Yuav ua li cas mus rau cov hloov ib tug me nyuam mus rau lwm lub tsev kawm ntawv, thiab seb puas yuav ua li cas?

Muaj ntau yog vim li cas yuav ua rau cov niam txiv xav hais tias hais txog kev hloov tsev kawm ntawv. Yuav ua li cas mus rau cov hloov ib tug me nyuam mus rau lwm lub tsev kawm ntawv? Kuv yuav tsum tau ua li cas? Yuav koj tus me nyuam zoo nyob rau hauv lub tshiab pab neeg? Los ntawm cov lus nug, koj yuav tau ua txhaum lub taub hau, ua ntej thaum kawg txiav txim siab. Oddly txaus, feem ntau ntawm cov neeg txhais lus yog tsis cob cog rua nrog lub siab xav ntawm cov me nyuam kawm ntawv. Cov me nyuam, tsis zoo li cov niam txiv - ua saj zawg zog heev, lawv hloov mus rau tej yam kev mob, txawm yog hais tias lawv ua los yog tsis nyiam. Nyob rau hauv tas li ntawd, lawv yuav tsis ua neej kev, pom tej yam rau pom zoo.

Yog hais tias tus me nyuam mus kawm rau lwm lub tsev kawm ntawv yog tsis vim lub hom phiaj yog vim li cas (tsiv, cov impossibility ntawm mastering qhov kev pab cuam, muaj mob, thiab lwm yam), feem ntau yuav, cov niam txiv yog tsis txaus siab rau tus xib fwb, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog nyob rau hauv tsev kawm ntawv. Nws yog ntseeg hais tias cov kws qhia ntawv ntxim rau cov tsim ntawm tus cwm pwm ntawm tus me nyuam nyob rau hauv thawj lub tsev kawm ntawv yog enormous, feem ntau nyob rau ntawm no muaj hnub nyoog ntawm nws txoj cai "zoo tshaj" cov niam txiv. Yuav qhia niam thiab dads nco ntsoov "lawv cov thawj xib fwb." Ntawm cov hoob kawm, kev lig kev cai peb yog xav thov ua tsaug rau lawv, tab sis yog ntawm tej mentors peb npau suav rau lawv cov me nyuam? Txawm nyob rau hauv cov hnub nrog rau cov xib fwb yog muaj hmoo tsis ntau heev, txawm hais tias tus "smithy" ntawm lub Soviet system tso cai rau koj mus rau "ntaus" dlej txhaj tshuaj. Tam sim no qhov teeb meem no nrog lub tsev kawm ntawv qhia cov neeg ua haujlwm yoojyim npaum li cas yuav tsum tau kawm. Yog li ntawd, xav txog yuav ua li cas mus rau cov hloov ib tug me nyuam mus rau lwm lub tsev kawm ntawv, koj yuav tsum tau paub tias ib tug tshiab tus xib fwb tej zaum yuav tsis zoo tshaj yav dhau los.

Kwv yees li tib yam yog cov ntaub ntawv nrog rau cov me nyuam pab neeg. Cov ua hauj lwm ntawm tus me nyuam sib txuas lus nrog lawv cov phooj ywg - yog ib qho yog vim li cas rau cov kev tshawb fawb rau ib tug tshiab qhov chaw ntawm txoj kev tshawb. Nws tshwm sim hais tias ib tug tub los yog tus ntxhais xav tias nyob rau hauv chav kawm ntawv vaj, tsis nrhiav ib tug phooj ywg zoo. Muaj tej yam teeb meem zuj zus thaum tus me nyuam yog ib tug tiag tiag kev tsim txom los ntawm kawm ntawv ua ke (los ntawm txoj kev, nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv no, tsis yog tus kawg ua txhaum nws yog ib tug xib fwb, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog nyob rau hauv lub qis qib), li ntawd, cov neeg txhais lus yuav tsum yog tus tsuas tshuaj. Yog hais tias nws tsuas yog ib tug tsis muaj peev xwm los tsim kom tau kev sib raug zoo nrog cov me nyuam, nws yog zoo dua tsis mus tsuag tsuag. Nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv no, koj yuav tsum xav hais tias tsis yog hais txog yuav ua li cas mus rau cov hloov ib tug me nyuam mus rau lwm lub tsev kawm ntawv vim hais tias tus neeg txhais lus tsis yog yuav los mus daws cov teeb meem uas yuav tshwm sim, thiab nyob rau hauv ib tug tshiab qhov chaw.

Txhua tus neeg, txawm yog hais tias nws yog heev kas yuav tsum kawm txog cov qauv ntawm kev sib txuas lus lawv tus kheej. Nrhiav nws ntau los yog tsawg dua qhov chaw nyob hauv zej zog - ib tug yooj yim, tab sis tseem ceeb heev ua hauj lwm, uas yuav tawm nws cov cim rau ntau xyoo. Tiag tiag mas lub siab xav ntawm cov niam txiv muab lawv tus me nyuam qhov zoo tshaj plaws ntawm txhua yam, thiab los tiv thaiv nws los ntawm kev nyuaj siab. Tab sis, dragging nws los ntawm tsev kawm ntawv rau lub tsev kawm ntawv nyob rau hauv kev tshawb fawb ntawm "ib tug zoo dua lub neej", nws tsis yog tau mus cuag tej yam. Ntau tom qab, twb laus tus tub thiab tus ntxhais yuav daws tau lawv tus kheej, tsev neeg, thiab ua hauj lwm puag ncig teeb meem los ntawm qhov kev hloov. Ntawm cov me nyuam, ib yam nkaus thiab patronized cov niam txiv feem ntau loj hlob "unrecognized ntse heev". Yog li ntawd, cov niam txiv yuav tsum zoo heev luj qhov "pros thiab cons" ua ntej koj xav txog yuav ua li cas mus rau cov hloov ib tug me nyuam mus rau lwm lub tsev kawm ntawv.

Yog hais tias qhov teeb meem twb tau hais meej daws, thiab cov kev xaiv ntawm lub tsev kawm ntawv tshiab yog ua, nws yog tsis tsim nyog los mus ncua cov kev hloov. Niam Txiv tus me nyuam ntawm kev tsis ntseeg thiab procrastination tsis yog yuav tau txais txiaj ntsim. Paub txog hais tias tag nrho cov me nyuam siv rau kev tso, peb yuav tsum nco ntsoov hais tias lawv yog txoj cai thiab kev qhuab qhia tib cog qoob loo nyob rau hauv koj cov khoom muaj nqis.

Lub hardest ib feem twb morally txiav txim siab nyob rau hauv neeg txhais lus, thiab technically siv nws lub tswv yim - qhov no yog tsis yog ib tug teeb meem. Thaum tau kev tso cai los ntawm lub tsev kawm ntawv tshiab thiab daim ntawv pov thawj rau npe kawm ntawv, koj yuav tau qhia nws mus rau lub qub thawj coj, yuav tsum khaws cov ntaub ntawv tsim nyog rau tus me nyuam (cov kev kho mob card thiab lwm ua lag ua luam), ntaus nqi mus rau ib tug tshiab lub tsev kawm ntawv thiab tau txais koj txhais tes rau ntawm ib tug txiav txim ntawm kev txais neeg kawm. Hmoov zoo!