyuam. Tus sau kuj qhia peb tsis mus rau kho lawv rau koj tus kheej thiab daim ntawv kev sib raug zoo uas yuav tsum tau txhua yam raws li ob tog neeg.
Cov phau ntawv "Tom qab peb lig dhau lawm" (Masaru Ibuka)
Borderline hnub nyoog, uas txhais tau tias cov me nyuam psychology - 3 xyoo. Cov phau ntawv "Tom qab peb twb lig lawm," xaiv cov amazing muaj peev xwm ntawm cov me nyuam yaus. Nws hloov tawm, cov me nyuam mos yog yus muaj los ntawm ntau zog kawm tsis tau ntawv. Nyob rau tib lub sij hawm nyob rau hauv tus me nyuam mos nws tsis yog tus sis nrog lawv niam lawv txiv, tab sis kuj cov ib puag ncig. Yog li, lub ras tus me nyuam lub hnub nyoog yog tseem ua tau kom muab tso rau qhov yooj yim makings ntawm txoj cai coj.
Lub ntsiab feature ntawm phau ntawv no rau tus me nyuam psychology xyaum yog hais tias nws yog tshwj xeeb uas txais rau cov txiv. Tus sau ntseeg hais tias muaj kev kawm ntawv lub sij hawm, uas muaj peev xwm lis xwb ib tug txiv neej. Yuav kom poj koob yawm txwv ua rau nws yooj yim dua rau perceive cov ntaub ntawv, cov phau ntawv muaj ntau cov tswv yim pom zoo thiab ib tug tsawg kawg nkaus ntawm lyrical digressions, uas yog li ntawd fond ntawm cov poj niam.
Cov phau ntawv "Yuav ua li cas yog tias ib tug me nyuam yog tus tsav tsheb rau koj vwm" (los yog Le Shan)
Xav qhov zoo tshaj plaws phau ntawv nyob rau tus me nyuam psychology thiab kev kawm ntawv, peb yuav tsis quav ntsej kev ua hauj lwm los yog Le Shan. Sau ntawm ntau txuam nrog tus naas ej Dr. Spock, qhia tias lub tswv yim tseeb ntawm nws cov tswv yim pom zoo thiab cov tswvyim. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom nco ntsoov tias phau ntawv no yog tag nrho siv tau rau niaj hnub niam txiv.
"Yog hais tias ib tug me nyuam yog tus tsav tsheb rau koj vwm" - ib tug sau ntawm raug teeb meem teeb meem, uas tej zaum tshwm sim nyob rau hauv tej tsev neeg. Lawm, nws yog lawv cov me nyuam yog cov epicenter. Tus sau qhia yuav ua li cas mus rub tau kuv tus kheej ua ke thiab nrhiav tau txoj kev tawm. Nrog kev hwm rau txhua Piv txwv li, xav txog lub ntsiab ua rau ib tug me nyuam txoj kev hloov tus cwj pwm. Nyob rau hauv tas li ntawd, nws yog muab ib tug xov tooj ntawm cov tswv yim pom zoo.
Cov phau ntawv yog sau nyob rau hauv ib tug yooj yim thiab to taub cov lus. Cov ua ntej lawm cov niam txiv paub nrog nws txheem, qhov ntau dua qhov yuav hais tias lawv yuav tsum tau kom tsis txhob muaj ntau yuam kev nyob rau hauv kev soj ntsuam txog nrog cov me nyuam. Thiab txawm nyob rau hauv lub midst ntawm ib tug teeb meem qhov teeb meem no, koj yuav tsum tau nrhiav tswv yim zoo, tab tom nrhiav rau hauv no tsab. Muab tus nqi ntawm cov phau ntawv, nws kuj pom zoo rau kev nyeem ntawv lub qhia ntawv thiab cov me nyuam psychologists.
Cov phau ntawv "whims thiab taws. Yuav ua li cas tiv nrog cov me nyuam txoj kev chim" (Madlen Deni)
Xav mus nyeem qhov zoo tshaj plaws phau ntawv nyob rau tus me nyuam psychology rau cov niam txiv yuav tsum tau them ze mloog mus rau phau ntawv no. Cov neeg laus yeej tsis txaus teb mus rau lub whims thiab aggression nyob rau ib feem ntawm tus me nyuam. Yog tsis muaj txawm noticing, lawv yeej suppress cov tsos mob no, uas yuav ces ua rau ntau txawm tias teeb meem loj. Cuaj kaum, ib yam li cov laus, cov me nyuam tej zaum yuav muaj muaj zog cwj pwm txawv uas yog lossi nrhiav ib txoj kev tawm. Yog li, tus me nyuam yuav tsum tsis txhob oppress, tab sis mloog nws, sim mus ua hauj lwm ua ke kom tiv nrog txoj kev xav.
Lub hom phiaj tseem ceeb ntawm daim ntawv no yog piav dab tsi aggression thiab caprices - qhov no yog dab tsi (cov laus thiab cov me nyuam). Psychology phau ntawv rau cov me nyuam ntawm cov neeg sau yuav pab tsim kev sib raug zoo nrog tus me nyuam nyob rau hauv siab lub sij hawm. Nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv no, los ntawm ib tug scientific point of view, cov yam ntxwv ntawm lub siab ntsws txoj kev loj hlob ntawm cov me nyuam ntawm txawv hnub nyoog. Piv txwv li, qhov xwm ntawm hysteria xyoo-laus kas yog fundamentally sib txawv ntawm cov vagaries ntawm lub plaub xyoos tus me nyuam. Yog li, cov niam txiv tau tus tsim nyog kev txawj ntse mus pab lawv raws kev sib txuas lus nrog cov me nyuam.
Phau Ntawv Madlen Deni muaj nqis nyeem ntawv yog hais tias tsuas vim hais tias nws tau tsim ib lub fundamentally tshiab mus kom ze rau cov kev kawm ntawv ntawm cov me nyuam. Kev kawm ntawv thiab kev tsuj nws ntau xyoo xyiv fab kev cais, uas yog ib tug muaj tswv yim txoj kev. Lub hom phiaj tseem ceeb ntawm no ua hauj lwm - los qhia cov niam txiv kom to taub txog lawv cov me nyuam. Yog li, lub suab quaj thiab whims yuav tsis tau ib tug irritant.
Cov phau ntawv "Soj ntsuam nrog tus me nyuam. Yuav ua li cas?" (Yu. B. Gippenreyter)
Muab cov nplua mais ntawm cov ntaub ntawv nyob rau hauv cov kev kawm ntawv ntawm cov niam txiv yog ib qho tseem ceeb mus nrhiav yuav pab tau cov phau ntawv rau tus me nyuam psychology, uas yog tsim nyog nyeem ntawv. Ib tug ntawm cov tej hauj lwm yog cov ntawv "Soj ntsuam nrog tus me nyuam. Yuav ua li cas?" Lub gist ntawm nws yog hais tias koj yuav tsum tsis txhob tso siab tag nrho rau cov pa kev kawm txoj kev, vim hais tias txhua txhua cov me nyuam no sib txawv. Koj tus me nyuam yuav tsum to taub, vim hais tias ntawm lub banal hysteria yuav ua tau vim ib tug loj kev. Tus sau aims los qhia cov niam txiv yuav txuas lus tau raws kev nrog lawv cov me nyuam, thiab feem ntau cov tseem ceeb - tsis las mees thiab tsis txhob ntshai lawv. Ua li no, txawm lawv tsim cov tswv yim ce los pab tsim cov kev txawj ntse.
Nws yog ib nqi sau cia hais tias phau ntawv muaj ob qhov chaw. Thawj - qhov no yog ib tug theoretical phau ntawv no, uas muaj ob qho tib si koj tus kheej cov lus xaus ntawm tus sau, thiab ntau pedagogical thiab puas siab puas ntsws postulates. Nrog kev xav txog cov continuation ntawm - ib cov tswv yim piv txwv. Lawv yog npaum li cas los ntawm tus sau tus kheej pom thiab los ntawm cov kev xyaum ntawm uas cov kws txawj nyob rau hauv lub teb. Txhua lub nram qab no nyob rau hauv lub neej - yog lo lus teb rau ib tug los yog lwm yam niam txiv lo lus nug.
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Kuv puas yuav tau nyeem cov phau ntawv nyob rau hauv tus me nyuam psychology? Tus sau phau ntawv cam hais tias qhov no yog tsim nyog. Dua li ntawm qhov kev ntseeg tus kheej ntawm ntau cov niam txiv, muaj tej lub sijhawm uas yuav muab daws tsis tau thiaj tau tuaj relying rau lawv instincts thiab kev ntawm cov laus tiam. Txoj kev zoo nkauj ntawm cov niaj hnub tawm yog hais tias cov ntsiab lus yog yoog mus rau peculiarities ntawm ib tug lub sij hawm raws li nyob rau hauv lub tej yam kev mob nyob rau hauv uas cov me nyuam loj hlob tuaj. Qhov loj tshaj plaws - yog xaiv rau lawv tus kheej ib co ntawm qhov zoo tshaj plaws phau ntawv uas yuav pab nrhiav tau cov cai mus kom ze rau tus me nyuam thiab pab txhawb kom kev daws teeb meem.
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