Disability: yog hais tias ib tug phooj ywg yog nyob rau hauv cov teeb meem ...

Qhov no me ntsis phau ntawv "rau cov phooj ywg", kuv txiav txim siab los sau ntawv rau lub hauv paus ntawm tus kheej kev: kuv fiance tau txais ib tug neeg xiam oob qhab - mob loj heev txha caj raug mob - thiab yog tam sim no khwb khuav koom nyob rau hauv lawv cov rov qab. Lub network xam tau tias yog heev txaus txog qhov kev sib raug zoo nrog cov txheeb ze, tab sis cov phooj ywg feem ntau tsawg nyob ze cov phooj ywg, ib tug me ntsis spared.

es tsis txhob ntawm cov kev taw qhia

Ua ntej, Kuv xav ua tsaug rau tag nrho cov neeg uas tsis nyob twj ywm nyob rau hauv lub sidelines thaum nws tus phooj ywg tau txais mus rau hauv lub txawv txawv thiab frightening teeb meem no rau lawv tus kheej. Koj muaj peev xwm tsis xav txog tej yam yuav ua li cas npaum li cas lub ntsiab lus ntawm koj lo lus ntawm kev pab txhawb nqa rau qhov raug mob neeg. Thiab txawm hais tias koj xav tias koj tej zaum ua txaus rau kuv tus phooj ywg - nws tsis yog! Koj mloog thiab tu tau kev pab ib tug neeg xav tias haum tsis muaj teeb meem dab tsi. Tab sis nyob rau hauv thiaj li yuav hlau tawm tag nrho cov tau roughness thiab awkwardness nyob rau hauv koj sib txuas lus, nws yog tsim nyog los xav txog cov nram nuances. Yog li ntawd, cia peb pib ...

Pib ib lub neej tshiab

Koj cia li kawm tau hais tias cov closer ib tug neeg yog tiag raug mob, cov kws kho mob tau tawm nrog luv luv nqe lus los ntawm cov series: "Nws yog ruaj khov, qhov kub ntawm xws thiab xws li." Ntshai thiab tsis paub tseeb. Yog hais tias lwm cov twb pauv los ntawm lub intensive kev saib xyuas tsev, thiab koj muaj lub sij hawm mus xyuas nws, nco ntsoov: tsis muaj kua muag (tshwj xeeb tshaj yog nrog regards rau cov ntxhais), mournful qhia. Nco ntsoov nyuaj siab neeg ib zaug xwb, thaum muab tso rau hauv lub hleb, tab sis koj nyob nraum nyob rau hauv hmoov: koj tus phooj ywg yog tseem ciaj sia. Thaum xub thawj, sim mus khawb li cov lus qhia ntxiv hais txog qhov kev raug mob, tej zaum teeb meem, txog tom ntej kev kho mob. Thaum cov kws kho mob ntau heev load, feem ntau lawv tsis yog lub cev muaj peev xwm mus tham nrog tus neeg mob, yog li nws yog mus rau calm down nws thiab tsi los ntawm tag nrho cov yuav ua tau zoo yog hais tias koj cia li nkag mus hauv tus neeg nyob rau hauv lub chav kawm ntawm lub rooj plaub. Feem ntau cov yuav, tus kws kho mob yog tsis paub ntaub ntawv hais txog tus txheej xwm ntawm koj tus phooj ywg yuav tsis tau, thiab nws yuav zoo yog hais tias koj muaj lub sij hawm mus tham nrog lwm tus ib tug neeg muaj peev xwm nyob rau hauv cov cheeb tsam no. Tsis tau nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom paub tias dab tsi raws nraim koj xav paub: feem ntau tawm ntawm ignorance, peb thov cov lus teb los ntawm cov neeg uas tsis muaj peev xwm muab rau lawv. Piv txwv li, hais kom ib tug neurosurgeon, ib tug neeg muaj peev xwm rov qab los ntawm no kev raug mob thiab dab tsi yog qhov rov qab lub sij hawm. Tab sis, alas, feem ntau tau yog kom meej meej tsis cov lus teb uas peb cia siab hais tias nws yog ib zajlus kom: neurosurgeons tsis muab kev koom tes nyob rau hauv kev ncaj ncees. Thaum koj twb tau txais cov ntaub ntawv, sim maj mam muab nqa mus rau koj tus phooj ywg, tsis tas yuav mus rau kev nthuav dav, ntawm lub postulate hais tias "muaj yog ib txwm cia siab."

Thaum peb muaj ib tug kev puas tsuaj ntaus, thiab Andrew tom qab qhov kev huam yuaj underwent phais rau decompress cov leeg nrob qaum nrog ib tug ua ntej mob ntawm "tag nrho compression ntawm cov leeg nrob qaum nyob rau theem ntawm T3, T4", ua rau tus kws phais hais rau nws ces nws yeej tsis taug kev dua. Radiologist general txawb cov kab lus: "Koj nyob nraum muaj hmoo peb muaj cov qhov chaw nyob rau hauv sawn", nyob rau hauv lub chav xwm txheej ceev, dhau lawm, tsis poob qab, muab cia li raug kev txom nyem ib tug raug mob loj rau cov txiv neej "rau rauj rau", vim hais tias nws yog "kev cia siab." Tsim lub dag zog mus qhia Andrew ntawd. Thiab qhov no tsis yog ib qho raug rho tawm cov ntaub ntawv.

Ib lub hlis tom qab, koj yuav khiav marathons!

Yog li, lub mob theem lawm, nws coj ib co sij hawm, thiab tam sim no nws yuav ntshiab sai npaum li cas cov neeg kawm txoj rov qab los ntawm kev poob plig. Feem ntau rau ciali nws tus phooj ywg, cov neeg pib mus dab neeg hais txog ib co neeg uas yus paub los yog cov phooj ywg ntawm cov phooj ywg uas tom qab ib tug zoo li (raws li nws nkawd) raug mob rau rov lawv lub zog nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv lub sij hawm. Nws nkawd hais tias nws yuav tsum pab txhawb thiab muab kev cia siab, tab sis ... Tag nrho cov tooj. Feem ntau cov yuav, yog hais tias tus mob los yog raug mob yog yeej tsis yooj yim, cov neeg yuav paub txog nws zoo nkauj sai sai, thiab zoo sib xws me nyuam no yuav txhawb kom ua tsuas yog ib lub luag tu siab thiab ib tug zuj zus voos. Yog, koj tus phooj ywg yeej zoo siab tshaj uas yog ntau muaj hmoo, thiab ces tuaj tu siab heev xav txog nws tus kheej txoj hauj lwm. Nws yog zoo dua mus nrhiav ib tug neeg ua tib yam li tus mob, zoo thiab tseem ceeb, ib tug neeg yuav tsum tau them lawv tej yam txaus siab thiab txhawb cog qoob loo hais tias txawm nrog tej teeb meem ntawd yuav tiv ntse thiab yuav tsum tau "ib tug tsim nyog tug tswv cuab ntawm cov haiv neeg." Yog li ntawd nws yog zoo dua tawm hauv lub tales ntawm "Vasya los ntawm sab qhov rooj, uas zoo tu qab tso 3 hnub" rau lawv.

Kuj ceeb tias, peb yog cov tsis tshua zoo sib xws thiab feem ntau zoo li no:

- Kuv muaj ib tug phooj ywg uas, tom qab ib tug txha caj puas rau 3-4 lub hlis pib taug kev los mus, thiab 7 - yog twb khiav!

- Nws yog zoo, li cas thiab lub twg thiab theem ntawm tus txha caj qaum raug mob?

- Oh, kuv tsis paub ntawm xws subtleties ...

Tos, Kuv mam li pab

Pom li cas koj tus phooj ywg yog tawm tsam kom rub lub tsho, coj ib tug diav rau nws lub qhov ncauj, koj muaj ib tug tej yam ntuj tso yuav tsum tau pab nws. "Muab kuv, kuv yuav ua tau li ntawd sai sai" - feem ntau no txoj kev txhaum cuam tshuam cov txheeb ze, tab sis cov phooj ywg yog raug. Es tsis txhob ua xav thov ua tsaug rau cov kev pab koj tus phooj ywg yog chim siab rau tej vim li cas thiab tej zaum koj yuav mej xav tias ib tug tsis txaus siab rau cov nyiaj them yug. Pov tseg cov kev xav. Nyob rau hauv qhov tseeb, koj yog li kav "ib pliag".

Ua ntej, hais tias cov neeg nyob rau hauv lub neej yav tom ntej yuav ua li cas tsis muaj kev pab nyob rau hauv cov teeb meem ntawm nws tus kheej-kev pab cuam, tias nws tau ua txhua yam rau nws tus kheej thaum twg ua tau. Yog, albeit maj mam, txawm spilling ib nrab ntawm cov kua zaub paib lawv tus kheej, los yog hnav khaub ncaws rau ib teev, tab sis tom qab ua tsaug rau cov kev kawm, cov neeg yuav tsum tau rov qab mus rau ib tug txoj kev ntawm lub neej, tso qhov kev kho mob ntawm tsev neeg, dua li undoubtedly pab txhawb lawv thiab lawv lub neej . Cov txheejtxheem, yuav ua li cas los qhia cov kev txawj ntse ntawm yus tus kheej-kev pab cuam me nyuam yaus, hais tias yuav ua txhua yam rau tus me nyuam ntawm ib tug ib txwm, nws yeej tsis yuav kawm tsis muaj dab tsi.

Secondly, ntawm no nws plays lub luag hauj lwm, thiab raug mob muaj nuj nqis, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog thaum nws tawm los rau tus neeg raug mob. Xav txog tej yam uas cia li ib tug ob peb lub hlis dhau los nws yog kiag li noj qab nyob zoo ywj siab neeg, uas muaj lub hom phiaj, nyiam, uas tau ib tug mainstay rau lawv niam lawv txiv, tsev neeg, thiab tam sim no nws yog tsim nyog rau qhov kev kho mob ntawm ob lub ob-xyoo. Koj xav xav tau kev pab xwb mus rau nws nco qab los ntawm nws tam sim no txoj hauj lwm.

Yog li ntawd nyob rau hauv no qhov teeb meem no, pom tias koj tus phooj ywg tsis tau lis nws tus kheej, cia li lolus nug: "Kuv yuav pab tau koj, los yog koj puas tau txoj cai?" Txwv tsis pub, tsis yooj yim dua thaum ib tug neeg twg thiaj li raug siv mus rau lub fact tias tsis yog hais tias, rau nws khiav ib pab, thiab thiaj li so uas tsis ntev txawm sim yuav ua li cas nws tau txais.

Rau ib txhia yog vim li cas kuv cia li nco ntsoov ib tug cim los ntawm cov American documentary zaj duab xis, uas yog ib tug loj loj nyhav dhau heev lawm thiab tub nkeeg li hais tias txhua txhua lub sij hawm nws tus poj niam tau nug kom nws qhib ib lub raj mis ntawm Coca-Cola. Tsis hais tus so ntawm lub me ntsis tej yam uas nws nws tus kheej twb muaj peev xwm ua. Tub nkeeg yog tua!

Yuav ua li cas cov kws kho mob hais tias, tej txoj hau kev?

Lwm raug thiab tsawg khaus lo lus nug. Peb pib nrog lub fact tias cov kws kho mob yog feem ntau nyob rau hauv txoj mob, thiab tsis tsuas muab qhov zoo tshaj plaws tau tau yog frightening. Thiab lawv yuav to taub. Thiab ntseeg kuv, koj tus phooj ywg yuav tsis tau thiaj li txaus siab qhia rau koj yog dab tsi tus kws kho mob kwv yees. Cov ntau uas cov kws kho mob lawv tus kheej feem ntau tsis paub yuav ua li cas raws li nws tus neeg mob yuav rov qab tau los ntawm lub poob plig, vim hais tias general cwj pwm thiab persistence muaj enormous nqi.

Raws nraim vim li cas, thaum kuv nug no foom lo lus nug, kuv muaj ob qho kev xaiv, nyob ntawm seb zoo li cas ntawm cov nyhuv kuv xav tau ua kom tau lub questioner. Nws yog twb hackneyed: "Thaum xws li kev raug mob forecasts tsis muab cov kws kho mob tsis txhob hais tias" - los yog, yog tias koj xav kom sai tau tshem, "hais tias ntawm tus nyuam hais tias xws li kev raug mob" tsis tshwm sim "Thiab nco ntsoov cov bearded anecdote :. "tus kws kho mob hais tias lub MORGUE, ces mus rau lub MORGUE!"

Koj yuav tsum mloog cov kws kho mob!

Sim mus cais los ntawm koj cov lo lus rau lo lus. Vim hais tias koj tus phooj ywg thiab xav li ntawd indebted rau tag nrho cov nyob ib ncig ntawm: cov niam txiv uas, es tsis txhob so, saib xyuas nws raws li ib tug me nyuam; tus txij nkawm los yog phooj ywg, vim hais tias nws yuav tsis yuav ib txhim khu kev qha kev pab txhawb nqa; cov me nyuam, cov phooj ywg, cov kws kho mob, orderlies, thawj, lug txhawb cov miv, thiab lwm yam Daim ntawv expands rau infinity. Thiab ces muaj yog koj nrog koj tus "koj yuav tsum." Ntseeg kuv, nws paub. Thiab tsis txhob sib zog heev nrog txwv, yog hais tias muaj yog tsis muaj direct pov thawj tus kws kho mob indulge khoom noj txom ncauj.

Andrei niam - ib tug zoo kawg nkaus tus poj niam, tab sis tej zaum kuj mus dhau deb. Es tsuas sparing noj cov zaub mov tsis muaj nqaij los yog muaj roj ntse zoo li frills noj cov zaub mov noj mov ua rau tus poj niam tus ntiv tes: tshiab boiled nqaij qaib mis tsis muaj daim tawv nqaij, porridge nyob rau hauv dej thiab cov khoom xws li ntawd. Peb yuav tsum nqa contraband, risking qhov kev chim.

Yog muaj tej kev kawm?

Lwm perennial lo lus nug, uas feem ntau tau txais ib tug tsis zoo teb, uas yog frustrating rau txhua leej txhua tus. Ces yog vim li cas thov kom nws, kuv nug? Yog hais tias cov neeg nquam paj nquam nruas nyob rau hauv tsev kev txhim kho, tsis txhob txhawj, cov ntaub ntawv no yuav kis tsis tau koj sab, nws yuav tsum tau muab tom qab txog txais tos, ntxiv los yog rho tawm ib kab lus. Tshwj xeeb tshaj yog vim hais tias cov neeg feem ntau yog tsis muaj peev xwm pom tej yam hloov uas tshwm sim rau nws, tsis yog lub fact tias nws tsis yog ib tug tuag lawm tsab ntawv.

Yuav kom ncaj ncees, kuv yeej ib txwm tau poob thaum kuv tabtom nug ib yam dab tsi nyob rau hauv cov kev zoo sib thooj ntawm no, tsuas yog vim hais tias ntawm qhov tseeb hais tias kuv tsis to taub txog tej uas kev txhim kho tus txiv neej hais tias. Nws xav seb tus neeg tau tsiv mus nyob ntawm ko taw los yog hais tias pw tsaug zog muaj ib tug ua npaws? Yog li ntawd thaum lub sij hawm tus txheej txheem thiab lub luv luv lo lus teb yog: "Yes! Nws yog zoo dua nyob rau hauv lub chav xwm txheej ceev!"

Kuv muaj ib tug kws kho mob tus phooj ywg, hu rau nws ...

Zoo nkauj heev thiab commendable hais tias cov neeg xav kom koj qhia pab tau, raws li nws nkawd mus hu. Tiam sis feem ntau nws yog tsis paub txog tej niceties li tus txais nomtswv thiab specialization ntawm lub pom zoo tshwj xeeb, yog li feem ntau yog tias koj succumb mus rau lub entreaties hu rau superdoktoru, los nram qab no sib tham:

- Zoo tav su, koj pom zoo kom Mr. N, koj yuav tsis tau mus tawm tswv yim nyob rau hauv xws li ib qhov teeb meem?

- Thov txim, tab sis kuv yog ib tug proctologist, koj yuav tsum tham ib urologist.

Tej zaum ib tug me ntsis exaggerated, tab sis cov kev txiav txim zoo yog tseeb txog.

Kuv yog nyob rau hauv thawj, tam sim no nws yog ntau npaum li cas rarer nakidali hu chiropractors, txawm hais tias lawv yog cov nyob rau ib txha caj raug mob, yam tsawg kawg thaum xub thawj, yog kom meej meej tsis tsim nyog. Koov cov nqaj qaum nyob rau hauv tag nrho cov lus qhia uas muaj daim hlau es tsis txhob ntawm ob pob txha caj qaum tsis yog pab tau ib ce muaj zog.

Koj muab pov nws tam sim no?

Qhov no intimate lus nug no twb yog mus rau lub "ob ib nrab" tus neeg tau txais ib tug xiam oob qhab, thiab feem ntau los ntawm cov phooj ywg ntawm tus neeg. Koj twb paub dab tsi kuv xav kom koj lo nws ... nyob deb deb. Thiab tsis tau. Tsis muaj hnub! Ib tug yuav to taub hais tias koj xav dua kev nyuaj siab rau nws tus phooj ywg, tab sis qhov teeb meem koj tsis txhob hloov dab tsi. Alas, nws tshwm sim hais tias cov neeg ua txhaum li, Yog hais tias xws li ib tug kev txiav txim siab yog ua, koj yuav tsis muaj kev cuam tshuam nws - yog hais tias tsis, tus neeg yuav muab tso rau hauv ib qho txawv txawv txoj hauj lwm thaum nws yuav tau ua excuses rau tsis muaj yog vim li cas. Tshwj xeeb tshaj yog, nws tsis yog yooj yim dua rau ib tug neeg tom qab raug mob rau nws tus kheej, "xa" nws tus khub.

Ib yam dab tsi uas kuv tau ntsib tag nrho. Kuv cov phooj ywg qhia rau kuv down thiab tsawg kawg yog rau qhov no, tiam sis ua nws maj mam muab thiab delicately, kom khiav ntawm kuv cov tshuaj tiv thaiv, npaj rau tam sim ntawd thim. Tab sis tus paub Andrew tshaj tag nrho kuv cov miv nyuas, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog cov poj niam. Kuv crept mus rau hauv lub vwm lub tswv yim hais tias lawv muaj peev xwm tsis tos coj kuv qhov chaw. Lo lus nug no yog feem ntau yog ua raws li tom qab "Kuv tuaj los, kuv paub Andrew."

es tsis txhob ntawm ib tug epilogue

Ntawm cov hoob kawm, tib neeg kev sib raug zoo muaj txoj thiab tsis muaj tej yam loj hloov nyob rau hauv lub neej, peb feem ntau yooj yim rau to taub txawm tias ib tug nyob ze cov phooj ywg, muab tso rau koj tus kheej nyob rau hauv nws qhov chaw. Tab sis thaum txhua yam yog muab upside down, txhua yam, uas koj yav tas los tsis tau them nyiaj mloog, yuav ua rau loj teeb meem. Kuv coj ob peb tug cov brightest thiab feem ntau ntau tau kom raug thaum sib txuas lus nrog ib tug neeg mam li nco dheev tiag undermine lawv noj qab haus huv. Xws li tus neeg tej zaum yuav chim siab, txawm npau taws, tab sis tsis xav tias lawv tsis txaus siab rau koj cov kev txhawj xeeb thiab txhawb nqa. Qhov no yog feem ntau yog ib ntus tshwm sim, ib ras txog rau enormous kev nyuaj siab. Cia li yuav muaj, ib tug neeg yuav tsum tau xav hais tias tsis muaj teeb meem dab tsi nws yuav tsum tau ib tug neeg.