Npau suav txhais lus: dab tsi npau suav qhwv

Raws li zaum, nyob rau hauv lub ntiaj teb no muaj cov tsis muaj cov neeg uas tsis muaj kev npau suav. Tsis muaj teeb meem dab tsi - nthuav los yog tsis nqa ib lub ntsiab lus los yog ib tug rog xav txog ntawm yav tas los thiab yav tom ntej, qab ntxiag los yog phev heev - peb tag nrho pom lawv, tab sis tsis yog txhua txhua ntawm lawv nco ntsoov. Tib neeg yuav tsum muaj nws cov hauv paus nrog rau feem ntau nws mus rau unravel lub paub tsis meej ntawm kev npau suav, thiab txhua tus muaj ib tug npau suav txhais txawv.

Ib tug npau suav nyob rau hauv uas ua npau suav ntawm zaub qhwv:

- nyob rau hauv cov me nyuam tus npau suav phau ntawv no yog cov influx ntawm cov nyiaj;

- cov poj niam txoj kev npau suav Phau Ntawv hais tias cabbage nyob rau hauv ib tug npau suav yog ib tug ntawm lub ntsiab tsis zoo cim ntawm peb tus npau suav. Pom nws tej lus cog tseg hlub Xus, thiab deev luag poj luag. Ntxuav txhais tau tias npau suav party yog npaj ib tug nyuaj hmoo los ntawm wasteful kev siv nyiaj txiag;

- Aesop tus npau suav phau ntawv teb tau cov lus nug ntawm yog dab tsi ua npau suav zaub qhwv, raws li nyob rau hauv cov me nyuam teeb meem (... koj tau pom nyob rau hauv zaub qhwv ...). Hais tias yog, dej txaj nrog zaub qhwv yog ib tug condescending yam ntxwv rau lawv cov me nyuam, lawv nyob rau hauv lem tau siv mus rau nws thiab yuav tsis muaj lawm xam tau tias yog koj lub tswv yim. Tej zaub qhwv nplooj txhais tau tias koj yuav sai sai no muaj mus cuag tag nrho nws cov cai xa koj tus me nyuam rau ntawm txoj kab. Ua noj cov zaub mov thiab razdelyvanie lub taub hau ntawm zaub qhwv nyob rau hauv ib tug npau suav nyob rau hauv uas koj ua npau suav ntawm zaub qhwv, lub ntsiab lus yav tom ntej disappointments, lub originator ntawm cov uas yuav tsum tau koj cov me nyuam, cov kev yuav tsis tau tsuas yog koj li, tab sis kuj tus me nyuam, thiab nws kev yuav ntau npaum li cas mob. Tej cobs txhais tau tias los txo cov kev phiv tendencies thiab tsis tau phem ntawm koj tus me nyuam, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb - ces nws tsis nco lub caij, nws yog lig dhau lawm mus kho nws. Tee lub tib rab diav rawg thiab poob nws txhais tau tias sab ntsuj plig tsis sib haum ntawm tus me nyuam los ntawm koj, yuav muaj koj them dhau me ntsis rau nws; raws li ib tug yuav tau txais, tus me nyuam kaw thiab thov kev pab rau lwm tus neeg.

- ABC ntawm tus txhais lus los ntawm kev npau suav piav rau tom qab ntawm kev phem kev npau suav, uas zus tom qab lo lus nug "li cas npau suav qhwv", yog li ntawd no zaub yog thiab nruab nrab yog ib tug pov tseg ntawm lub sij hawm thiab tej nroj tsuag - feem ntau yog futile nrhiav qhov tseeb. Nyob rau hauv no tsis pom kev ntawm lub taub hau txhais tau tias teeb meem; noj nws - txoj kev poob ntawm cov nyiaj thiab lub sij hawm; saib cabbage nyob rau hauv lub vaj - npaj txhij txog qhua, xov xwm;

- sonnik dawb magician teb rau lo lus nug, yog dab tsi npau suav zaub qhwv, thiab sib txawv txhais ntawm kev npau suav rau ib tug ntau yam ntawm kev xaiv. Loj hlob nws los yog sau yog ntxhov mus xyuas ntawm ib tug txiv neej, uas yog heev xav ua kom pom; thiab qhwv nyob rau hauv ib tug npau suav txhais tau tias lub sij hawm ntawm nws kev cia siab, txawm lub fact, txawm lawv tej zaum yuav illusory. Yog hais tias koj pom ntau yam tsis muaj zaub qhwv, nws txhais tau tias koj yog ib tug hlub ib tug neeg tab tom nrhiav rau pem hauv ntej rau lub rooj sib tham nrog koj, hauv tus npau suav hu ib tug txiv neej mus nrhiav nyob ib ncig ntawm nyob rau hauv kev tshawb fawb ntawm ib tug phooj ywg zoo. Muas qhwv nyob rau hauv kev ua lag luam txhais tau tias zoo siab, npaj txhij txog kev hloov, tej zaum - sai tos txais ib tug neeg hlub ib tug. Cov poj niam, uas tau sib yuav tsis ntev los no, raws li nyob rau hauv tus txhais lus los ntawm tus npau suav yuav tsum tau npaj rau cev xeeb tub. Noj cov khoom uas qhwv - nws txhais tau tias koj muaj kom tau raws li lub npaj txhij txog, tab sis yeej ib txwm zoo siab txais tos. Seaweed nyob rau hauv ib tug npau suav txhais tau tias cov rov qab los ntawm koj tus hlub, leej twg muaj ntev thiab tiag unwell. Coleslaw cog lus ceev nrhiav los yog incidental profits txuam nrog loj sums ntawm cov nyiaj. Marinating cabbage nyob rau hauv ib tug npau suav nyob rau hauv lub neej tiag tiag raws li cov lus cog tseg yuav luag tsis nco qab lawm thiab ntev-sawv, uas yog yuav tshwm sim nyob rau hauv thawj lub lim tiam tom qab no tus npau suav.

Zoo, tom qab tag nrho, yog dab tsi npau suav qhwv? Yuav ua li cas puas cabbage nyob rau hauv ib tug npau suav? Yog li ntawd, yog tias koj ua npau suav ntawm zaub qhwv, tsis tas yuav mus qhib ib tug ntau ntawm cov npau suav-phau ntawv tam sim ntawd thiab saib lub ntsab lug tag nrho cov ntaub ntawv uas tau los ntawm lawv. Nws yog tsim nyog yuav tau nco qab tag nrho cov pw tsaug zog ib puag ncig thiab tag nrho cov teeb meem no thiab tsuas yog tom qab ib tug meej tsom xam ntawm tag nrho cov tag nrho cov ntsiab lus thiab feem ntau tiag tiag li npau suav imagery yuav tsim cov lus xaus thiab cov kev xav nyob rau hauv kev tshawb fawb ntawm cov lus teb rau lo lus nug: "Yuav ua li cas npau suav qhwv."