Kev Txom Nyem raws li ib feem ntawm ib tug neeg.

Nyob zoo txawj nyeem ntawv. Kuv xav qhia rau koj kuv xav txog ib lub npe xws li mob. Tej zaum peb txhua tus tsawg kawg ib zaug nyob rau hauv lawv lub neej, muaj kev ncaj ncees los yog cev nqaij daim tawv, wondering: "Vim li cas kuv ua li cas?". Tab sis tsis muaj ib tug puas tau xav txog qhov tseeb ntawm kev txom nyem. Kuv sim piav qhia kuv xav ..

EhYa ntseeg tau hais tias kev txom nyem yog tsim nyog, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev ib feem ntawm ib tug neeg. Muaj mob ib tug neeg mus rau ib theem tshiab ntawm nws tus kheej. Ntawm no yog ib tug tsis tseem ceeb piv txwv: tus txiv neej mus txog rau lub gym. Muaj ib hnub nws xav tias: "Cia li nyob rau hauv, Kuv ces nkees, tab sis tseem muaj menyuam thiab kuv yuav tsis mus hnub no.", Thiab dab tsi yog qhov tshwm sim? Yog, rau ib tug luv luv lub sij hawm ntawm lub sij hawm nws muab nws tus kheej lub Library - ib tug so, dag rau hauv lub rooj zaum thiab tsis tau ua dab tsi, tab sis yog dab tsi tom ntej no? Nws tsis tsim los ntawm no. Nyob rau lwm cov tes, yog hais tias nws tau mus rau lub gym, koj yuav tau nkees, tab sis nws yuav ua rau kev txiav txim zoo, nws tau pib loj hlob nqaij. Yog li ntawd nws yog nrog sab ntsuj plig kev loj hlob ntawm ib tug neeg los tsim, nws yog tsim nyog los mus kov yeej, los ua tej kev txom nyem.

Ib me ntsis thim ntawm lub npe. Kuv muaj ib tug phooj ywg, nws nyuam qhuav tsoo mus nrog ib tug hluas nkauj. Thiab ib tug ob peb hnub dhau los nws tuaj rau kuv thiab hais tias: "Kuv xav tias phem kuv xav tau kev pab kuv twb tau quaj thaum hmo ntuj, tab sis kuv tsis ntshai lees nws ..." Koj paub, muaj yog tsis muaj tej yam ntawm tus neeg uas hais tias, "Oh, cas, tsis nco qab nws nco txog cov kev txom nyem.". Tab sis yog vim li cas kuv yuav tsum tau nco txog lawv thiab sim mus nkaum, yog tias kuv phem? Zoo tshaj qhov kuv yog tam sim no, "raug kev txom nyem" lawv tshaj nws yuav noog, thiab ces nrog no sau tau tsis yog tag nrho. Cov neeg ntshai lawv kev txom nyem, kuv xav hais tias qhov tseem ceeb tshaj yog tsis sim kev khiav los ntawm lawv.

Tej zaum ib tug neeg muaj peev xwm tsis nws tus kheej txiav txim siab nyob rau hauv kev txom nyem, thiab nws xav tau kev pab, li ntawd, yuav hais lus, "thawb tawm ntawm tus choj." Tsis tas li ntawd muab ib tug banal piv txwv: addict. Nws yeej paub tias yog hais tias nws tsis noj cov tshuaj, nws yuav tau raug kev txom nyem, thiab, ntawm chav kawm, nws muaj peev xwm tsis nws tus kheej txiav txim siab rau qhov no, tab sis realizes hais tias nws yog tsim nyog rau nws. Kuv hais txhua yam yog heev exaggerated, tab sis kuv vam thiab cia siab hais tias nws yuav tshem kuv lub siab. Qhov no yog qhov chaw uas yuav tsum tau mus "thawb" nws.

Lwm tseem ceeb heev point. Muaj yog ib tug sib txawv ntawm txoj kev khuv leej thiab hlub. Nyob rau hauv tsis muaj cov ntaub ntawv yuav ua tsis tau siab nyob ib ncig ntawm yuav pab tau ib tug neeg tau txais tawm ntawm nws lub kev nyuaj siab ploj, li ntawd, koj ua "ib pliag" - nws yog ib tug hlub. Nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv no, tus neeg cia li tau siv mus pab thiab ces cias tsis tau puag nrog lawv. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb hais tias nws kawm tau li cas yuav ua rau nws. Tab sis muaj ib tug downside. Tsis tas li ntawd, koj yuav tsum tsis txhob nco lub caij thaum ib tug neeg tiag tiag xav tau kev pab thaum nws yog twb ib co yim pab cov nqe lus thaum nyeem nyob rau hauv nws ob lub qhov muag: "Zoo, tam sim no kuv xav tau koj kev pab, tuaj nyob rau hauv." Qhov no yog tam sim no Art - los yeej ntes rau hauv nruab nrab av, mus caum lub caij thaum ib tug txiv neej yuav tsum tau koj kev pab.

Nyob rau hauv kuv lub neej muaj ib lub sij hawm thaum kuv yuav luag tuaj mus tua tus kheej, thiab yog hais tias kuv tsis tau kev pab, tej zaum kuv yuav tsis sau txog nws nyob ntawm no tam sim no, tej zaum kuv yuav tau tiag tiag cog lus yus tua yus. Kuv tsis paub dab tsi nws yuav ua tau. Feem ntau cov neeg zoo li tshwm sim tawm ntawm tsis pom qhov twg, koj yuav tsis nrhiav tawm uas nyob rau hauv txoj kev, yog tsis paub nrog lawv nyob rau hauv kev tes hauj lwm, lawv cia li tuaj thiab rub koj tawm qhov ntawd mus, thaum tiag tiag koj yuav tsum tau. Tej zaum cov neeg no twb tsis muaj nyob rau hauv kev muaj tiag, nws yuav ua tau lub heroes ntawm movies, phau ntawv - nws tsis txawv. Qhov loj tshaj plaws uas lawv tau.

Ua tsaug koj rau koj mloog, Nyob zoo nyeem ntawv. Siab zoo rau koj. Thiab tej zaum koj yuav tsum tau cov neeg uas yuav pab tau.