Tus thawj hnub: dab tsi los tham txog nrog ib tug hluas nkauj?

Nyob rau hauv lub neej ntawm txhua tus tib neeg nws tshwm sim ntau thawj hnub, thiab nyob rau hauv pem hauv ntej ntawm txhua leej txhua tus, ib txoj kev los sis lwm, looj hlias txhawj xeeb vim hais tias yog tsis muaj tseeb raws li seb koj yuav nyiam nws tus khub. Ntawm cov hoob kawm, cov poj niam them ntau dua sai sai rau lawv cov tsos, tab sis ua ntej thawj hnub txawm ib co txiv neej coj lawv tus kheej nyob rau hauv tes thiab speculated tias nws yog zoo dua rau hnav thiab zoo li cas naj hoom rau xaiv. Peb nyob nraum tsis tham txog cov neeg losers uas mus rau lub pick-up kev kawm thiab xav hais tias qhov ntau hluas nkauj zataschat mus pw, nrog tsis muaj dag zog, yog li lawv yog txias. Nyob rau hauv tas li ntawd, cov hais mav tsis coj mus rau hauv tus account lub fact tias cov ntxhais yog tsis fools, thiab lawv tau yooj yim "xam" thiab muab tso rau hauv qhov chaw.

Peb yuav tau tham txog cov tub hluas ntxhais hluas uas rau siab mus ib tug loj thiab ntev kev sib raug zoo nrog ib tug koj nyiam ib tug ntxhais. Yog li ntawd nco ntsoov: yog hais tias koj nug nws tawm thiab tau txais qhov kev pom zoo, ces koj twb yeej xav nyob rau hauv nws, yog li ntawd thaum lub rooj sib tham, sim tau nws tus kheej thiab tsis yog tshwj xeeb complex. Koj muaj peev xwm, ntawm chav kawm, xav hais tias nyob rau hauv ua ntej hais txog dab tsi hais mus rau ib tug poj niam nyob ntawm lub rooj sib tham, tab sis tsis txhob hnov qab txog spontaneity, unpredictability. Ntawm cov hoob kawm, koj tsis tas yuav mus sib tham nrog koj yav tas los los yog hais kom nws yuav ua li cas ntau tus txiv neej nws yuav tsum tau muaj. Thaum lub caij, koj qhia rau nws tsis muaj, thiab koj yuav tsum tsis txhob mob siab txog nws. Dhau li ntawd, yog hais tias koj xav nrog tus ntxhais no, tsis txhob nug nws tias lo lus nug yeej tsis hloov vim hais tias yav dhau los tseem yuav tsis ua hauj lwm, thiab kev sib raug zoo muaj peev xwm deteriorate.

Yog hais tias koj tsis paub yuav hais li cas mus rau ib tug poj niam thaum lub rooj sib tham nws zoo dua, sim mus nug nws hais txog dab tsi nws yog xav nyob rau hauv dab tsi nws yog xav. Yog hais tias nws muaj ib tug nyiam nyiam ua, nws yeej zoo siab hlo qhia rau koj txog nws, thiab muaj yog ib lo lus rau lo lus ... Nws yog fond ntawm ib yam dab tsi interesting ntxhais tas hais kom koj qhia rau peb hais txog dab tsi koj xav nyob rau hauv, vim hais tias nws yog interesting. Tej zaum koj hobby yuav pom tau ib tug ncha nyob rau hauv nws lub siab, thiab koj yuav yuav ntawm lub tuam txaus siab.

Thaum koj tau pom ib yam dab tsi los tham txog nrog ib tug hluas nkauj, sim ntau li ntau tau mus nrhiav nws feem ntau. Nco zoo siab thiab sociable, qhia rau nws paub dab tsi nws yog tiag tiag txias, thiab koj nyob nraum cia li nyob rau hauv awe ntawm nws. Muaj ntau "cov tub hluas" Lub rooj sab laj pom zoo kom feem ntau kov tus hluas nkauj (rau lub xub pwg mus kov, lis thiab cov zoo li), ostensibly rau tag nrho cov poj niam yog madly nyob rau hauv kev hlub. Tsis txhob ntseeg nws! Tsis muaj txiv neej nyiam yuav lwm tus neeg yog invading nws tus kheej qhov chaw. Poj niam - kuj yog ib tug txiv neej, thiab koj muaj tam sim no - ib tug neeg txawv. Lossi kov nws, supposedly los ntawm lub caij nyoog, koj cia li hem nws tam sim ntawd, thiab nws yuav khiav ntawm koj mus sim ua ntej tshaj koj xav. Yog hais tias nws xav, ces nws yuav coj koj los ntawm cov tes (thiab ntau educated ntxhais thiab nug yog hais tias nws yuav ua tau nws).

Yuav ua li cas yuav koj hais rau ib tug hluas nkauj tsis tau? Yog, txhua yam uas. Coj nws mus rau ib tug yeeb yam thiab sib tham txog cov zaj duab xis, tham txog music, hais txog lawv nyiam ntxias. Muaj ntau cov poj niam hnub no yog tsis muaj ab tsi mus rau lub kev ua si nawv, xws li football. Leej twg paub, tej zaum koj tus khub - ib tug ntawm lawv, yog li ntawd tsis txhob ntshai mus nug nws txog nws. Tab sis tsis txhob nug nws heev tus kheej cov lus nug, thiab pib sib tham txog kev pw ua ke, nyiaj (tshwj tsis yog tias nws tsis yog thawj zaug mention ntawm lawv).

Tseem tsis paub dab tsi los tham txog nrog ib tug hluas nkauj? Koj muaj peev xwm ciali nws tu los ntawm kev qhia ib tug ob peb funny dab neeg los ntawm nws lub neej. Tseeb nws kuj muaj ib yam dab tsi qhia muaj lus zoo siab thiab luag yog zoo heev relieves qhov nro. Qhia nws ib tug ob peb compliments, tab sis tsis dag ntxias. Qhia rau koj cov lus yuav ua tiag tiag, cov ntxhais txaus siab rau nws. Thaum lawv dag ntxias nyob rau hauv lub guise ntawm ib tug tseem qhuas kuv thiab, lawv xav tias heev nyias, thiab koj tus kheej yuav ces yuav tu siab yog tias koj tus khub koj nyob rau hauv rov qab "yuav muab" ib yam dab tsi nyob rau hauv tib ntsuj plig.

Tseem, ib co yooj yim qauv, dab tsi los tham txog nrog ib tug hluas nkauj, yeej tsis tau. Yog hais tias koj ua tag nrho cov ntsiab lus yog txiav rau pikaperskie site los yog cov txiv neej lub magazine, koj khiav txoj kev pheej hmoo ntawm raug sab laug nrog tsis muaj dab tsi, vim hais tias koj yeej tsis paub yuav ua li cas coj nyob rau hauv ib tug hluas poj niam. Cia li muaj kev ncaj ncees thiab sincere nrog nws, thiab yog hais tias koj tsis xav kom ob tom qab thawj hnub, nws yog zoo dua qhia rau nws txog nws ncaj qha, yuav ib tug txiv neej. Zoo cia nws yuav mob heev tam sim no, tab sis nws yuav to taub tias koj yuav tsis pom nws ntxiv, thiab yuav nrhiav rau lwm yam txiv leej tub, tsis Tesha kev cia siab rau koj. Yog hais tias koj twb paub lawm tias koj xav mus saib tus ntxhais no rov - kom paub txog nws nyob rau hauv no, thiab mus txuas ntxiv tsim kev sib raug zoo.