Self-sau qoob, Psychology
Yuav ua li cas yuav ua rau ib tug tseem qhuas rau cov txiv neej
Tus txiv neej thiab cov poj niam - raws nraim cov lus rov ntawm creation. Lawv muaj ib tug txawv xaav ntawm lub ntiaj teb no thiab tej yam ntawm tib neeg tus cwj pwm. Txawm li cas los, txawm xws cuab txawv, qhov ob opposite nws kuj muaj ib co zoo xws li cov ua cim sijhawm. Txwv tsis pub, yuav ua li cas nws yuav nruab nrab ntawm lawv yug ib tug zoo kawg nkaus lawm, zoo li txoj kev hlub.
Cov poj niam thiab txiv neej yog Attendance hlub, thaum lawv ua compliments. Tus saib hais tias cov txiv neej tsis tas yuav compliments, erroneous. Lawv nyiam thaum lawv qhuas thiab nquam paj nquam nruas lawv achievements. Tab sis nyob rau hauv cov teeb meem no rau hauv lub tseem ceeb tshaj plaws kom paub cov kev ntsuas, thiaj li tsis overdo nws, thiab txoj kab uas nws yog tsis tsim nyog los mus nyob rau hauv lawv cov praises. Yuav ua li cas yuav ua rau ib tug tseem qhuas kuv thiab rau tus txiv neej hais tias nws menyuam lawv?
Compliments cov txiv neej yuav tsum txhawb kom lawv los ua ib co kev txiav txim. Nyob rau hauv nqa tawm tej chaw ua hauj lwm, lawv xav hnov lus ntawm kev txhawb zog kom nws qhov chaw nyob. Qhov no yuav qhia rau lawv ntxiv zog, thiab lawv yuav tsum tau npaj txhij rau koj yuav tsiv mus nyob toj siab. Compliments cov txiv neej yuav tsum tsis txhob yuav tsis tseem ceeb ua li cas nrog lawv cov tsos. Piv txwv li, qhia ib tug txiv neej hais tias nws yog heev zoo nkauj, nws yog ib yam muaj thiab yog inefficient. Lawv tsis them sai sai, raws li txwv rau cov poj niam, xws qhuas. Tab sis nws yuav tsum tau muab sau tseg tias nws yog zoo-sim ua kom nws daim duab thiaj zoo meej. Yog li, koj yuav pom tias lub sij hawm siv nyob rau hauv lub gym, tsis nyob rau hauv vain. Rau nws, nws yuav zoo tshaj plaws compliment nws achievements.
Tus txiv neej hlub rau compliments nws tau sau lawv cov kev kawm. Nyob rau hauv thiaj li yuav zoo ua hauj lwm, lawv yuav tsum tsis tu ncua replenishment nyob rau hauv daim ntawv ntawm cov kev pom zoo thiab kev qhuas. Tab sis hais lo lus nyob rau hauv txhua rooj plaub yuav tsum tsis txhob yuav sarcasm thiab ridicule. Txwv tsis pub compliments cov txiv neej yuav muaj lub opposite nyhuv. Es tsis txhob ntawm ib tug ntev kab lus hais tias nws ua homework thiab txawm tias thaum nws tsis mob ib yam dab tsi lwm tus, koj yuav cia li hais tias, "Yuav ua li cas kuv tsis tau ua tag nrho cov tib." Rau ib tug txiv neej, nws yuav muaj ntau yam ntau qab ntxiag.
Cov poj niam ib txwm muaj tau kev tshoov siab ntawm tus txiv neej los kuj zoo kawg deeds. Muaj ntau cov piv txwv nyob rau hauv keeb kwm qhov twg rau lawv lub zog txiv neej pw heev tau hloov lub ntiaj teb no. Qhov no qhia tau ib zaug dua hais tias txoj cai mus qhuas tus txiv neej muaj ib tug heev muaj zog cawv rau nws xaav ntawm kev muaj tiag.
Ua compliments cov txiv neej nco ntsoov tias lawv tsis nyiam txoj kev zoo nkauj thiab flowery nqe lus. Cia nws yuav hais nyob rau hauv ib tug yooj yim yooj yim rau to taub hom. Txwv tsis pub, nws yuav tsum tau ntaus nqi yog tsis heev txaus. Tsis tas li ntawd, tsis txhob overestimate txoj hauj lwm zoo ntawm cov txiv neej ib yam nkaus thiab. Dhau blatant uas tsis tseeb ntxias yuav tsis tau lub Desired nyhuv.
Tshwj xeeb yam khoom koj xav xaiv compliments mus rau lub beloved. Ntawm no lub Scope rau ntau npaum li cas qhuas. Yog hais tias ib tug phooj ywg ua ib tug txiv neej compliments tsuas yog nyob rau general los yog uas tsis yog-losis tswvyim dabtsi threads, tus nyiam yuav kwv yees nrog rau cov opposite txhais tes. Cov neeg siv uas cuag ib tug kev sib raug zoo, nws yog zoo npaum li cas los sib paub. Lawv yog cov zoo-paub cwj pwm tsis zoo thiab tau ntawm nws halves. Npaum cov compliments uas ua rau koj ib tug txiv neej. Qhov no yuav qhib tau ib co ntawm cov yam ntxwv ntawm nws tus cwj pwm. To taub ntau npaum li cas nws xav kom koj ua nws cov lus teb. Nquam paj nquam nruas tag nrho nws cov kev ua, txawm yog hais tias lawv yog me. Piv txwv li, yog hais tias nws tau muab koj ib tug tes thaum koj tawm hauv koj lub tsheb los yog lwm yam txhais tau tias kev thauj, hais tias nws yog xam qhovkev xwb tiag tiag cov txiv neej.
kuj tsim nyog compliments nyob rau hauv lub intimate kheej. Ntxiv mus, txiv neej yuav tos rau cov poj niam soj ntsuam lawv cov tuition nyob rau hauv cheeb tsam no. Rau lawv, nws yog tsim nyog raws li tej huab cua. Tsis txhob skimp on compliments, tiam sis ua nws zog thiab delicately, hais tias lawv tsis zoo li blatant uas tsis tseeb ntxias. Nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv no, koj tsis tas yuav muaj ntau yam lus, ntau npaum li cas hais tias koj cov lus teb.
Ua li cas txoj cai, ib tug tseem qhuas kuv thiab, tej zaum yuav kos cov xim uas tus txiv neej koj yuav tsum rub ua ke thiab ho. Raws li ib tug tshwm sim, nws yuav tsum tau rau koj tsiv mus nyob toj siab. Qhov no yog ib qho zoo heev uas yuav nrhiav tau cov cai mus kom ze rau lub zog txiv neej pw.
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