Yuav ua li cas yog lub ntsiab lus ntawm kev sib tham nrog tus txiv leej tub nyob rau hauv lub xov tooj feem ntau tsim nyog?

Nws tshwm sim, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog cov tub ntxhais hluas, nws yog yooj yim thiab yooj yim rau ntaus ib acquaintance ntawm tus xov tooj tshaj nyob rau hauv lub neej tiag tiag. Los yog ob yog twb paub zoo, tab sis xyov tsis ua li ntawd nws muab rau hauv ib tug phooj ywg, ib tug kev sib raug zoo los yog txawm hlub. Feem ntau cov feem ntau qhov no tshwm sim nyob rau hauv lub tsev kawm ntawv ntawm lub neej, yam tsawg kawg - nyob rau hauv tus menyuam kawm ntawv. Lub ntsiab yog vim li cas - tsis muaj sij hawm txaus rau kev sib txuas lus. Ib tug me me so yog yuav luag tsis yooj yim sua kom muaj lub sij hawm mus lob cov xim uas tus neeg uas lawv xav tau.

Nws yog ces hais tias muaj ntau muaj cov kev pab txhawb nqa ntawm ib tug mobile (los yog landline) kev sib txuas lus. Tej zaum txiav txim siab mus hu ib tug ntau, tab sis yog dab tsi yog ib lub npe ntawm kev sib tham nrog tus txiv leej tub nyob rau hauv lub xov tooj yog tau?

Tshwj xeeb tshaj yog tej xov tooj sib txuas lus

Ua ntej koj yuav xaiv li cas koj yuav hais tias, nco ntsoov ib yam yooj yim tshaj plaws. Thaum twg koj tsis pom tus neeg, tsis yog ib txwm tau mus twv nws mus ob peb vas. Tej zaum nws tsis yog configured sib txuas lus. Tej zaum nws superfluous "pob ntseg" raws li ib tug neeg los ntawm cov phooj ywg los yog cov txheeb ze zaum ze ze. Los yog ceev teeb meem, los ntawm uas nws rub lub tswb. Los sis tej zaum nws cia li xav mus pw tsaug zog. Thiab ces tej ntsiab lus ntawm kev sib tham nrog tus txiv leej tub nyob rau hauv cov xov tooj yuav tau ntuj raug txim rau nws.

Kom tsis txhob xws li ib tug deplorable sij hawm ua ntej koj pib sib tham, nug yog hais tias koj cuam tshuam nws. Qhov no yog tsis yog ib tug lub npe ntawm kev sib tham nrog tus txiv leej tub nyob rau hauv internet tuaj tos, vim hais tias nws muaj peev xwm teb thiab tom qab ib hnub twg nyob rau hauv lub network. Yog hais tias cov lus teb yog "tsis muaj", koj yuav mus. Ib zaug ntxiv, tus txiv leej tub yuav pw tawm ntawm kev coj zoo. Nws yuav hais tias distracting, tab sis nws ntseeg hais tias koj hu no yog hu 5 feeb, thiab txiav txim siab tsis mus tsis kam. Tab sis koj muaj ib tug txawv lub tswv yim, ib tug txawv kiag li lub hom phiaj. Thaum twg nws pom hais tias nws tau tsis 5 thiab 20 feeb, nws yuav pib xav mus txawv. Koj ua hauj lwm - nug txog cov sijhawm ntxiv rau cov kev sib tham dua. Yog hais tias koj xav hais tias nws reluctantly pom zoo, tiav qhov kev sib tham.

Yuav ua li cas thiab yuav ua li cas rau kev sib txuas lus

Yog hais tias koj xav hais tias lub npe ntawm kev sib tham nrog tus txiv leej tub nyob rau hauv lub xov tooj - nws yog ib tug yooj yim kev xaiv, koj yog tsis ncaj ncees lawm. Tus txiv neej hlub nrog koj tham txog, raws li zoo raws li ib tug poj niam, uas yog cia li ntawm lawv tus kheej. Thiab saum toj no tag nrho, lawv hwm lawv cov "txiv neej" ntsiab lus: kev ua si, football, nuv ntses, yos hav zoov, computers, sau, lub tsheb. Thiab, ntawm chav kawm, ib tug kev sib tham ntawm yuav ua li cas lawv yog cov uas muaj cov phooj ywg qhov chaw mus, "zaum." Nws yog tsim nyog rau lawv muab. Tsis txhob sim los tham txog cov huab cua! Yog hais tias ib nyuag ntsia. Thiab tsis nyob rau hauv thaum pib ntawm kev sib tham.

Nws tseem yog ib qho tseem ceeb tias cov neeg ntawm lub saum toj no txhua txhua ib zaug txiv leej tub yog xav nyob rau hauv tsuas ib ob peb. Topic ntawm kev sib tham nrog tus txiv leej tub nyob rau hauv lub xov tooj mus rau yuav txiv neej, tab sis tsis yog txhua txhua. Koj muaj peev xwm endlessly tham txog cov programmer ib lub tsheb tshiab, tab sis khiav txoj kev pheej hmoo ntawm lub rooj sib hais snoring nyob rau hauv lub raj. Yog li ntawd, peb thawj zaug yuav tsum ua tib zoo nug dab tsi nws yog xav. Thiab xwb ces pib tham txog nws.

Muaj ob qho tseem ceeb cov ntsiab lus:

1. Tsis txhob pib nrog cov lus nug xws li: "Koj puas nyiam nuv ntses?" Los yog "Thiab yog dab tsi yog koj ntse rau?" Nyob rau hauv lub xov tooj, nws zoo nkaus li coj txawv txawv. Qhov no yog qhov psychology ntawm kev sib txuas lus nrog tus hais mav, koj yuav tau pib ua cas txawv, rau Piv txwv li: "Kuv tus hluas nkauj mus nrog nws tus tij laug mus rau football, thiab tau cog lus tseg mus nrog kuv mus rau qhov tsos. Kuv tsis paub tias leej twg mus tam sim no. " Thiab ces, thaum tej zaum tus txiv leej tub yog tos rau koj mus ua kom tau ib lub tuam txhab, nug: "Thiab koj, dhau lawm, zoo li football?" Yog hais tias cov lus teb yuav tau wag tseg hockey, etc. Thiab mus nrog koj mus rau qhov tsos dawb tau ib daim pib .. muaj nyob tom kawg ntawm qhov kev sib tham, maj mam muab.

2. Tsis muaj yuav tsum tau tsim los ntawm ib tug kws nyob rau hauv qhov kev kawm, uas nws nyiam, tab sis tsis xav nyob rau hauv koj. Nws yog zoo dua mus nug! Nws yuav qhia rau koj nrog Library!

Thaum lub kawg tsis txhob hnov qab yuav tsiv mus nyob lub kawm uas koj yuav ua tau raws li ib tug lub sij hawm. Nco kaj siab lug thiab nyob rau tib lub sij hawm tsis muaj cai yuam kom! Qhov no yog qho tseem ceeb heev.